Living With A No Rights Slave
In BDSM, Master/slave or M/s is a relationship in which one individual (the submissive) gives to another (the dominant) ultimate authority over them. It is a form of dominance and submission. The participants may be of any gender or sexual orientation. The relationship is structured in terms of slavery, because of the association of the term with ownership of the slave and the rights of a master to their body, as property or chattel. The dominant is often called Master if male, or Mistress if female.
The owner/slave relationship is entered into on a consensual basis, without the legal force of historical or modern non-consensual slavery, which is forbidden by the laws of most countries.
Laying in the bed yesterday watching TV Arianna asked me if I wanted to feel her pussy, she had just shaving it. She way laying on her stomach with one leg cocked over and I reached down and I felt how smooth it was. Sliding my fingers up and down until I could feel the wetness, and the lips began to part. I placed my forearm across the back of her neck pressing down, as I slid one finger in slowly pumping in and out, then another, then finely 3 had three fingers in knuckle deep pressing down harder on her neck and pumping three fingers in and out of her as hard as I could.
It dawned on me at that time, I could do anything I wanted, Anything and Arianna would go along with it and she would want to. I pulled my dripping fingers out and I grabbed a handful of hair pulling her to the edge of the bed. Her wet lips lay open and I took my cock and rubbed it up and down feeling how wet she was and I pushed in , as I started pumping you could hear how wet she was, my cock and pubic hair was soaked, and I reached down and grabbed her collar pulling her up. I said I own you bitch, then taking her hand and putting it on her clit she began to rub. I pumper for another ten minutes. Once I stopped, I grabbed a hand full of hair pulling her to the floor. Hands behind your back NOW. she knew then to open her mouth. I shoved my cock in, one hand on her head and one on her chin and I started pumping. I could feel the back of her throat as my cock bottomed out. This went on for abut five minutes. Stopping I grabbed her collar pulling her to the bed I instructed her to get in the middle as I crawled on top and I pushed in, I told her to squeeze , Less than a minute I pulled out and Arianna finished jacking me off I love the feel of her hands around my cock.
I just wanted to share that really for no reason. The other day I had talked about, what if something happened to me? What if down the road I passed on. Okay well I made sure Arianna will be taking care of if something happens to me.
I had spoken about how back in the day a Master would choose someone to step in when something happened well today it is much different, because the majority of men today in the lifestyle are not as committed and many do not want the type of responsibility I have, which is really not what it seems. Once you get into the flow of things it is just daily Maintenance..
Even though I agreed to meet Arianna’s needs it was her to had to adapt to my world. I explained to her that she had to forget anything and everything she was taught about the lifestyle, which was not a lot…
I perfect vision of a Slave was total solitude, on a chain and leash. Kneeling at the table at dinner time, sitting on the floor while I watch TV, and sex when and where I wanted it no questions asked. The truth is I have most of that. I walk Arianna follows no questions asked. I know what she can handle and what she cannot.
I myself really do not have anyone I would call a true friend, I have a female submissive who Ive known for years who lives near the west coast of Florida, and Two Doms, one of which has been a mentor for years. I still need that interaction with other Dominants, that is my time where I can be me, I can speak freely and openly, but no one I would trust to take the reins when it comes to Arianna, I am way to possessive of my property.
People say it is healthy to argue, you have to argue to have a healthy relationship, I disagree with that I believe if you have the right communication you can talk as adults. When you argue you say things that are hurtful, names and at times it gets physical. So I believe it can be avoided.
Symbols and rituals
Various forms of symbolism are sometimes used to affirm the owner/slave relationship. These include the wearing the owner’s collar, being registered in a slave register, adopting (sometimes legally changing to) a name chosen by the owner, or engaging in a public declaration or ritualized ceremony of some type.
Some people draw up a slave contract that defines the relationship in explicit detail. These contracts may also deal with domestic arrangements (such as cleanliness, home duties) and interpersonal relationship matters (such as issues of deference, language, etc.), besides the sexual arrangements. Typically, they would provide that the master has the only say in all matters relating to the body and manners of the slave, including clothing, underwear, social relations outside of the arrangement, etc. However, these contracts are understood as not having any legal weight and are not intended to be used in a court of law, but are an understanding and agreement between the individuals.
In some traditional rituals, after signing a slave contract, many people celebrate the commitment to the relationship with a collaring ceremony, which can be simple or elaborate and friends are usually invited. The slave then wears a collar, which symbolizes their status. The collar may be a piece of neckwear, or may be a bracelet or other piece of jewellery that symbolizes slave status. These collars are generally not removed unless or until the relationship is dissolved, although some slaves are permitted to wear a more subdued (or less obtrusive) one outside of the home — for example during work or in social situations with people who may feel uncomfortable by them.
I did not think we needed a contract. I do know a Master who has one that is about 25 pages long. I am not sure why one would need a contract between a Master and Slave if you do not live together.
Arianna and I had a verbal contract, it may seem kinda cocky but I knew once I started training her and I saw how adaptive she was , I knew it would be hard for her to pack up and leave. I would imagine it would be that way for any Slave.
Slave training is a BDSM activity usually involving a consensual power exchange between two people taking on the roles of a master or mistress and a slave. Typically this involves changing the slave’s behavior in a manner that is pleasing to the master or mistress, perhaps instructing the slave to follow a set of rules that the master or mistress has set out.
Slave training is a learning process both for the slave (or submissive) and for the master or mistress, or dominant. Training will usually be set out and defined clearly before it begins. The master or mistress will teach the slave how to speak, act and think in a way that is pleasing to them. The slave, in return, gets pleasure from being able to make their master or mistress happy. Or, the slave gets a reward like food, a bed, etc.
In some instances, in more extreme relationships, it may also involve some forms of aversion training. This could include use of spanking, cropping or clamping to encourage compliance, and to permit the slave to find an excuse for complying in their own minds. If the “slave” being trained is also a masochist, they may enjoy painful punishment, therefore punishment may need to be psychological or emotional, to create the unpleasant result that the punishment requires
So I began training, things were flowing smooth, and at times I would even catch myself thinking this cannot be happening, there is noway Arianna is adapting so fast, and is adjusting so well. At this time she still did not fully trust me and she made it known. While she followed I still had much to do to earn her trust fully.
While training I added a few rules monthly as I added rules I added protocols, and things just fell into place. There was absolutely so resistance at all. I had never met someone with the willingness to adapt so easy and truly have the need to submit..
While many can interpret a no limit slave differently, it is what you want out of the relationship. How much do you really care for your proprty, your slave and in some cases your wife……
Maybe this made a little bit of sense.