The Collar

The Collar to me is very sacred to me , it is not something that is given just because  it is earned.

When a couple gets married the two exchange vows , then exchange rings , this seals their fate , and love and now there is a piece of paper that says Husband and wife.

The collar is almost the same as the above but it runs deeper. The collar is a sign of ownership , one giving and one taking. Giving up control of ones life and one taking control of ones life.

If you just give a collar and no reasoning behind it , then it means nothing but if the collar is earned it takes on a whole different meaning.

I myself used two different collars , one was a collar of protection , this was used when going out so others would know the slave was with me , then the actual collar. The collar was earned over a period of 6 months.

You as a slave should have a deep feeling to earn your collar , you should want to strive to earn your collar. If it is just giving to you what meaning would it have ?

 

 

6 Responses to “The Collar”

  1. sweetnsassygirl@gmail.com Says:

    I like this

    On Mon, Jan 7, 2019, 6:57 AM thekinkyworldofvile thekinkyworldofvile posted: “The Collar to me is very sacred to me , it is > not something that is given just because it is earned. When a couple gets > married the two exchange vows , then exchange rings , this seals their fate > , and love and now there is a piece of paper that says Hu” >

  2. Trish nielson Says:

    This is beautifully stated. And I concur with the sound thinking as well. I love this,

  3. I too am very passionate about the principles of Collaring. I have given workshops on the subject in an effort to educate more on the options, and importance.

    It goes back to something you’ve said before.. the importance of getting to really know the person you are committing to. The collar is a way of recognizing the important milestones of that discovery and connection.

    My slave went through all three collars.. consideration, training, final. We will celebrate her final every year, in July with a party for all friends.

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