I had another Dom contact me a couple of months ago, and wanted to introduce me to a younger slave, he said he thought I could help her with some issues she was having. Randy is about 15 yrs my senior, and I have a great deal of respect for him. Yes I do turn to older Dominants at times for advice.
This slave E I will call her was really over weight, now when I say over weight, I am talking 5’2 250lbs . She was bad about putting things off, her life was just out of control. Randy contacted me because I am a fixer. I love opening a can of putty, and forming it into a piece of fine of art. She had no problem with wanting to have sex, although she was really not my type, I wanted to help her.
I cannot believe she was able to play me, more so Randy he was just as shocked. Randy had not had sex with her either, I suppose for the same reasons I had, but to be married and just willing to spread and not give it a second thought, something is wrong.
E was very cold, stay offish , sex was just sex no emotions. I am guessing this is a result of early abuse, she had experienced as a child and a very dysfunctional family.
Well she spent the night, on a Saturday, I cooked dinner for her, I grilled a London broil wrapped in Bacon.A little bondage later that night, but no sex. I was not into her that way, and chances are I would of never been.
Then I called one day and got her voice mail, this is E last name residents, hmm what the last name was different. so a little research and this girl is married.
Before me there was a Dom I will call Hawk, earlier him and I had spoken at an event, and I told him what a piece of shit he was, because he too was married going behind his wife’s back. What a fool I was. I did call him and apologize, which for me was really difficult to swallow
Her husband would go to work at 2.30, and Hawk would arrive at 3pm. Before Hawk there were 3 more.To make things worse. she had a 4 month old son, and the two had just bought a house.
So I knew where her husband worked , I called and left a message, and soon my phone rang, and dead silence on the other end as I explained what was going on.
E had been married less than a year, had been living with him for 4 yrs, unreal, incredible.
I spoke with Randy about it, and he was just as much in shock, even the Dom who was her mentor, had no idea that she was married.
Lyn who I saw for almost a year, was married, at the end I felt guilty, more so when her husband showed up at my house, and he sat at the table crying, Lyn sat there with a cold look on her face, not a care in the world.
I do not usually pry into someones business unless I am lied to and I catch it. I know some need to be private, but just be straight up.
If your not happy in your marriage, leave, don’t drag your family through your mess, because your not happy.
This is where the lack of communication comes in, or not willing to be open. Back in the day I saw a lot of married women, but it had nothing to do with sex. These were older women, who had communicated with their spouse about their needs, and were rejected. Which I do not understand. Here you have a woman who is willing to do anything, and the man just dismisses their needs.
Even if the couple agrees to let someone else in, it can put a strain on the relationship, many times it can cause problems and unneeded stress, on the relationship. More so jealousy, It really takes a special couple to let someone else in, more difficult if there are two Dominants.