Butt Plugs , Submission And Other Shit

It is not hard to bring submission out, as a matter of fact it is really pretty easy, and it can be done with out any abuse , a lot of kink and fun.

Although I have not done it yet Rope Bras are very nice and easily concealed with the right shirt or blouse. I was told by a slave once it made her feel vulnerable, to know she had a rope bra on. There are videos on Youtube that will help you with the process, or just have at it and try out your imagination…. Take her out to dinner, to a movie, a walk down town…

Rope panties work well, with a nice dress on, does not have to be tight, but the feeling of being bound while out in public. The same with the rope Bra it is the thought of being bound.

Also something else I have yet to do but is high on my bucket list, is the remote controlled butterfly vibrator. Yes it can be worn in public, or even over at your in laws house, { evil grin}  You the male has full control. Yea out eating at outback steak house, and you turn it on, and you continue talking like nothing is going on.

My favorite is the Butt plug, I do not make Arianna wear hers as much as I should, but then again things are going to change up a little. A very submissive feeling, even more so if the Dominant lubes it up and inserts it himself, a very loose dress works just fine, panties or no panties. Yea they will complain about getting wet just put a towel on their seat while your driving. I would think that thing would need to air out at times anyway.

Feeding your Slave or Submissive, while you sit at the table, your property is on the floor next to you, you may provide a fork, but it is not needed. The feeling of being equal goes away pretty fast.

Corner time, I seldom spank as a form of punishment, a Slave such as Arianna would easily become confused. Being able to separate play from punishment, I am also sure she is not the only one who feels the same.. To punish should be a very serious offense, not because the sub forgot to send pics, come on dude really? Or maybe she got busy at work and forgot to text. As far as rules 20 max at times that number may even be lower, depending on what type of structure your provide, what type of protocols, and rituals….Most Rituals and Protocols go hand in hand. So my way of thinking when it comes to punishing is Corner time, and being exposed. You know if a rule is broken they feel bad enough anyway, but to have to stand in a corner exposed and thinking about what they did wrong, I believe is way more effective than spanking.

Public scolding in a private setting. This form of punishment can be very effective but it depends on how well your submissive handles humiliation. In public in a private setting this form of punishment can be very effective, by a public setting take a walk down beside railroad tracks, stop and instruct to strip, and kneel.  I do have mixed feelings about this form of punishment but I have done it before, as well as outdoor bondage.

Just a few more rants…

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The Butterfly can be worn in public, and with a remote can be a lot of fun.

corner time

Corner time being exposed is a very good form of punishment..

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The Dom inserting the butt plug before going out, can make her feel very submissive.
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Butt plug worn out in public no panties. You can always put your hand on her ass and give it a little push..

The rope bra is very effective as well and I think its erotic.
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The rope bra minus the ball gag, you would not believe how well hidden it is. even for women with big breast…..

The public scolding is a very effect way to punish, it is not that I wont spank, but I use spanking for very serious infractions.
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8 Responses to “Butt Plugs , Submission And Other Shit”

  1. “It is not hard to bring submission out, as a matter of fact it is really pretty easy, and it can be done with out any abuse , a lot of kink and fun.”

    So, true… I still marvel at how easily I respond when I am not in that mindset (due to work or other duties) and he brings me back with some simple words or actions. It’s truly amazing to me.

    “I seldom spank as a form of punishment, a Slave such as Arianna would easily become confused. Being able to separate play from punishment, I am also sure she is not the only one who feels the same.”

    I’ve gotten punished once since we’ve been together, as you said it is reserved for very serious offenses and He doesn’t spank me for punishment. The masochist in me makes it hard. Still with that said I can differentiate between a spanking for pleasure and one that is meant for punishment. It just feels different.

    Great post Mr. Vile.
    xox

    • Wow thank you for your awesome comment, I stumbled across your blog this am , and I shall visit much more.
      I am glad you could relate to what I was trying to say.

      Yea you cant spank a masochist, does not work

      • *blush* Thank you just sharing my thoughts with you. 🙂

        Thank you for stopping by our blog. We sort of beat to our own drum as we navigate these D/s waters.
        Doing our own thing and learning along the way but having fun in the process. 🙂
        xox

      • That is all that matters. Being happy and having fun. The kink just gets better and more interesting.
        Thank you

      • Sorry for the late reply…
        You are so right… It’s all about being happy and having fun as well as being fulfilled. 🙂
        Life is too short…
        xox

      • Much love hope you had an awesome 4th

      • Thanks you for your well wishes. I did… 3 fun days. Tomorrow back to reality. 🙂
        xox

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    Boom old Times

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