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Silly Mind Games

Posted in abuse, bdsm, BDSM Relationships, Master And Slave, Mind Games, slave, submissive with tags , , , , , on July 19, 2015 by thekinkyworldofvile

Manipulation , mind games , lying , feeding off of someone’s emotions. You pick the ones male or female who has problems , you see someone being submissive as a weakness. You use and abuse until someone wises up then you move onto your next victim. The thing is the more you move on the shorter the rope gets.
Once you reach the end of the rope and you will because people like that always come to the end and they lose..

Psychological manipulation
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Psychological manipulation is a type of social influence that aims to change the perception or behavior of others through underhanded, deceptive, or abusive tactics.[1] By advancing the interests of the manipulator, often at another’s expense, such methods could be considered exploitative, abusive, devious, and deceptive. Social influence is not necessarily negative. For example, doctors can try to convince patients to change unhealthy habits. Social influence is generally perceived to be harmless when it respects the right of the influenced to accept or reject and is not unduly coercive. Depending on the context and motivations, social influence may constitute underhanded manipulation.

This is not just men , some women play a huge role in this process as well. I have seen new Dominants get thrown to the tigers , even after warning them , refusing to listen ,they had everything under control , only to invite people to a self pity party.

The Pathological Liar , lies even when there is no reason to lie and most are easily spotted but others can be hard to figure out, the Pathological Liar can be male or female and both think they have something to gain , and will go to great lengths to get what they want fucking over who ever gets in their way, this includes family..

My philosophy has always been if you just want to fuck just say it, if you just want your dick sucked just say it. To lie too someone in order to get a piece of ass on the side makes no sense.

This is nothing about abuse it is just people who live to lie for no reason. My ex who is vanilla would lie just to be lying even when there was no need, even today when we talk half oft he conversation is a lie.

When you speak about relationships it does not matter if your vanilla , a baby girl , and daddy dom, a dominant and a submissive or master and slave you have to be able to trust. If you cannot trust you always have those fucked up thoughts in the back of your mind.
It is really the same if a man is beating you, he always will , or if a partner is cheating they always will.

I cannot even imagine having to go through the whole meeting someone and pretending to be something or someone I am not just to get some pussy. I cannot even relate to those who do , mainly because it is way to much work.  Then having to continue playing a stupid ass game in order to fuck once or twice a month, it is not worth it.

I found out at an early age if you lie , you have to tell another one to cover up the first one, then another and another, then bam your busted, but you try and lie to cover up all the other lies you’ve told, how does that make any fucking sense ?

These people who play these games , male or female think you are stupid . Here is what makes you stupid, when you know your being played , or you think something is wrong but your to scared to asking questions or your hoping in the back of your mind things will get better. That is what makes you stupid or your just that desperate….

This goes for those who see married people your Desperate , your like the homeless people going through the garbage picking out the scraps.

These are the same people who sit around and cry the fuck me , my life is so fucked up but your to stupid to sit and think hey maybe if I really gave a fuck or maybe I did not spend so much time trying to fuck other overs maybe just maybe my life would not be so fucked up.

If your not happy get the fuck out, come clean and leave. You do not even have to explain yourself although I did when I divorced my vanilla wife, not that I had to but I wanted to make it clear she had nothing to do with my reasoning or the way I needed to live my life.

One of the first words from anyone when entering a relationship is always tell the truth , never lie to me. If the relationship starts out as a lie , how can you ever trust..

I think we would all agree kids play mind games..