BDSM VS KINK II

On my last post I believe I looked over a few key points. While the Dominant is in full control of not only himself but his surroundings . The kinkster on the other hand is just that a Kinkster. The Kinkster is only interested in Kinky play. The Kinkster thinks being a Dominant is just about barking out orders and the female is suppose to just follow. The Kinkster will make unrealistic demands, and not understand why the submissive cannot or will not follow through. The Kinkster is quick to lose their temper, scream yell call names. The Kinkster can lose control while playing, not really caring if they hurt someone. It is easy to confuse ones self when it comes to the lifestyle.

The Kinkster who wants to Dominate and thinks he is a Dominant will make unrealistic demands of the submissive. Such as phone sex, make them stop in a parking lot to masturbate, demand videos, pics. Rules are based on sex and not for the good of the submissive. Most are very controlling, and demand things knowing the submissive cannot complete. They will punish for no reason, or change the rules midstream. If the submissive is not experienced it can cause much harm until they catch on to the game.

The Kinkster will make demands when meeting, yea short skirt no panties. Demand sex on the first meeting. Offer a Collar thirty minutes after meeting the submissive.

We all know about the Dominant. In full control, puts the submissive first. Does not make demands that cannot be met. Rules are based on structure , and for the good of the submissive. There is no yelling, screaming losing control. He does not change rules just so he can punish.

We all know this, I just wish more would be more careful when they are getting to know a new Dominant, so the two could be separated..

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