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Consent

Posted in 24/7, adapting, Bad Dominant, Bad Reltionships, bdsm, BDSM Relationships, communication, compatibility, Consensual, consequences, Dominance Through Intimidation, Dominant and Submissive, Domination & Submission: The BDSM Relationship Handbook., human trafficking, Humiliation, Manipulation, Master and slave relationship, pedophile, Slave, Submission, Submissive, Uncategorized on December 27, 2015 by thekinkyworldofvile

Only when you step into a relationship you fully understand can you consent.

There are two forms of No, the word its self and the look. It is up to the Dominant to know when no means no , it does not have to be verbal.

Someone I have never liked because I saw right through him was Michael Makai who has a couple of Books on BDSM relationships , and who is someone who does not follow his own teachings.

One of the books called Domination & Submission: The BDSM Relationship Handbook , is a total farce , someone giving advice and not being able to follow what he has written.

At the age of 17 years old you cannot consent , a 17 year old is a child , and it does not stop there in some cases 18 or 19 depends on the maturity.

So in the end we had a total fake in the lifestyle making fun of those who did buy into his thoughts.

I can imagine there are some running for their lives , wondering if they may have said something or even had contact.

Even as an adult if you do not have a full understanding when entering a relationship , and you have not been able to fully communicate there is no way you could truly consent.

Fully understanding who and what you are will determine if you can fully consent. Knowing exactly what you need and why you need it will determine if you can truly consent.

I have been asked if you can find a partner on Fetlife ? My answer was sure you can but look to the left at the groups they belong to.

If the groups are cum sluts , face fucking whores , Humiliation Nation, and there are no local groups or Munchs he is active in , then just click on the X.

What are you consenting to ? What rules are you consenting to? What type of play are you consenting to ? What type of pain are you consenting to if any? What part do you want to take part in the relationship ? Are you giving up full control ? Are you just a bedroom submissive ? Are you going to consent to sending nudes of you ?

You have to know what it is you need and the type of relationship you need, you have to know what type of Dominant your looking for to fit your needs.

Some misinformation in the Michael Makai news paper reports saying he had climbed to a leader in the BDSM lifestyle which is a total lie, to my knowledge he never attended and local Munchs or functions , it was all about his book and then the coloring book. He was and is a nobody…

There is a huge misconception about the lifestyle and people like Michael Makai sets us back another hundred years.

BDSM is not about abuse but it is portrayed as abuse , manipulation , pain , and being used. Even when you try to truly explain your relationship the tree huggers just cannot comprehend how someone would want to be treated in such a way…

Be careful and safe think with a clear mind , but most of all be who and what you are…

Make no Mistake Michael Mikai is no Dominant , he is not Master , He is no Leader in the BDSM community , he is pedophile.

 

Some Have A Very Dark Side , Michael Makai

Posted in Bad Dominant, bdsm, BDSM 24/7 Relationships, BDSM Online Relationships, Charles Michael Segaloff, consequences, Convicted Sex Offender, Fake Dominants, http://housemakai.wordpress.com/, human trafficking, Living Poly, Manipulation, Michael Makai, morals, Poly couple, poly slaves, Polyamory, Polygamist, polygamy, Self Proclaimed Master, Slave, Submissive, Total Servitude / Solitude on December 26, 2015 by thekinkyworldofvile

I am going to say it was roughly two years ago I received a phone call , at that time I was very interested in starting a internet radio show , and today I am still pondering the idea. It is a long time commitment if I were to venture into such a thing.

The call came in and the number was blocked , I found that to be somewhat odd but I took it anyway , note this was already prearranged. I had a million questions and then a few more, as I was talking the answers I was getting , were in a belittling format , but I just looked over it because it was apparent the person I was speaking with on the phone was not who he portrayed himself to be…. It was not long after I unfriended  him from social media.

So a somewhat successful book it would seem he was at the top of the world , but I am sure the closet was getting so full the door would not shut, so he manipulated others to stand and hold it closed , if that makes any sense.

Thinking back about all the people I have met in the lifestyle ive noticed one thing , and that would be manipulation. Manipulation runs wild like a cancer, preying on those who have no clue about the lifestyle or maybe even infatuation plays a part , but there is a trigger..

No matter who you are, or think you are, or the game you are playing you always get caught. The world crashes down around you , the walls cave in around you and there is no place to run , or even any friends to turn to , because everyone runs and hides.

It is funny you think you have a million friends but then you find out your really alone, I cannot even imagine how that would feel, on any level.

So who am I speaking of ? I was not going to bring up any names but I have changed my mind.

If a 17 year old contacts a grown man , the only words that should be spoken is I cannot help you. Mike was contacted via face book this is where the relationship began.

I am speaking of no other than Charles Michael Segaloff , or as many know him as Michael Makai

I want to go over a few things first before I begin my rant. A Dominant is a leader in the community , reaching out to those in need , and not expecting anything in return. As we grow older we want to share what we have learned over the years, while my way or our way may not be yours maybe there would be something you could put to good use. While I cannot fix you or your relationship , maybe some of my advice just might come in handy.

When someone wants to profit from your needs or questions , this is not the trait of a real Dominant. I am proud to say I did not purchase any of his books, I did listen to about 10 minutes of his boring radio show.

You always get caught no matter how good you are, be it cheating , drugs , or picking up a 17 year old girl so you can have sex with her, more troublesome driving 2500 miles to pick her up and really thinking your going to get away with it.

Just thinking that makes you a dumb ass , and acting on it makes you stupid.

I cannot even think why A man or a Dominant could think that a 17 year old would even understand the lifestyle , but when you turn it into manipulation that makes it a different story.

When someone thinks they can just pickup a 17 year old girl and think no one is going to miss her or report her missing, then that makes you really stupid.

What I find really upsetting is he was able to form a 501 non-profit on the study of Polyamory, wow really ? Being a convicted sex offender since 2001, you would of thought someone would of caught that..

I am going to share some recent articles along with news paper releases..

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/bdsm-author-allegedly-lured-girl-small-town-sex-family-article-1.2475835

http://www.kswo.com/story/30818181/lawton-author-charged-for-bringing-teen-from-new-york-for-sex

I also have the Arrest Warrant that was shared with me on Facebook , which was more than happy to share all the emails and chats, as they should have…

So it is not like the lifestyle already has a bad name , I am not sure if this will make national news or not Mike is really a nobody…

 

 

 

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My First Book Will Be Released In About 48 hours. The Breaking Of Sabrina

Posted in abuse, Arianna, Breaking a Slave, human trafficking, slave, Submission, submissive with tags , , on July 11, 2014 by thekinkyworldofvile

Although The Breaking Of Sabrina is fiction , this type of activity does take place and often.
Something I never have understood, is why a Slave would want to be broken, or a Master would want that much responsibility on his shoulders..

The breaking of a slave can be consensual or non-consensual , I would assume it may start out consensual, but move to the later very fast.

I was asked to write a fiction on breaking a Slave, so I thought about how I would proceed if I was going to do such a thing. How long it would take, and what steps I would take.

The Stockholm Syndrome is alive and well. A human can be broke in as little as 48 hours under the right conditions, and it could take as long as 90 days. I would suppose how strong willed the individual was.

To break a slave , you would actually take them to the lowest level of life possible, total degradation, total humiliation , and you would remain consistent for what ever period of time it took to get the results you needed.
You would physically use , in a sexual sense that is. You would use every hole, just total humiliation..

You could even reach a point , where you could take someone outside with you, shopping and so on.

In the past I have been asked by a slave to break her. First although I probably could, I am not wired like that, nor would I want the responsibility of bringing the slave back up, if you were even able to.

The breaking of a slave also falls under human trafficking each year thousands of people are sold into slavery, and the numbers are increasing every year. In some cases a slave can be bought for as little as 300 us dollar. I am sure the breaking starts way before one is sold.

Human Trafficking is not only for work, but most are sold as sex slaves, and used for prostitutes. Very few are lucky enough to ever see freedom again.

I myself am against any type of abuse, if it is non consensual it is abuse. We do not see the lasting effects of abuse, or maybe we do see the effects once a name hits the paper.

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Slaves Then And Now

Posted in 24/7, abuse, Arianna, bdsm, BDSM Communitys, Bdsm events, Consensual, Depressed, DNA, Dominants, forced sex slaves, Genetics, human trafficking, In Service Slave, Local events, MAST, Master, Roman Slaves, serve, sex, sex slaves, sex trade, slave, submissive, Total Slavery on October 7, 2013 by thekinkyworldofvile

Friday night Arianna and I attended the local monthly Mast. MASTERS AND SLAVES TOGETHER. Mast is nation wide with about twenty five thousand members.

The topic was how we differ from Roman times and now, which I found very interesting. The Slaves in Roman times really had no say. Very few were ever released. If released the age was around thirty, back then that was the average life span.

Slavery had began way before the Roman era , we today are really not sure when slavery started, but at times while in Slavery, it was common for the females slaves to have children, even start family’s while husband and wife were slaves. Some slaves lived from generation to generation.

Okay I am sure you know where I am going with this. Some slaves lived in slavery from generation to generation. Some slaves were highly educated, not all were used just for manual labor. Some were teachers, some were book keepers, and some even ran the house. Some had children to carry on a family name.

Then we got off on the subject of DNA and genetics , how certain traits are passed from generation to generation. So why could not someone be born a submissive or a Slave. After all People are born Gay. So why would this be impossible.

Some know they are different at a very young age, while others are in their late 20’s , 30’s even 40’s and sometimes older. There is something that sets off an event. There is something that clicks in their mind. Then the research starts and they dig and dig for information until the answer is found.

Maybe my thoughts are getting pretty wild here, but it is a fact many who are submissives and slaves have a lot in common, not all mind you I said most. I have blogged about the most common things, number one being depression.

Slaves in the Roman times after sometime adjusted to their lifestyle, many were happy in their roles, Not so sure about the manual labor slaves. I am talking mostly the in house service slaves.

There were those used for sexual pleasure as well, nothing more and nothing less. The slaves for the most were well cared for, some when it came time to be released did not want to leave. Why leave if that is the only life you have known.

Today a small percentage of Master and Slave is what you would call consensual. A large percentage are those sold into the slave trade unwillingly , and are most likely doomed and will never see freedom again, from children to adults.

Those who serve willingly could it be genetics ? Could it be hidden away in ones DNA ?

I think of some pretty wild stuff.

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Human Trafficking Todays News

Posted in abuse, children, Forced Prostitution, forced sex slaves, Health, human trafficking, sex slaves, sex trade on June 20, 2012 by thekinkyworldofvile

This was today’s front page of yahoo

Up to 27 million people are living in slavery around the world, US Secretary of State Hillary Clinton estimated as the US unveiled its annual report into human trafficking.

But the report showed that as governments become more aware of the issue, instigating tough new laws and programs to help victims, progress is being made in wiping out what it called the “scourge of trafficking.”

“The end of legal slavery in the United States and in other countries around the world has not, unfortunately, meant the end of slavery,” said Clinton.

“Today it is estimated as many as 27 million people around the world are victims of modern slavery, what we sometimes call trafficking in persons,” she said at the unveiling of the report at the State Department.

“Those victims of modern slavery are women and men, girls and boys, and their stories remind us of the kind of inhumane treatment we are capable of as human beings,” said Clinton.

“Whatever their background, they are the living, breathing reminders that the work to eradicate slavery remains unfinished.”

As America prepares to mark the 150th anniversary of the proclamation of the emancipation of US slaves, people must reflect on “how much further we have to go to free all these 27 million victims,” Clinton added.

Out of the 185 countries included in the 2012 report, only 33 complied fully with laws in place to end human trafficking, putting them at the top of a four-tier ranking system.

But five countries had moved up from the bottom blacklist known as tier 3, including Myanmar and Venezuela, to be included among the 42 countries now on what is known as a tier 2 watch list.

Myanmar was removed from the blacklist because the government “took a number of unprecedented steps to address forced labor and the conscription of child soldiers; these steps amount to a credible commitment to undertake anti-trafficking reforms over the coming year,” the report said.

Syria however fell onto the blacklist for the first time, in a move which could cut off any US aid and make it harder to get US backing for funds from organizations like the World Bank and the International Monetary Fund.

“The government of Syria does not fully comply with the minimum standards for the elimination of trafficking and is not making significant efforts to do so,” the 2012 Trafficking in Persons report said.

Among the 16 other countries on the blacklist were Algeria, the Democratic Republic of the Congo, Libya, North Korea and Saudi Arabia.

Kenya slipped down onto the watch list for the first time in five years, while Nigeria lost its place on tier 1, moving down a notch as the report highlighted that women and children were forced into labor and sex trafficking.

But Clinton hailed the fact that a total of 29 countries had been upgraded to a higher ranking, “which means that their governments are taking the right steps.”

They included Bangladesh, which was bumped up to tier two for making significant efforts to comply with minimum standards, including passing “a comprehensive anti-trafficking law” in December.

Ambassador Luis CdeBaca, director of the office to combat trafficking in persons, said while the number of people officially identified as victims of trafficking and slavery had gone up by 28 percent since last year to 42,291, the numbers of prosecutions in 2012 had also increased by 10 percent to 3,969.

So while countries “still have a little ways to go” there was “the beginnings, I think, of a real trend,” he said.

This year’s report focuses on how to better protect the victims, and urges governments to meet the challenge head-on.

“Traffickers are criminals. Governments — which alone have the power to punish criminals and provide legal recourse to survivors — cannot waver in their efforts to confront modern slavery,” the report says.

But it also argues that human trafficking takes many guises and it is not just about moving people across borders to trap them in prostitution.

“The United States government, and increasingly, the international community, view ‘trafficking in persons’ as the term through which all forms of modern slavery are criminalized,” it says.

“The essence of the trafficking experience is the denial of freedom, including the freedom to choose where and how you live, the freedom to work or choose not to work, the freedom from threats, and the freedom of bodily integrity,” the report says.

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Viles thoughts on porn stars, strippers, and prostitutes

Posted in abuse, human trafficking, sex slaves, sex trade on June 20, 2012 by thekinkyworldofvile

Okay I am very open minded, more than most people, and I do not look down on anyone for there profession everybody has to make a living. or support a habit. Its the fact of life and survival. Who are we to judge.

My favorite porn star is Gauge just incredibly hot, at 4’11 she rocks my world. A few years back she was in Orlando. and I had to meet her, I have seen all of her movies over the years, and had been waiting for the opportunity of a life time. On my way Orlando is about 45 miles from me I hopped on my Harley and off I went. about midway it started poring rain, I pulled over on with the rain suit, and off I was again, almost there my frigging Harley breaks down, WTF  are you serious? I should of bought a fucking Honda.Okay a fouled spark plug I carry an extra. but the time I reached Fairvilla thats an adult store in Orlando Gauge was gone. No fucking way. Another day.

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Another one of my favorite porn stars is Sasha Grey, not only is she hot but truly nasty, she takes gagging to an all new level, she is truly built to please. and one day I shall meet.

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I do from time to time enjoy going to the local Titty bar, not to pick up women,but just to relax, for the most I sit at the bar, most of the time the bartenders are hotter than the dancers anyway, there are exceptions. When I go out I call a cab, I do not drive when I go to a club or bar, it just makes sense. 40 bucks is much cheaper than a couple of thousand. I have a few strippers who are very good friends, I even have a few I play with, I did not say fuck I said play with, that is correct, BDSM play spanking you know by now is my favorite, bondage. Bdsm is not about sex, I get just as much out of a session as sex, well okay that is a lie, it is control..

These girls work very hard, long hours and sometimes little pay, then there are others who just make a killing. lollipops in daytona beach is a nice club, a lot of russians though… I stay away during race week and bike week…  The truth is many of these women put a lot of work into there dance routine , some of the dances are very artistic

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Prostitution has been around since the beginning of time lets face it Adam even paid for it in one way or another. and the profession will always be here. The only different today is , it is to feed a drug habit, and way back when most women did it to support there selves. and a way to make good money.

While I do not par-take in picking these women up, I do feel where they are coming from, today they are trying to pay for a drug habit, or even worse they are forced into prostitution, which I do not agree with at all.Many feel lost or unwanted, a very low self esteem, like there is no light at the end of the tunnel. In many countries it is legal, Germany all over Europe, and most Asian country’s.

The difference in those places are , they have to get a check up once a week , and tested for HIV monthly, in most Asian countries the women have to carry an ID  card showing the date of there last checkup. While in Germany is was like punching a time clock, the husband went to work as with the wife.

There are a few bloggers who are ex, prostitutes and my hat goes off to them, It takes a lot to want to turn your life around, I would imagine a very hard struggle. it takes a lot to make a 360 degree turn. but it just goes to show if you truly want something you can have it. It may not be the easiest path, and tons of obstacles but these lady’s have shown it can be done..

Today’s sex trade is running wild, so is human trafficking and forced slavery, sex slaves. Governments are spending millions of dollars to stop these trades, but like the fight on drugs it is never ending.

These women are abused, beating, and in most cases forced into taking drugs. Making nothing while there pimps pocket everything. If caught they should be shot on sight.

So here is my thought , when a prostitute is arrested , why lock her up until she can make bail, which most cannot, or hold her til a court date. Why not offer some type of rehab, job training, a drug free environment to live until they get on there feet. Locking them up is doing nothing, it is costing the local governments more money to house and keep arresting for the same offense. Why not help? We spend billions on welfare for people who do not even deserve it, we spend billions on the homeless when most don’t even want help , some are content being homeless, while there are a few who truly deserve the help.

Offer these girls a new start in life, most have children, most want a change but there is no place to turn. There are exceptions to the rules, some are content with there way of life, but most are just lost souls…

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