Archive for the egotistical Category

I Am Going To Vent

Posted in bdsm, Ego, egotistical, Unanswered Emails, Uncategorized on January 7, 2018 by thekinkyworldofvile

I was recently contacted by someone who wants to start a MAsT Chapter. I was asked to provide the information I supplied when I requested my own MAsT. Those of you who do not know what MAsT stands for it is Masters And Slaves Together. MAsT provides education throughout the community.

MAsT exists as an education, support and resource group for individuals involved in, or interested in, the Master/slave lifestyle.

MAsT provides an opportunity and forum for like-minded individuals to come together for discussion of issues that concern Masters and slaves, to share ideas and gain and/or share knowledge of the Master/slave lifestyle.

I am approaching my 3rd year and I was recently appointed Assistant Regional Representative. This is truly an honor and I hope to provide the best service I can and continue to grow within the organization.

I explained in my email there was no information to provide everything was done online. My slave sat down with me and we both worked on the application.

I responded to the email and heard nothing , so I emailed again offering any assistance I could , I wanted to help and walk through the process. Still no reply and again I emailed and again and again with no response. So because I did not provide information that did not exist I was no longer good enough for him , because I would not provide him with my answers I was no longer good enough for a response.

Just like last year , from time to time I enjoy doing interviews with those who are Dominant and submissive. It gives us a look into someones life. So I approached this Dominant and the only way he would consent to a interview is if he was allowed to provide me with questions he had already had typed out along with the answers .So in a sense the interview was fake. I am not sure why I went along with the process but I did.

This is exactly what I have been talking about the egos of the great Dominants whos arrogance gets in the way. I received a email but I was beneath him to respond , he is so much better than I am. How long does it take to respond to a email? 45 seconds maybe a minute?

I do not understand why some people act like a child more so coming from a Dominant. We are suppose to be working together but again these big bad ego’s. This is not the first time this has happened , several months ago I was emailed and again I replied with no answer and I just shrugged it off.

Things are finally coming together and I will shortly be starting the creation of the House of ******. Along with that, I also plan to start a MAsT chapter in Milford, PA.

I would greatly appreciate it if I could get copies of the materials you submitted to MAsT. It would be helpful in seeing how someone else drafted their vision and goals, for submission.

Again there were no copies of anything.


I would like to start a Fetlife MAsT group and advertise our first meeting but don’t know if that would be a violation.. to advertise before a certain point. At what point did you start to advertise?

Looking forward to hearing from you.

Hello Sir
I apologize it has taking me so long to get back to you.

There were no saved copies of my submission being everything is done on line.

If you need help please reach out to me.


Sir did you get my last email?
I hope you had a awesome New year’s


Sent from my iPhone

You cannot start advertising until you have been advised your chapter has been awarded.
The whole process can take anywhere from 60 to 90 days.

During the process you can contact the regional and he will keep you informed.


The MAsT formation is not Guaranteed.
There are interviews , and references of at least two leaders in the community and two personal friends in the community.


Ok man

Sent from my iPhone

I sent several follow up emails and nothing , zero , now his first email was on the 27th. I did not think it would of been proper to disclose his email. I would of called but I cant call I have to text first and I have to be verified before we can setup a time for me to call.

Okay I am finished venting , I will not cast my vote .


What most think of me.

Posted in abuse, bdsm, cocky, Dominants, egotistical, masochist, Master, Molding, problems, self confidence, Self Inflicting, slave, submissive on December 1, 2012 by thekinkyworldofvile

When out and about if you should run into someone who knows me, and you ask. What do you think about Vile, or the people local call me Dr. House. I guess we have the same personality’s shrugs I never thought about it..

Most see me as very cocky, conceded , non caring, selfish, self centered, stuck up, egotistical, and the final Mean, very Mean.

While most of the above may be true, I suppose. I am just me, I am not going to change who I am to please the bitch next door. I have done that before when I married a vanilla woman. The most fucked up nine years of my life, although today we remain friends, and have zero drama. She will tell you I am sick. The Lifestyle.

On the other hand, if you are in my circle, my world, Viles world, be it my friend or slave. There is nothing I will not do for you, I will bend over backwards to help. We have great communication. People understand me, and like me for me. People understand my personality, although most will tell you I am to out spoken. If I feel you are feeding me a line of shit, I will tell you.

If you are my slave, no not submissive, Slave. The other day I was chatting with someone on FB and she had me figured almost to a T. She has read my blog. It blew my mind away how someone could read me so well

Now if you are my slave, and it does take a unique female to fill that position, I am not going to lie. That is why I have been looking for over a year now. I have dated so many it is really getting tiresome. So much fucking drama, on probation, taking pain medication, I mean a lot. Wow it truly seems endless

Okay I do have somewhat of a rescue syndrome problem , I like to fix, but it depends on the extent of the problems. I am big on abuse, and have taking many in who were being abused.

Now the question is what does Vile do when finished? Depends I was with Bea for seven yrs. I was with chong for almost eight years, but nothing needed to be fixed. Bea was abused .

If you are mine, you are it, you are all that matters. You are all I see. I never start the relationship off , with just D’s I want to get to know the slave. Once I have gotten to that point then I begin to slowly implement things. If you go in balls to the wall, you can make one feel over whelmed, confused, and yes it is a set up for failure.

The key in the relationship is being consistent. I have seen many Dominants change rules midstream to fit their needs. Again you are setting them up for failure. It is important to follow through with what you say, to include punishment if you do not. If you do not follow through you lose the respect factor, once on a downhill roll, it is almost impossible to regain control and you will crash.. Thus the end of a relationship, no one to blame but yourself.

Being a Dominant is not an easy task. We are expected to be who we are 24/7, and there are no exceptions.We told the sub who and what we are about ,and that is what is expected. Nothing more nothing less. We have to maintain that roll, public or private.

Now if you are on my shit list, you are not my friend. You get nothing, I basically do not even see you. Those are the people who see the above in my personality. I feel sorry for no one.

The fact is 95% of all problems are self inflicting. We set the drama up, we did not take care of a problem, Self inflicting. There are exceptions to that, sickness be it physical, or mental, but you take those two factors out. We did it to our self’s, no one caused our problem we did it on our own.

Right now I take care of Vile.