Everybody wants to write a book today. I have even been asked why I don’t move to a Dot.com site so I could start making some money. Well its not money that I am interested in. Although I do like money, but if I did that then it becomes a Job, it becomes something I have to do. Blogging is a release for me, it is where I can go and be me. I can share my thoughts and my life experiences, although there are somethings I have not shared because I am not to happy about some of my past. It is not that I ever hurt anyone because I have never crossed that line, and I never did anything that was not asked of me, just somethings I am not proud of. This was when I first became active in the lifestyle.
Thekinkyworldofvile this is where I can come and hide in my own little world, fuck I can be me, not that I worry what others think, it is just a release.
What the collar means, how you earn a collar and know it is just not giving to you.
Rules and protocols and what they mean…………
I am also against abuse in case you have not caught on yet, but I am sure many of you know this already. I am against any type of abuse when it comes to women, in the lifestyle or no. It does not matter where you are from, it does not matter what your color is, it does not matter if your gay, straight or Bi. You are still humans…..
I preach against stupid, I preach against stupid everyday. Most men think I spend much of my time bashing them and that is not the truth. I do however Bash those who are married to vanilla women and you cant get your wife to suck your cock so you hunt out those who will. You have to do so because you cannot run your own home. Your really not a man, and you never comment. Almost 200.000 visitors and 5.000 comments and not one man has left a comment to justify why he fucks around on his wife and family. Or how you sit at the dinner table and look at your child in the eye, knowing what your doing behind their back. Okay enough of that because I am getting upset here.
Over 800 post and a couple of re-blogs and I have so much more I want to talk about, so much more I want to cover, and what I am trying to do is reach out to those who are new to the lifestyle and maybe just maybe I can lead you down the right path, so you do not have to experience the abuse so many have. Physical abuse is bad , but mental abuse is a Mother Fucker, it stays with you for years, and the scars are much deeper, bones heal mental not so much. The constant mind fuck abuse. Then once out of that relationship your now scared like a puppy who was beaten.
So I want to write a book, not so much for profit, but to maybe try to let people into my world a bit more. Maybe allow others to see a different side of me.
Talk more about my travels my first interactions with BDSM , how I knew I was different as a teen, my relationships , training , and how training is different depending on the submissive or the slave. Because what works for one does not work for the other. What to look out for when it comes to looking for a Dom, or when meeting a Dom. Safety when it comes to play, even impact play where to hit and where to not hit. I could cover so much.
Someone was suppose to help me, because number one I do not have a clue on where to start. She has some family problems come up and family comes first. Someone else was recommended but she now has her hands full with a huge move coming up, and last but no least my writing skills are not the best.
A kinky book, covering everything from anal sex, to fisting, face fucking, bondage, control, how to train who knows where it could go.
Spotting a predator, being able to spot a fake Dom from the beginning, how to avoid all the heartache it could be a book that never ends.
I guess what I am looking for is a co-writer, someone who is willing to step in and help. Not a long book I was thinking like 1500 pages or so maybe a little longer… Short story
Any Idea ?