Being A Dominant Is An Art
Some twenty years ago I was talking to a Slave and she made the comment I am a blank canvas just paint me. I was like what the fuck are you talking about. I just want the pussy so I can move on.That is all I cared about and nothing more. I wanted to use and move on to the next.
Today I understand those words, and looking back if I was just not thinking with my cock, well who knows. Today I am in a good place. I am very happy and content.
A blank canvas is a good place to start. You can paint your vision. You can pint your life. You the Dominant are in full control of what you paint, and if you paint well, then your submissive will surely follow.
Before you can begin to paint though there are steps you have to take before the first stroke of the brush, you have to have a clear vision. In order to have a clear and understanding vision you have to know the one you are painting. You have to know them inside and out. It is kinda like being nano , your tiny and you ar able to enter ones brain and it is like your walking around. You have to have a full understanding of who you are going to paint.
Put the BDSM aside for a few , you want to know the submissive as a person, their likes, dislikes but more so their needs. You have to know what makes them think the way they do. What makes them happy, what makes them sad or angry. You are going to be painting all of this. You are going to take this blank canvas and your going to paint your life. Your going to paint something that fits your needs and wants. You are going to mold the perfect submissive.
If while being in the nano mode if you skip anything your painting will not be complete. You have to want to take on such a task. You can buy a painting and hang it on the wall, and admire it, but to paint and complete yourself is a total new admiration . You can say Yea I did that. I molded my submissive, I painted her. She is a true sign of perfection.
If we are not able to access such information, what is the point? Being a Dominant that is what we do we get inside their brain. We do this so we can gain control, we have to know what makes them tick, and we have to learn to control, without control it is a losing battle.
Then comes the negotiation because most of the time the submissive will add their input. The submissive has needs as well. so while painting we must consider everything, it surely cannot be a one way street, even a slave gives and should be able to give their thoughts.
Being a Dominant is an art, but it is an art that very few can Master, it is an art that very few want to follow through with, and it is an art that very few want to complete. You only paint half of the picture and you wonder why things are not working out. It is failing because you did not complete the painting.
Complete what you start and you can have anything and everything you ever wanted.