I Have No Empathy For The Ashley Madison Users

Busted , Ive always said you always get caught and you do no matter how sneaky you are or think you are, if your cheating chances are your partner already knows it…

There are things I do not understand , one being if you were to travel through a Black Hole in space could you live, or what is on the other side, I am sure I am not alone on that one. Another those who make the same mistake over and over again thinking the outcome will be different.

The one thing I do not understand is why people cheat, I cannot even comprehend those thoughts nor the actions or why someone would act on them.

The different blogs Ive read most of the time the sex is lousy, it sucks , it stinks, there is no kink. He cant get me off, she cant suck a dick to save someones life.

The answer is really simple , fucking leave , pack your shit say good bye and move in with your fuck buddy providing he or she has a job.

Sitting in the bed at night while your partner is sleeping you grab your credit card and boom you are a member of Ashley Madison, you are now ready to fuck around. Now if the tables were turned on you , you would be a mad mother fucker, you would be ready to kick someones ass, but it is different because it is you..

Why do married men cheat but not leave? Good question but most are momma’s boys, the wifey takes care of the home and the kids. He is happy but she wont give up the ass, she wont suck his dick, or he cant smack her around and get away with it, he cant call her his little whore, so the next best thing to do is BOOM Ashley Madison , which is another thing I don’t understand because now your paying for pussy three times. One your wife , two Ashley then three your fuck toy.
Or maybe just maybe it is wifey fucking around and she falls under the above, she is the one fucking around because she is not happy.. The male is not going to leave because it would cost him money, money he is not willing to part with.

I do however understand it would be way to much work to sit down and communicate, talk things out , talk about your needs. Maybe your husband or wife is kinky ?

I have never paid for pussy nor would I join a dating site and pay just to get a piece of ass. These dudes that cheat are not men, they are scum, scum like earth worms.

When a woman who is married cheats she does not leave because the dude she is seeing cant keep her up, or hes not willing to take her 6 kids, and why would she want to move out of her trailer or if she is high class maybe she lives in a double wide who knows…

My philosophy is if your not happy get the fuck out, because once your home your still fucking miserable. Having to keep two different cell’s if your smart which is why Tiger got his ass beat. That seems to be more of a fucking headache , way to much drama..

A submissive was telling me a month or so ago she was seeing a Dominant who had a submissive but wanted to see her but was not going to tell her. All I could do is just sit and stare, I said nothing because I was trying to understand all the stupid.
That is no Dominant , no Dominant a real Dominant would act in such a manner.. Using a title to get pussy

Arianna and I had talked about bringing another submissive into the house, well that has not worked out for now and it may never happen, but if I wanted to I mean really wanted to I would bring someone in and just say deal with it she is here to stay. She knows this all to well, I don’t need to go behind her back..

I know I said I was going to change, but this Ashley Madison thing has got me busting out laughing , and to make this really funny , most of the profiles on Ashley’s site are fake. Most of the profiles that are up are fake and was put up by Madison employes…. So men who were cheating were paying on an average of 250.00 dollars..


So Ashley Madison said they had around 36.000.000 users which is incredible but from what Ive read it is more like 15.000.000 million and with our population around 320 million that is a lot of cheating fuckers. It also means there are a lot of stupid fuckers because half of the profiles were fake, and they were paying money trying to hookup and that person was fake…

My train of thought is that is way to much work to try and get some pussy. Then after you contact them it is a waiting game and no one is going to contact you back so you spend days , weeks and months repeating the same stupid.

Now all these people are pissed off because Ashley was hacked , but who were the ones giving their real name and credit card information? Who’s fault was it really?

I really do not get it… Maybe someone who is married and cheating can explain why?

dr_evil Am I understanding Ashley Madison was hacked?


21 Responses to “I Have No Empathy For The Ashley Madison Users”

  1. I completely agree that you should ALWAYS either turn your attentions toward working on the relationship or get out before you seek something outside. However, I don’t hold the same contempt you do towards cheaters. First and foremost, I have been in a very happy 20 year marriage and neither one of us has EVER cheated. I was cheated on in my first marriage, but that one was doomed from the start. We were 18, knew everything there was to know about life and he didn’t realize you had to stop dating when you got married, but that is another story. I don’t know that there is ever a good reason to cheat and there are a lot of really shitty reasons to cheat, but I would judge each one on a case by case basis. Blanket statements of anything, other than pedophiles, I try to avoid. Life can come in so many different forms and circumstances, I just can’t condemn everyone without additional knowledge.

    • I agree with you as far as what your saying, but if a woman has built a home, and there is no doubt most are built by women with a family, and she is cheated on without her knowing it, there is no reason.
      I believe if your not happy then leave, because when you get caught and you will, you drag your whole family and kids into the mess and it is not fair..
      I was miserable for 9 long years, the sex sucked she did not cook and never cleaned house, but I remained loyal til the day I left…
      If someone is cheating there is a much deeper problem..

      • I totally agree with the deeper problem. I also agree with the need to leave rather than cheat. I just don’t think that everyone who cheats is a complete scumbag. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings. It really made me think this morning and I love that. 🙂

  2. marriage isn’t always easy but if you want to cheat just leave the marriage before then. Simple as that. It will save everyone a lot of pain and money along the way.

  3. The other lesson from this which no one is really talking about much is that what you put out in the cyber world never really goes away. Most if not all of the people on that list paid Ashley Madison $20.00 not only to delete their account but to erase the data, We can see how well that worked.

  4. mysirsvixen Says:

    Good grief. I have no sympathy either. My marriage was dead, lifeless, and going nowhere despite years of trying. Yes, I could have had an affair. I could have had dozens ( as did my husband, it was “easier” than trying to fix the problem. But I didn’t. I stayed and kept trying. Only when I knew things were never going to get better did I leave. Yes, I gave up my house, a car, an innumerable other things to the man that was cheating on ME. I just needed OUT. I’ve never been on dating sites, never hooked up via Craigslist, or Fet. I took the high road, and I left with my head held high. If your marriage is bad enough for you to cheat then leave it and live honestly. Sadly most marriages aren’t that bad, it’s just that one partner is selfish and childish, and gets pleasure from sneaking around and having secrets.They won’t leave the marriage because they need the safety and security that it provides but they want their secrets too. It’s epidemic and folks at AM brilliantly figured a way to cash in on millions of American’s addiction. I have no empathy for the folks at AM either. They are as delusional as their clients.

    • It is way to much work for the two to sit down and communicate, trying to work through the bad. The easy way is to cheat and just pack up and leave

      • mysirsvixen Says:

        It’s even too much work to leave and most don’t actually want to leave, the men want the wife who takes care of the house and kids, but they also want a slut in the bedroom, or some diversity but they are too lazy to try and create it with their own wives.

      • Bam you are on it, and the cheater thinks it makes sense, and when caught they some how try to justify their actions..

      • You are so so right, if the male married a nerd and knew who and what she was or is, he should just suck it up and go with the flow

  5. Absolutely NOTHING justifies cheating. I wholeheartedly believe that if one’s marriage was so terrible, they would leave. But many want to have their cake and eat it too. Also, children being involved does not make cheating okay. The children may still have both parents under the same roof, and although they may not fully understand the situation, they know that something isn’t right. And it teaches them that cheating is okay in certain circumstances. I don’t think that is right.

  6. I also read that +85% of the profiles on Madison are men. In my opionion cheaters are cowards and liars. I have been cheated on and I can tell you it hurts beyond words. You lose your trust and self-esteem and that is tragedy. it happened with two relations and the ‘fear’ it will happen again stays. It becomes more difficult to trust. There are the cheaters but being cheated on is an horrible experience.

  7. All of these dating sites are the same. 90% guys trying to meet the few girls on the site and most of the dudes are just trying to get laid. Women don’t really need these sites. I’m of the mind that any woman can go out on any given night and get laid if she really wants. Men have more difficulty doing this. Therefore they jump on these sites that they think are filled with women just wanting to get laid and lambaste the women with messages. Ashley Madison exposed the truth of this.

    I have always been of the same mind as you. If you are really that unhappy then leave. The biggest issue is that couples find talking about, then fixing their issues too difficult. I guess it’s easier to just cheat thinking they won’t get caught.

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