Good Dominants Give Good Aftercare

This is a reblog about aftercare. My good friend Franco Bolli, which he reblogged from Luna, now I am reblogging to help get the word out about aftercare and the need.

One Slaves Perspective

Atercare is more important than you think.  There are a lot of emotions involved in submitting to someone, handing over total control.   You need to learn when to baby your submissive.  We aren’t just there to do the housework, tend to your needs, and hand out sexual favors like Halloween candy.    There may be a lot of times where we want to be used, made to feel like your prized possession, controlled, and dominated but we also want to feel like you respect us as a person.  We need to know that you will take care of us both emotionally and physically, because how else can we trust you enough to just hand over the reigns and ‘do as we’re told’?

Predominantly in a 24/7 Master/slave dynamic the transfer of control is something that happens all the time but mostly like an underground current.  It remains there in your daily…

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4 Responses to “Good Dominants Give Good Aftercare”

  1. Thank you for spreading this 🙂

  2. siciliansiren Says:

    Sir ….. would you mind reading my latest post? I am so lost and could use help. http://siciliansiren.wordpress.com/2013/12/19/testing-my-submission-am-i-strong-enough/
    I asked Arianna to do the same. I have no one else to look to.

    Thank you from the bottom of my little submissive heart.

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