Do You Just Please , What About The Kink
Lets face it we are living the dream, the lifestyle allows us to be free , it allows us to be who and what we are.
When your Dominant enjoys things you do not , do you do them anyway just to please, or does it please you knowing you have made him happy ?
Do you follow rules , protocols just to please or do you get satisfaction out of knowing you have done well ?
Do you dress as your told , does it make you happy your owner is pleased ?
The list can actually go on and on and the longer we are together the longer the list can get.
Are you completely honest prior to entering a relationship when it comes to your needs , or do you just go with the flow ?
If you meet someone and the need is Anal , and that is something your against would you follow through just to please or would you keep that as a hard limit and risk the relationship?
The pain side of things do you except pain just to please or do you take it because you truly enjoy it ? Are you in fear of losing the relationship if you do not play along ?
Is your Dominant available 24/7 if not why ? This is something that is very important not only for support , but your communication , and training, your Dominant being available 24/7 is your right.
Your kink may not be your Doms , or your Doms kink may not be yours, are you going to give in and do things you do not like.
where do you draw the lines when it comes to your limits or are they really limits? Are your limits just set in your mind ? Have you tried what you call your limits ? Many times once in a long term relationship what were your limits most of the time become no limits ?
How deep is your submission ? Is it bedroom only ? Is it when your Dominant is around ? Is it 24/7 ? Maybe you live in a TPE Total Power Exchange ? Are you a submissive , a Baby Girl , a Pet , A slave?
How serious are you about your submission ? Is serving someone a true need for you ? Will giving up control put you in the place you need to be?
All of the above are questions you need to ask yourself , and knowing exactly what your needs are will help you be in a better place..