Do We Really Train A Slave
We always hear I am in training, or this is the way I train my Slave, but is training the correct word. Do we really train someone? Is the word train really correct?
Arianna and I attended the monthly MAST meeting, Masters And Slaves Together. Friday night. We do not get to attend often due to my work schedule so we jumped at the chance. I also believe it is good for Arianna to interact with others those being Submissive and Slaves.
So we meet a new potential partner, hoping to start a new long lasting relationship. If you look at the over all population, we in the lifestyle are really small in numbers. So finding that one can take time. Being careful in searching for the one, making sure we have all the right connections, and not settling for less.
The topic at MAST Friday night was Masters and Slaves during the Roman Empire and what the difference was then and today. I find the topic to be very interesting and everyone took part in the conversation.
When a Slave meets a new Dom, he explains he is going to train her to fit his needs, I have used the same words, but recently I have been thinking, is the word Train really the correct word. The first ninety Days are the tell , tell of the relationship, the first ninety days will tell if you the Slave really desires such a relationship.
One thing that just kills me is when I hear a sub or a slave say they have been instructed to do anal training while alone. Most of the time the Dominant wants pics or a video, I am guessing he just wants to jack-off. I know in some twenty years I have never made such a request. Maybe it is because I am a hands on Man.
Something else that kills me is when I hear another Dom say I can train you to like pain. Get the fuck out. There are some who are Masochist, but if you are not into receiving pain today, the odds are it is not going to change tomorrow, or the next day. Some will take pain if they know it is pleasing, taking the bad with the good trying to see if the good out weighs the bad. You cannot train someone to like pain.
Just as I told Arianna all you have to do for the first ninety days is Listen, watch, and observe. Take in as much information as you can. So in reality the slave is Adapting to their new life. The Slave is adapting to their new Masters ways, their rules and protocols.
So is the word training really the proper word. Could the word adjusting be right ? The Slave does adapt to their Masters ways of life, the Slave does Adjust to their Masters way of life. On the other side I could see training as well. This is not something I just thought of, I have been thinking on this for a long while.
So do you train your Slave to suck cock? Nah you can tell her how and what you like. Do you train your Slave to fuck ? Nah you may express a certain way you like to fuck but it is really not training.
Maybe it is training, after all we are taking their life and changing them into someone we need. Be it communication , fucking, sucking cock, the way they dress, walk, sit. All of this becomes a habit.
So do we really train?