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She Gets So Wet

Posted in @vile62 on Twitter, anal sex, Arianna, ass fucking, bdsm, blow job, Face Fucking, fucking, Fucking Missionary, Gagged, gagging, I own you bitch, oral sex, slave, sucking cock on April 29, 2014 by thekinkyworldofvile

I love getting my cock sucked. I love wet blow jobs the wetter the better. Arianna has this way of applying pressure with her tongue when coming up and sucking at the same time. I just lay back and relax for the most, but every now and then, well okay a lot I will push her head all the way down so I can feel the gagging and I hold it until I can feel she is getting ready to cough, as she comes up and she releases I can feel the warmth coming from her mouth.

If I am just into getting my cock sucked at that time, I will go 10 minutes or so just letting her stay in control, many times I do not want to cum, I just want to lay back and enjoy, but when I do. I will put one hand one her forehead, and one one her chin, and as i am moving her head up and down I will pump her mouth, until I explode in her mouth.

The when I want to fuck and I tell her to get on her back, she knows to spread and to wrap her arms around her thighs spreading them, as I crawl on top and I am just dieing to get my cock inside her, sometimes it just slips up and down and I have to reach and put it at the entrance or her pussy and I push in. If I tell her to just lay there so I can cum that is just what she does. If I say come on, she knows she can let go of her thighs, she wraps her arms around me and I stay still while she grinds her pussy against my pelvic bone until she cums.

After she has came, I wrap my arms around her thighs pushing her knees close to her head, and I pound her like there is no tomorrow, sometimes I will leave it in, but most of the time I love pulling out and have her jack me off. Feeling her hand tighten around my cock and jacking me WOW there is no other feeling.

At times I will slap my hand on the bed and tell her to get on her hands and knees. I love fucking doggy style, but looking down at her ass, much of the time, I slide my cock out real slow, and I move it up to hole number two. I put the head right at the entrance and I tell her come on back up on it. Once I am in her ass all the way, I just hold it for a minute feeling the warmth of her ass gripping my cock, then I grab her hips and I just pound her. Wow fucking incredible.

She does have some good pussy. As I am fucking her I look in her eyes and I tell her I own you bitch

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365 Days Of Sucking Cock

Posted in 365 days of sucking cock, Arianna, bdsm, calendar, cock sucking, Face Fucking, gagging, slave, sucking cock, sucking dick on April 20, 2014 by thekinkyworldofvile

Arianna brought this idea up about 3 weeks ago, I do love the way she thinks. However with our work and the hours we work it really makes it kinda hard to make it an everyday ritual.

Now this is the truth, not every woman knows how to give head, just like every man does not know how to eat pussy. If the woman is giving head just to please it may be good, but not near as good if they truly enjoy it. Although you can enjoy it because you know you are pleasing.

So Arianna hung a calendar up in the hallway , and every time she gives head she gets to put a star on the date. Here is the kicker, depending on the blow job she can earn two stars. Sometimes I do enjoy just laying back after a hard days work and just enjoying the moment, then there are those times I really get into it.

Arianna has this way of applying pressure with her tongue while sucking, it just gives this incredible feeling. I am not sure while she is sucking but she can actually fold her tongue in half while sticking it out and make S movements with it, just to watch is a total turn on.

I also love wet blow jobs the wetter the better, I love hearing those sucking noises the biggest turn on in the world. Starting off slow, and at first she takes me all the way in her mouth just moving her tongue around until I get hard, then she starts moving up and down real slow, applying pressure with her tongue, Wow just laying there relaxing letting my mind go, it is like a day at the spa.

I have said before most of the time I do not even want to cum I just want to enjoy the moment, but then there are times I just want to rock n roll.

So when I am ready, I reach under put my left hand on her Jaw and my right hand on her forehead, hold her in place and I start pumping while she is still sucking applying pressure with her tongue, and before you know it, I am blowing my load like Moby Dick. Last night she lost just a little bit of dinner now a lot but I felt it come up.

Once I was done and she sat up her whole face was wet, and poor Arianna only thinking of me, said I will get you a towel , now that is pure love.

What I love about it most is there is no fighting it she just goes with the flow, and is more than happy to please. The truth is there is not a day that goes by that she does not ask if she can suck my cock. Even when I come home late and she has to be up early she ask can I earn a star.

I tell men everyday if you can find a woman who truly knows how to give head, you can look over a lot of stuff.

There are two ways to a man heart good food, and great cock sucking skills.

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Training And Fear And Fucking

Posted in Adapt, Aftercare, anal sex, Arianna, ass fucking, bdsm, Consistency, consistent, control, Daddy Dom, Discipline, Dominance, Dominants, emotional, Emotions, Face Fucking, Fear, fucking, gagging, Giving Head, Golden showers, Honesty, Humiliation, Humiliation Training, Lie, Master, Mind Fuck, My Bitch, oral sex, piss, Protocol, punish, Punishment, Rough Sex, Rules, Scared, Security, slave, Submission, submissive, sucking cock, Task, Total Power Exchange, Total Submission, TPE, use your submissive, whore on December 11, 2013 by thekinkyworldofvile

The first ninety days is the most important when it comes to training. I myself thing that once you put a plan together it is very important to stick to it.

The fear comes from the submissive, the not knowing what is going to happen, more so not knowing what to expect. There may be a little fear within the submissive not knowing if they will please or be able to meet your standards.

Training day begins I do not share anything, I do not give any ideas about what I am going to do. Just like I explained to Arianna watch and listen. That is all you really have to do.

Remember the Submissive will adapt to their new surroundings, and most will without question as long as you the Dominant keeps your word.

If you are new to the lifestyle the first ninety days will tell you if you really want to be part of a D’s relationship, in some cases it may take less than a week.

The first ninety days I gave no punishment, we were actually almost six months into our relationship before I had to punish Arianna. As a punishment I do not believe in spanking, because most who are submissive enjoy being spanked, so what is the point in doing something they enjoy when you punish. Arianna on the other hand is not into pain at all, so I decided that my best approach was to spank and I set that ass on fire. .

During the first ninety days a lot of positive reinforcement is needed, the idea is not to break down, but to build up. We want to point out the good, but we also need to correct when something is not done correctly. A firm voice without yelling or humiliating . The fear factor comes into play.

Your plan you must stick to exactly what you have planned, if you try to change things up you as the Dominant can get distracted, and may cause a little confusion.

The truth and always the truth, the first thing we tell a submissive is to always be truthful, never lie and always be upfront. If we cannot abide by the truth we cannot expect the submissive to. If we lie how can we expect the submissive to always be truthful. Once you gain their trust, that is the easy part, the hard part is keeping it. Once you break that trust you can almost never get it back.

I only started out with 4 rules as we progressed I added a few more. Handing someone a page full of rules, can really cause confusion, and again fear, the fear of forgetting. Some Dominants will hand out 25 maybe 50 rules and say you have to memorize each and everyone. Ask him if he knows them word for word, if not why or how could he expect you to. Rules are meant to give structure, and guidance. Rules are meant to be a reference for daily life.. If you give out to many at one time, the submissive will become overwhelmed , and feel like they are being set up for failure. Also rules we take bad habits and turn them into good ones. If you do this in a short time the Dominant will see a great improvement in any areas that needed work.

I was talking to a Submissive on the phone a couple of weeks ago, her and her Daddy Dom had split. When she broke a rule he would not punish, so there were no consequences for her actions, he was more worried what was for dinner.

I have found from past experiences if you do not stand by what you say and do what you mean you can lose control, again once you start to lose that control it is impossible to regain again. You cannot sit there and say I will change because it is to late. I changed because I let my feelings get in the way when it came to punishing or enforcing rules. I had a huge guilty feeling come over me and I no longer wanted to punish. In the end I lost control. Keeping our word is very important.

Arianna has daily task that has to be completed just like this am a list was completed and I will go through it and either keep it the way it is or I will veto if I feel she has put to much on herself. She has had a rough couple of days emotionally so I stepped in and helped out a little, yea I did dishes, cooked breakfast. Eggs bacon and sausage. I made her watch as I put three eggs into the frying pan and I flipped her without breaking a yoke. I broke one of mine so one out of six is not bad. Dinner I made a taco salad. We should step in at times and take some of the weight off of their shoulders. I like to show my appreciation.

From time to time I believe a little fear is needed, just like a little humiliation is needed. Sometimes the submissive starts to lose that feeling of submission, so we want to put them back in that mode..

Not long ago we were in our Den watching TV , Arianna was nude, I was on the couch she was on the floor, just looking at her drove me crazy. So I told her to spread, and she has these huge lips that look like butterfly lips that just makes me go bonkers. I stood up undressed crawled on top and just started fucking her as hard as I could. I wrapped my hand around her throat, and told her she was my whore, she was my cunt, but I had changed my voice up a little deeper , slower and I could see this look in her eyes. I told her to fuck me back and push, when she pushes I can feel her pussy grip my cock, and then her rocking her hips just WOW.

So I got up pulled her up by her hair and shoved my cock in her mouth  and started face fucking her, one hand one her chin and the other on the top of her head, pushing my cock in as as far as it would go.. Calling her my bitch, my whore, telling her that I owned her. After a few minutes I grabbed her by her hair again and pulled her into the kitchen bending her over the trash can and back in her pussy, I fucked her for a few minutes then I slipped it out and right into her ass. One hand around her throat the other with a handful of hair I banged her as hard as I could until I dumped my load. I then grabbed her hair taking her to the bathroom put her on her knees and I pissed all over her Tits, then came the cold shower. To me golden showers shows that I own, ownership.

She was scared, she did not know how to take my actions. After it was all said and done came the aftercare which was truly needed. I believe aftercare is needed but at times I am not at my best. So I am trying tp improve in that area.

The change in my voice, the way I was fucking, really confused her, not knowing how to act or respond but she went along with what I wanted to do and how I used her. It is good to have sex, sex makes life good. On the other hand it is okay to just use your submissive. Sometimes I will tell Arianna to go to the bedroom and strip putting her on the bed pulling her to the edge, fuck her and tell her to get dressed. Using puts them in that submissive state of mind.

The mind fuck, last week we went out for Mexican we were both stuffed Arianna was in the bathroom washing up and I told her to hurry, I said I have the brown bath towel on the bed I was ready. Her first thoughts were oh god he is going to face fuck me and I am going to puke. She procrastinated  for a good ten minutes once she walked in the bedroom and she saw no towel the look in her eyes were priceless. The mind fuck can be a very powerful, you can mind fuck even when joking, keeps them thinking.

You can tell when your cared for as well, the hug the kiss the way someone listens when your talking, you can just tell. I was getting head and Arianna asked if I wanted to finish in her ass, I love those words Fuck my ass. I had other plans though, I told her to lay on her side her mouth on my cock and I started fucking just like I was pounding her pussy, her arms were moving in the air her legs were kicking, I stopped from time to time to allow her to breath then right back at it, until I blew my load. It is okay to use your property. There is a very pleasing feeling that comes across your submissive when they know they have pleased.

Never share what your training plan is about. slowly implement things on a daily basis, give small hands on test. Such as Once I thought Arianna was ready I invited a Dom and Slave to our home and she was in full service, I am not talking sexually. When they both set down she was standing legs shoulder width apart arms behind back waiting for instructions for drinks and dinner. When training you train to fit your needs and wants. The submissive you train to fit their needs, their wants come later. If you say no then mean no, if you say yes then mean yes.

A little fear can be good with the proper aftercare the same with a little humiliation.

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Oral Sex

Posted in Arianna, bdsm, blow job, Face Fucking, fucking, gagging, Giving Head, oral, oral sex, Orgasm, pleasure, sex, slave, submissive, sucking cock, sucking dick on October 30, 2013 by thekinkyworldofvile

I have said this before not every woman knows how to give head. In the past I have been able to tell if they were doing it just to please , or if they liked giving head, or they just totally got into it.  To me it is like spanking If the one I am spanking does not get anything out of it then I do not, the same with getting head.

Just laying back in the bed eyes closed arms propped under my head, and a very long sigh, this is pure heaven.

While I do enjoy just laying back and relaxing , hearing those soft sucking noises , feeling the wetness run down, oh yea I do love a very wet blow job. There is not a better feeling.

At times though I do get rough I do love face fucking, I guess it is the control factor, the feeling of one being helpless, I love the gagging sensation feeling the throat muscles around my cock. that just really drives me crazy. That is not one of Arianna’s favorite past times I can tell you, that she really hates but she does take it not very well but she does. I really try to restrain myself and just lay there the last few night I have been able to, but it is really hard. I will have to admit it is perhaps the best feeling know to mankind.

There is not a day that goes by that I am not asked if I want some head. I love those words can I suck your dick.  That is how you can tell if someone really wants to please.

The slow movement up and down or just staying still, and feeling her tongue moving around. That is a real drug.

I love eating pussy, I truly love everything about it, Arianna only likes if we are in a 69 because it makes her feel closer. I love being between her thighs, my arms wrapped around them, sucking on her lips , her clit , feeling her getting wet. Although just from oral she finds it hard trying to cum if she just grinds her clit a little it does make it easier.  I have this fetish with long lips watching my cock slide in and out the lips folding in and out wow drives me crazy.

It is true however every man cannot eat pussy, just like giving head if the man is going down just to please the woman can tell, but if he really gets into it, you can rock her world. Taking your time is very important building her up to that point and then moving to another area. You need to lightly sucking on the clit while french kissing it, once she is really into it then you insert a finger maybe two and start fucking her, get her to that point again and stop. I love it when the hips start to move, you know then she is had.

The most awesome feeling I get is watching mine cum, the way she shakes her eyes close fucking incredible. She can cum if she is on top and it does not take her long. Most will say if a woman is on top it is not a submissive act, in my eyes it is you are still in control.

Sex should be fun, it should not be planned, sex should be spontaneous , this is the time to show you care, although it is just about me , I do like to please. Maybe I show I am thankful in different way.

I do take care of my own. sexual or not.

 

Vile

My Love For Facial Abuse

Posted in abuse, anal sex, animalistic, anticipation, ass fucking, bdsm, Bondage, control, Face Fucking, Facial Abuse, gagging, Giving Head, Humiliation, sex, slave, submissive, Throat Fucking on August 30, 2013 by thekinkyworldofvile

I love control be it in life in general, or in the bedroom it is truly a need. It is like a natural high. The rougher I get the more excited I get, the more excited I get the harder I get, then comes the explosion.

Leather cuffs on, hands behind back On her knees, blindfolded. Tell her to open her mouth, slide my cock in real slow and feel it grow. Place hands on both sides of her head, and the fun begins.

I love that gagging feeling, I can actually feel the throat muscles tighten up.  At times I do not even want to cum, because it feels so good, and I don’t want to lose that moment

I love the tears in her eyes, the drooling, gagging, the hoping it will be over soon. I love face fucking, mouth fucking, throat fucking what ever you want to call it. I get such a high from being in so much control. I am able to do what ever I want, no questions.

Just like anal sex when I get ready, and I say lube me up, the words I hear are with lube or my mouth. To me Anal sex is the most submissive thing a woman can let her partner do, the most private part of her body. On hands and knees, I tell her to reach around and spread her cheeks, so I can watch myself slid in and out. the same with face fucking looking up at me while I am pumping away, the tears, what a fucking turn on.

I love the humiliation factor of face fucking, a huge turn on.  Having that much control, and you never hear the word stop.

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Using Sex As A Tool

Posted in 24/7, abuse, anal sex, Arianna, Ass, ass fucking, ass play, bdsm, blow job, communication, control, controlling, Conversation, Discipline, Do not agree with me on everything, Dominants, Face Fucking, Facial Abuse, Fake Dominants, Fetish, fucking, gagging, Giving Head, Humiliation, Love, Lube, Master, oral, oral sex, pussy, rimming, Rough Sex, serve, session, sex, slave, submissive, sucking cock, sucking dick on August 10, 2013 by thekinkyworldofvile

I have said in the past that BDSM has truly changed so much in the past 10 years or so, and for those of you who have been in the lifestyle any length of time knows exactly what I am talking about.

Sex is good, fucking is even better, making love I am not so sure I can even go there any longer, maybe the way I fuck is my way of making love. I have the need to be rough, spank while having sex, at times slap, or choke.  This is a need for me not a want. Maybe sometime ago something just clicked.

In today’s times more so the younger generation, when you bring up the word BDSM one or two things come to mind first abuse, second sex.  I think even more so the older generation is more out to judge. I truly do not understand why people judge something and they do not have a clue when it comes to a certain subject.

Don’t get me wrong I love sex, I love everything about sex.  There is nothing better that will relieve a stressful day, than taking a nice long hot shower, then laying back and enjoying some slow head, WOW.

I love anal sex, sometimes I do get carried away while in the doggy style position and I look down and I am thinking yea here we go, just one quick move and I am in, oops no lube. I do have a ass fetish that goes way beyond this world. I enjoy being rimmed and rimming, on my part I have to really be into you or be my partner. To me anal sex is total submission on the subs or slaves part. The most private thing one could possibly give, and in some cases humiliating.

I have noticed though that there are a lot of those who are submissive or a slave who think that the only way of pleasing their Dominant is by offering their body, be it a blow job or just being fucked. I think there is a huge misconception when it comes to a D’s or M’s relationship. I believe the sub or slave thinks sex is the main part of the relationship, when in fact in my eyes this is not true.

This is something I have been trying to break Arianna of. that although sex is good, it is not what serving means or being in service as a slave. Being in service should not just be about sex, communication, great conversation, just being there. Doing things you know your dominant likes or enjoys, sitting at my feet while watching TV. I suppose with every couple the situation is different.

Don’t get me wrong sex does play a part in any relationship. I think the knowing is more of a high, knowing I am able to get what I want when I want, no questions asked. That to me is a total rush, knowing I can just snap my fingers and BAM instant head. Knowing the word no or I cant never comes out of her mouth.

Arianna has a foot fetish, while watching TV she lays at my feet and services me, yes truly relaxing, but most of the time it does lead to a good fucking. Head I love head and I try to just lay there and enjoy, but all to often I just have to grab her by the head and start face fucking, yea pretty much uncontrollable.

I do enjoy being asked if there is anything she can do for me, again this is sexual. I am glad that she really cares enough to want to please.

This is a misconception when it comes to a D’s or M’s relationship, even more so if someone is new to the lifestyle, and their first dominant is just using them as a fuck toy. You can give a false impression and it seems like you in control and giving out rules, but at the end of the day they are just a piece of ass.

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Put Your Slave Back In Their Place

Posted in 24/7, abuse, Aftercare, anal sex, animalistic, ass fucking, bdsm, blindfold, blow job, Bondage, Bound, control, doggy style, Dominants, emotional, Face Fucking, fucking, gagging, Giving Head, Golden showers, Humiliation, journal, Master, Mind Fuck, No Rights, oral, oral sex, owning a slave, Respect, Rough Sex, Rules, session, sex, slave, submissive on July 31, 2013 by thekinkyworldofvile

First off I would like to say, I never have to explain my actions, you as the Dominant or Master should never have to explain your actions, well unless you do something really really stupid. If you the Dominant are on track and your keeping your word, you are not abusing, you never explain your actions. What does come into play though and should never be forgotten or looked over is aftercare.

I look at submissive’s and Slaves as being very different. A Submissive submits when they want to, they have the right to say NO. While some do follow rules most do not, perhaps on purpose, maybe they forget or they just don’t give a shit. Even living 24/7 much of the time the submission does not really carry outside of the bedroom.

A Slave does not have the right to say no, if this was an agreement entering the relationship, that would bring up the question are you submissive or are you a slave. This may sound bad to some and some will understand. A Slave is not equal, not in any sense. This does not mean the Slave is dumb, or stupid, but if the Slave is on the same page they understand this as well.

In an M’s relationship not only the Dominant but the Slave can become to relaxed, you start to become to comfortable in your relationship. Then it hits you I am really no different than the vanilla couple next door, who happens to be stuck up by the way.

We all give our Slaves a little bit of rope, some freedom is needed, but when the Dominant becomes to relaxed he needs to yank on the rope, and put your Slave back in place. A little reminder of who and what they are in the relationship. I am not talking about bending them over and beating them to a pulp, but doing something that will totally catch them off guard.

You have to have daily task, nothing to overwhelming , you have to have daily rituals, in order to do this you the Dominant has to stay consistent , you cannot bend from either.

A very good example Arianna has a small note book, every morning before leaving for work she writes the time and mileage , once at work same thing. This does not just apply for work this is anyplace she may go. Arianna is required to keep all receipts , then once a month or so I go through everything. I check her phone daily, this is not because I do not trust her because I do, I just want to know what she has been doing throughout the day. While home when I am at work Arianna wanted to keep a journal of all her activities while at home, she wanted this implemented so it is done and will continue. I do read by the way. A journal gives one purpose, a needed feelings.

Once you have been in a M’s relationship for any length of time, I call it needed maintenance, kinda like a tuneup if you will, a much needed reminder, of where both of you stand. I am man you are my Bitch, I am Master You are My Slave.

To put your Slave back in their place you do something out of the ordinary something that is not expected, something that will throw them completely off guard.

A time and place for everything, I find the perfect time is during a session, my sessions usually last an hour or so, that includes fucking if I wish to.

You do something that will just throw their mind off tract, something you would not normally do. A change in your voice, more authoritative , deep , serious, you fuck a different way maybe a lot rougher than you normally would, speak in a humiliating way. Golden showers are very effective, some do not like while some do, maybe after play put on hands and knees and give a cold shower, very degrading, but sometimes some other type of interaction is needed.

The Slave then becomes confused, the Slave is not able to process what has just happened, The Slave has just been or feels like they have been degraded, used humiliated mass confusion.

After all is said and done aftercare is very important, hold talk to, but you should never explain your actions.

Face Fucking to the point of almost throwing up, making the slave bark while being fucked from behind, or telling the Slave how much you enjoy sodomizing them while fucking their ass.

I myself enjoy bounding, blindfolding and gagging but putting in a bent position so I can still hit both holes. One could never explain the feeling that comes over one, when someone can do something and the other cannot do anything to stop it or speak. Wow now that is a lot of trust.

Many may not agree, but humiliation is needed from time to time, you as the Dominant needs to bring out the humble, to make feel lowers, put back in their place, just throw the Slave completely off track, mass confusing.

Unless you do something very stupid, You as the Master never should explain your actions, keep your Bitch in place.

 

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