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Humiliation As A Training Tool

Posted in abuse, bdsm, Dildo, Humiliation, session, sex, slave, submissive, training your slave on April 7, 2013 by thekinkyworldofvile

A long time ago I really got off on Humiliation, it was almost a everyday need, be it public or private.

I remember I was out with sherri some twenty years ago, I had her in a real short leather skirt. I had put pussy clamps on each lip, and hung fishing weights on them. You could clearly see them when she walked. I pulled up in front of a 7/11 handed her a huge vibrator and told her to go ask the clerk if he had batteries for it. The store was packed, and you could see the weights swinging back and forth. She gave it a thought for a second, opened the door and walked in. Five minutes later she walked back out with a bag. I would have cherri pick me up from my house, and she drove about twenty miles nude, then back to her place.

During one session I invited two friends over a Domme, and a friend of mine who was a cop. I had the Domme insert a tampon into her pussy. I blindfolded cherri, and made her eat the Domme out. I picked up the string and made cherri pull it out with her teeth. She really thought she was on her period,  Total humiliation.

Today I am more relaxed and in control, I do not get off on the humiliation as much, but I have learned it is a very good training tool. If you use humiliation on a daily basis just for kicks, it will break down the submissive, along with what self esteem she has. What we as Dominant are suppose to do is build up, and keep at a level playing field. When it comes to a submissive self esteem plays a huge role, and it can I believe also help with mild depression.

I do feel that humiliation is needed at times, it is a reality check, reminds one of their place, keeps them humble. It also makes one think before acting or speaking.

I have used a couple of forms of humiliation on Arianna, either during play or just having sex, a spur of the moment things. Each time it was a couple of days later or just in general conversation it came up.  To keep one humble is to keep one in their place. I am Master you are Slave.

Sherri got off on humiliation, in the beginning it was fun, I was really getting off on it, but as time went by it became more of a job or chore because I always had to out do the last visit. After about a year it was no longer fun, but I continued because it was what she needed.

I never use humiliation as a form of punishment, because once you bring down you have to bring back up. If a rule was broken then the slave should be punished accordingly , humiliation should play no part. Just my opinion.

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Then it was for my kicks I could really almost get off on humiliation.

So I’ve been seeing a married woman, Our Outdoor Bondage

Posted in ass play, bdsm, Bondage, butt plug, clit, control, Dildo, Floggers, Humiliation, married, Mind Fuck, outdoor bondage, pussy, sadist, Spanking, submissive on June 7, 2012 by thekinkyworldofvile

Our relationship is really awesome ,  she comes over on Friday and leave early Sunday morning so she can make church, yea I said church. A Jehovah Witness at that. Married 23 years 2 kids, and now the guilt is setting in. One thing I never thought I would feel is Guilt.

Even though she recently moved out, her husband is going nuts, crazy, pretty upsetting to see a grown man cry, like a little bitch. I shouldn’t feel bad because he is a piece of crap, still I feel bad for the separation of the family.

Back in the day I use to see a lot of married woman, but it was not based on sex, more on BDSM, bondage, spanking, and humiliation. These were woman who were not able to communicate there needs to there husbands, they were happy, with everything else just the D’s was missing…

Saturday morning 5.30 am I had been up for about an hr, I walked in the bedroom, get your ass up now, pulling her by the hair, get your ass in the shower. You have 10 minutes and 8 are gone.

She walked in the bedroom, I said get dressed skirt tank top no bra tennis shoes. I put a blindfold on her, then I used body tape to hold it in place, I said lets go. She said Sir I have not eaten yet, I replied shut the fuck up lets go, I started walking out I kelp talking to her she was bumping into everything. Once outside I said get in the truck , only took her about 5 minutes to find it.

Once on the road she was asking where are we going, I said nothing, she said talk to me. We drove for about a half hour.  I drove down a dirt road for about 15 minutes. Once I stopped I said get out.

I picked up the back pack and said put this on, she asked me why, I replied again shut the fuck up. After what seemed forever the pack was on. I said follow me, I was talking so she could hear my voice. She fell a couple of times and asked for my help, I continued talking. Come on woman.

We had walked for about 5 minutes I said stop. I looked around and said this is perfect. Drop the back pack, Again she said Sir what are we doing. Cant this bitch shut up, I took the back pack, and pulled out a ball gag. I put it on her and I said strip now leave your shoes on.

Once she was nude, I began to unpack, I said spread your legs wide hands on your head, I tied one rope to her left ankle, the to a tree, I then tied her right ankle then to another tree pulling it tight. I then took her right hand and tied a rope to it, then to the tree, the same with the left pulling it tight.

I reached in the backpack and pulled out another rope, I tied around her right breast, then to a tree, the same with the left and pulled it tight. So far I have not said a word to her. I sat down reached in the pack and pulled out the portable grill, set it up, then I put two burgers on. opened a mt dew, and just sat there looking at her.

While the burgers were cooking I reached in the pack and pulled out a butt plug and lube, I got up and lubed the plug walked behind her and slowly pushed it all the way in. Now she is trying to get loose she hates ass play, with a passion., I had to flip the burgers, I got duct tape out and put a few strips across her ass to hold the plug in.

Okay the burgers are done, so I fix them up and I sit there and eat, everything taste so much better outside.

After I finish eating, I get the dildo out that vibrates I walk up and push it deep inside her pussy, holding it in place I grab the butterfly vibrator and put it in place, run the straps around her waist so now it holds both in place.

I then pulled out my flogger its huge weighs about 6 pounds. it has a swivel on it. I begin using it on her tits they are now a pretty purple, she is still trying to get loose, but with the knots the harder she pulls the tighter they get. and I slowly walk around her using the flogger, now on her back and her ass, a good ten minutes goes by, and her head just drops, Okay she has had enough, I walk around and I see tears.

I untied her arms, and just held her, telling her what a good girl she was, she had not been through this much it was all new to her, I held her for a good 5 minutes or so, I asked her if she was okay, she said yes, I said good , I am going to sit down and you can finish getting loose, and get dressed again.

I sat down finishing my mt dew, the first thing she pulled out was the butt plug, then the butterfly, and the dildo., then her feet. Then her blindfold, and she looked around, and said you really ate? Yup……

Pack everything up and ill meet you back at the truck.. After about 10 minutes she made it back to the truck, she put the pack in the bed and got in.

The ride home was very quite, not a word. Back at the house we went in, I sat down she said she had to get home, sure text me or call when you get home.

Later that night she did text, she said she was going to try to fix things with her hubby, she wanted to keep her family together, and do right.

I said okay sounds like a plan. The bottom line here is no more guilt…. Yes no more guilt.

Do you not love it when a plan comes together…The story you just read is very true by the way…

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Bondage

Posted in bdsm, Bondage, clit, control, cum, Dildo, Face Fucking, Safe and Sane, Spreader Bars, sub-space, submissive on May 26, 2012 by thekinkyworldofvile

Lets face it those of us in the lifestyle , enjoy the play, be it physical , or mental. Some of us have our favorite play. Spanking is my specialty, I learned several years ago you could actually make a female CUM just from spanking. I am not talking hard impact play, just barehanded spanking.

We as dominants spend our time thinking what to do next , trying not to get into a normal routine , trying to keep things spiced up. Unlike a Vanilla relationship this is much easier due to the openness and communication. The ability to be open with each other.

Bondage be it mental or physical, has more meaning to it than just tying  someone up. As Dominants we spend much time trying to make sure our pet reaches Sub-Space. Although it is impossible to reach every time , it seems to bother many dominants , I suppose they look at it as failing, which is not the case.

If a submissive is truly into the play there are endorphin’s that are released , and with continued play they submissive is able to reach Sub-Space.

Bondage , I am getting much better , there are some who are very artistic in there work. I have gotten to the point though if I tie you up, you are not getting free. I promise that.

Bondage gives your submissive that feeling of being helpless, no control, the submissive is at your mercy. The Dominant has total control. I have just purchased a set of civil war shackled complete with a collar shackle. I use spreader bars during play , along with nylon , and leather cuff restraints., but the rope is where the feeling of helplessness comes into play , the way you tie the arms, the breast, I love breast bondage, nothing like watching breast turn to that shade of purple.

I have tied a submissive up,and gone to dinner , only to come back and find her a sleep. Tired from fighting to get free.

A quick note , while playing , never put anything around the neck , never this is a big safety NO NO. If you do not believe me ask David Carradine who died last year in Thailand.

Strapped to the bed be it rope , or restraints , while using spreader bars , I have a butter fly vibrator I like to put on, it massages the clit and will not come off, I have the remote control one , so I can leave the room and still operate it.

I use a blindfold fold most of the time during play, but I also use red body tape to hold it in place, to me the more senses you take away , the more it puts the submissive in that state of mind. with the spreader bars it gives you the ability to hit any hole you want as well. This is also one of my favorite positions for for face fucking …..

Bondage is very fun , and makes good play. Always think safe..

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Sensory Deprivation The Ultimate Mind Fuck

Posted in bdsm, Bondage, control, Dildo, extreme, Mind Fuck, oral, pussy, Sensory Deprivation, slave, submissive on May 18, 2012 by thekinkyworldofvile

Sensory deprivation or perceptual isolation[1] is the deliberate reduction or removal of stimuli from one or more of the senses. Simple devices such as blindfolds or hoods and earmuffs can cut off sight and hearing respectively, while more complex devices can also cut off the sense of smell, touch, taste, thermoception (heat-sense), and ‘gravity’. Sensory deprivation has been used in various alternative medicines and in psychological experiments (e.g., see isolation tank).

Short-term sessions of sensory deprivation are described as relaxing and conducive to meditation; however, extended or forced sensory deprivation can result in extreme anxiety, hallucinations,[2] bizarre thoughts, and depression

Now in the BDSM world Sensory Deprivation is used for a couple of different things . One thing I need to stress is safety , if you as a Dominant has never done Sensory , I would recommend you find someone who is proficient in Deprivation and teach you , this is not something that is taking lightly.

Sensory Deprivation can be used as erotic play which I do very well, it can be used as a mind fuck , or to break a slave.

What you are doing is taking a sense away or all, smell, touch or feel. Very important to keep a close eye on the submissive.

I posted this once before. I like to use it as a form of putting one into sub-space , to bring out that erotic but lost feeling , no control.

I start out by having the submissive stand in the middle of the room , and I blindfold , I like to use plastic body tape on the blindfold to hold in place. Already the submissive has lost one sense , sight.

I start preparing the scene , moving around the room , making noise , while not speaking even if spoken to. Next comes the ball gag , I make my own because the ones you buy tend to break very easy. I buy the rubber bouncy balls like at wal mart , drill a hole through the middle and run a piece of leather through. I have spent all of 3 dollars. You can bow tie it and it will not slip.

I have nylon straps attached to the bed , with Velcro Cuffs , not to worry once in place I again use the plastic wrap to hold in place you are not getting loose.

I pace the submissive on the bed spread eagle , nude of course. Cuff hands then I attach spreader bars to the ankles along with the cuffs , again plastic wrap. Still not speaking, making noise . I turn on the first CD player light Jazz , I have several different candles I start to light all different scents , then another CD player , I like metalica good BDSM  music for sessions. Then another CD  player maybe some off the wall country all turned down but so they can hear.

Then comes the Ice , and hot wax all at the same time dripping on different parts of the body. while dripping wax I insert a dildo vibrating leaving it in.

  All this time there brain is trying to comprehend everything that is happening , sound touch and smell. There is noway your brain can process all this information.

Of course you can use different play or kinks what ever your into , but I can guarantee if you are trying to achieve sub-space she will reach it, it will be the most erotic thing she has ever experienced.

  Safety comes first , keep a close eye on them to insure it is not to much. I know all you submissives are thinking , ahhh that would be nothing, I can assure you after an hr or even a half hr , it will be a mind blowing experience.

I myself I have an oral fixation , I love to eat pussy. So while everything is going on , I love to crawl between her legs and go to town., then she is primed for a good fuck.

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