Your traditional dating is pretty simple, you meet , talk go out spend time with each other. You go out to eat the movies , parks, kissing making out a little foreplay. You know this things tend to move slowly , both of you are on your best behavior trying to convince each other your the perfect fit.. If it works out it does if it does not oh well.
Then we cross the tracks , the other side of the world a new world unknown to most, something with a dark side , but in a way it is exciting.
Your train of thought changes as a female , you have not yet figured out where you fit in, all you know is what you have read really gets you going.
Now all train of thought is no longer rational , your not thinking clear, your brain is moving at Mach one and as of this moment what you have read , what you have chatted about in chat rooms, and maybe some small talk with women at work or maybe your to ashamed to bring it up.
Your Hormones have just kicked into high gear, all of a sudden you need BDSM in your life this is what you have been missing in your life…
You meet a Dom or Master in a chat room , maybe a Daddy Dom. You now let a complete stranger dictate who and what you are and the way words are put you may not fully understand but you go along with what your being told. He gives little hints using key words you pick up on.
Unlike the traditional dating 20 minutes into the chat , your asked what your limits are ? Limits what the fuck is that? Ahhhh your not sure so he begins to explain feeding you more. The next question is are you Bi ? That is always the first question, the second is do you swallow, do you take it up the ass? Do you enjoy pain? Do you enjoy humiliation ? What is the shortest skirt you own ? What are the shortest shorts you own? Do you go out in public without a Bra? How often do you Masturbate ?
If your not lock then comes the webcam , or kik then talking on the phone leading up to phone sex.
Here is what really gets me is the self punishment , making you punish yourself, spanking your pussy , putting clothes pins on your nipple and clit. Then the name calling starts and you go along with it because you do not know any better. The isolation kicks in keeping you away from friends and family. Your passwords and in most cases your banking information. I have seen a few get completely wiped out, and left with nothing.
If your local and you meet you are to wear a skirt or dress with no panties which I have never figured out. Once you meet about twenty minutes into the conversation he wants to start your training, you either get a room or if your dumb enough you take a complete stranger back to your home.
Then the cock sucking training begins , he blows his load down your throat pats you on your head and tells you to wait on his text..
All of the above happens in a matter of days not weeks or months, days and at times a day.
You are experiencing mass confusion your mind is stuck in neutral and you feel you have no where to turn. On the other hand you are taking the word of one person, then one who claims he can lead you down the right path, the one word you hear is Trust, trust me.
Your going to make mistakes , your going to make more than one , more than two or three and you will continue until you get your head straight.
Everything becomes a chore nothing is now fun, you dread seeing your Dom but at that moment and time he is the only one in your life.
All of the above has to do with your Hormones , and nothing more until your able to take a grasp on things.
The process is not as bad as you think it is, thinking through things is the difficult part..