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New Toys For Arianna

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I love Sensory Depravation it can make the mind think of some crazy things. Under the right conditions you can also reach sub-space.

When people talk about sub-space many think there has to be pain involved , and that is so far from the truth it is not funny..

I was talking to someone the other day about planting a seed. Your planting a thought, the thought then becomes a need. This is a way to get something across without really having to say anything, and yes it works.

If that seed is planted you need pain to reach sub-space, guess what ? Then that will be the only way to achieve reaching that point.

In reality reaching sub-space is about getting into ones mind , once your able to do so, the fun is unlimited.

Many also confuse reaching an orgasm during play is part of sub-space, and that is far from the truth as well..

The pain side of things, the body knows when it is being hurt, and there are steps the body takes to protect itself. Once you start feeling pain, your body sends most of your blood to your abdominal area, causing you to get cold, and confusion sets in, and you believe your reaching sub-space. Even during impact play, blood is rushed to your stomach area… Impact play that includes breast, pussy, or ass, all the body knows its being hurt and it is trying to protect itself..

Sub-space is an art, sub-space is the ability to get into someone’s mind, be it erotic or causing confusion. It is how intense the play session is, and this can be done without pain.. The key is to get those endorphin’s flowing, once you have hit that process the sky is the limit.

You start by taking senses away, sight, hearing, are the two most valuable, then of course touch and smell, but you take sight away, and you bring in a little fear, the mind begins to wonder. Music is always good even being played a little loud, losing sight and not being able to comprehend what is going on around you, causes confusion.

I myself do not enjoy marking up my property, I do not enjoy leaving bruises, this is mainly because if something went wrong, and for some reason I had to explain what happened, yea just not good, because even when consensual, sometimes the law does not see it as being consensual.

A good thing to do is to get familiar with BDSM and the Law, I have blogged about this before. This is why I have mentioned it is very important to get active in the local community. You meet people Doctors, Lawyers, you meet people from every walk of life. It is good to know the right people just in case..

Okay I am sorta of bouncing around here today, so back to the toys. Here lately, Arianna’s needs have began to grow even more.

When I first met her I explained BDSM was like a drug, the more you experience the more you need. The more control you give, the more you want to continue giving..

It is a drug and it is a very powerful drug. The one thing you need to be sure of is your dealer is in full control.. Because if he is not you can get hurt and you can get hurt bad.

BDSM is a mind thing, getting in your head, not only getting in your head but having the ability to stay there, get inside move around, look around see what’s going on. Being able to figure you out, know what makes you think, and then being able to toy around a little.

This is achieved through trust, real trust, I mean trusting someone with your life, because if you are not there, sub-space will not be there.
Trust, would your Dominant take a bullet for you? Would you take a bullet for your Dominant? that is trust.


The seed was planted, a couple of days ago Arianna brought up the subject about wanting a hood, but now it has become a need. You plant the seed and you leave it alone.

Arianna loves Butt Plugs but she wanted one with a tail, so I placed an order.

This will surely bring out the submission on a higher level, being home, nude and being instructed to insert and wear.

The new Vibrator I picked out along with the hood and the fox tail, her old one is almost ready to retire. No woman should be without a Vibrator.


I am also looking for a new flogger, but yea I am not paying 90 bucks for one so I will just keep shopping…

Okay I know I jumped around a lot I hope everyone is having an awesome weekend..

One more thing I am preparing more interviews. I have a Dominant who is married with children and he will explain how D’s works in his home.
Also the famous Cinnimon will be dropping in and helping me out with the Baby Girl thing, and helping us understand more. I wish more Baby girls would step forward but she is going to be awesome…

Much Love

Sub space Does Not Have To Equal Pain

Posted in abuse, Adrenaline, anticipation, Arianna, bdsm, BDSM Session, blindfold, Bound, Consensual, control, Dominants, Ego, emotional, Emotions, endorphin's, erotic, Fear, Hot Wax, Ice, inhibitions, masochist, Master, music, Pain, sadist, Safe, Sensory Deprivation, session, slave, sub-space, Submission, submissive on October 2, 2013 by thekinkyworldofvile

Sherri was a true Masochist in almost seven year that bitch did not cry one time, with the exception of us parting. I had never seen anything like it. A belt, a single tail whip, or with a flogger with each strike her eyes would just glaze over. I remember our first session, I did not have a clue to what was going to happen or what I was going to do. She knew I was fairly new to the lifestyle so I let her instruct me. When I left her house some five hours later, I was scared to death, that bitch was black and blue from the neck down. I had even broken skin open in some places and she would just run her fingers across the cuts, and just moan. At times she could not even speak, her eyes just staring off into space with each contact the whip would make.

In the beginning it was fun well with the exception of the first session. I would have a bad week and I could take all of my frustration out on her, and she enjoyed it. A couple of years passed and my side of the enjoyment was coming to an end, along with the pain and the much needed humiliation it was now a task, a task that had to be out done from the last. It was taking it’s toll on me.

I was not in love I had not been nor would I of ever been, in the seven years being together I never fucked her one time, she sucked a lot of dick, but I never banged her. To this day I am not sure why, I just did not have that connection or the want. Maybe I did not want to develop any feelings. The only thing I truly liked and enjoyed the word NO never came out of her mouth. The words I can’t never came out of her mouth. Today that is not so important to me, I suppose back then I had somewhat of an ego.

Subspace you must be able to get into the mind of the submissive, the same if you want a relationship with a submissive or slave the Dominant must be able to get into their mind. To be able to figure them out, know what they are thinking, you must know your partner inside out.

Subspace is not obtainable every time you play it may not happen every twenty times you play. Some say they are able to achieve subspace every session but I find that hard to believe, I am not saying it is not possible, I would think it would be hard. Subspace also depends on the submission you are playing with, if you fully have control, if the submissive has giving herself to you mind and body.

You can actually achieve subspace without even touching the submissive, the idea is during play to confuse the mind, a type of sensory deprivation , I have blogged about this before with just blindfolding, music ,incense and being bound.  I have been wanting to try this on Arianna but our work schedules are pretty full. As a matter of fact although we do play it is not near as often as I would like.

You tie your submissive up, blindfold her, you have two or three CD player , playing different music at a low volume, you lite two or three different incense, then comes the hot wax, and the ice cubes. The mind cannot possibly process everything that is going on. You have the submission, she is tied spread. She is blindfolded. At this point the submissive feels vulnerable, now adding everything else, not speaking just mostly watching, this is where it all begins.

It may not work the first session but it will. I am also not sure how it would work in a vanilla relationship I have never tried it. When one hits subspace you are confusing the mind, most of the time with pain, but pain does not have to play a part in order for them to hit subspace.  Some enjoy pain some get off on pain even the thought of it, then some do not. If they are not into pain or they cannot take it, you will do more damage than good. I have heard Doms say I can train you to take pain, that is a load of crap.

I have a huge surprise for Arianna this weekend.

Try it you might like it.



Off Track Again One of my favorites Cyndi Lauper

Posted in Cyndi Lauper, Gene Simmons, Karaoke Singers, Lip Sync, music on August 10, 2012 by thekinkyworldofvile

Cyndi Lauper is a true performer, she loves what she does. What makes her and just a few others so special is.She does not lip sync. There are many self proclaimed Diva’s Who lip Sync during there live shows. This is not only a rip off to their fans, but a true let down. Madona who lip sync’s in all her shows was a big let down when she performed at the last Super Bowl. Brittney Spears is another, and who can forget the first ones to really get busted.  Milli Vanilli and it was not even them singing, I saw Ashely Simpson on SNL WOW she just ran off stage.

I have seen Cher in Daytona Beach I was like 2nd row, from what I could tell she was really singing. I have seen Joan Jett, who did not lip sync.

So why would these so called entertainers rip off there fans. More so why would fans pay to get ripped off…

Here is an interview with the man Gene Simmons..

Gene Simmons Says “Karaoke Singer” Madonna Inappropriate For Super Bowl

December 7th, 2011 // 20 Comments

The legendary tongue of KISS rocker Gene Simmons just took on a more barbed tone, thanks to critical remarks he made about upcoming Super Bowl XLVI halftime performer Madonna, who is now officially set to entertain the football-loving crowd at Lucas Oil Stadium in Indianapolis, Indiana on February 5. “I don’t think it’s appropriate,” he told TMZ about the NFL’s choice of the Material Girl for the game. Read on!

TMZ grabbed the “Rock And Roll All Nite” bassist as he was leaving Hollywood establishment Boa and asked him to elaborate on Madge’s upcoming Super Bowl performance.

“I love all karaoke singers,” he said, with his lengthy tongue firmly planted in cheek. “I like all the girls who get up and sing with tapes.”

The site’s interviewer asked 62-year-old Simmons if he caught Scotty McCreery’s recent lip-synced flubbing of “The Star-Spangled Banner” during the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade. Gene said it was “a bad thing,” then brought things back around to Madonna again.

“You gotta have some integrity,” he said. “I don’t care what your music is. Have some integrity. Be real. Or, full disclosure before the fact: hold up a sign and say, ’70 percent of what you hear is fake. It’s a tape. I’m a karaoke singer’.”

Finally, at the tail end of the interview, Gene said, “By the way, Madonna’s terrific.” Surely that makes it all better, eh, Madge fans?

What do you think of Simmons’ blunt comments about Madonna? Does he deserve to hear “Papa Don’t Preach” piped into his eardrums at full volume, or was he right on the money about her?

You can watch this whole concert and see Cindy is really singing, she is awesome..

There is a group called Chocolate Starfish

Posted in Chocolate Starfish, music, Video on August 10, 2012 by thekinkyworldofvile

I am guessing they are big in the UK .

Music is a Huge part of my life

Posted in music on August 3, 2012 by thekinkyworldofvile

I have a wide range of music, from Opera to blues, some Hip Hop, old school. I do not think there is a day that goes by when I do not sit down and relax, and just listen.. So I am going to share something to give you a better since of who I am….. Kiss is Probably one of my Favorite bands of all time. I have seen them 14 times. Poison is another big Favorite. Travis Tritt is just awesome. Sara Chang I have met her. I picked her up from the Orlando Airport a couple of years ago, she performed in Daytona. You know how I am about Asians , the first time in my life I was speechless. I was giving free tickets to see her, I was in awe all night.

This is the fucking man, I have met Tom….

Another Awesome guy, Kid Rock very talented

Bob Seger has withstood the time

Sinead O’Connor her voice is just incredible.

Every song tells a story, just as every picture does.

Awesome BDSM music for a session

Posted in bdsm, music, session on July 29, 2012 by thekinkyworldofvile

I do get off track Sometimes

Posted in bdsm, music, Video on July 26, 2012 by thekinkyworldofvile

I love my blog, I love the people who follow. I have met people from all over the world, a few from the UK, a couple from the Philippines, which Filipinos have some of the nicest ass’s in the world. Russia, Belgium, but I think I pissed her off have not heard from her in sometime. Canada, Vietnam , Cambodia I have fucked in both of those countries. Thailand, I use to fly there once a year to see a submissive.  Hungry some hot ass chicks there as well, South Africa I did not know they had internet. and now Louisiana some Cajun chicks.

I still am planning a trip to the Philippines later this year I will stay about a month, I will either go to Cebu, or Angeles City The second reo of the world.

I love BDSM I love the lifestyle, the control, the kink, and yes the sex, the sex is incredible. I love all my friends in the community. Last march I was in a bad accident, a girl hit me head on, we were both doing 45mph , I was really fucked up for about 6 months. I had a submissive friend who lived in Tallahassee just drop what she was doing and came and stayed with me for 3 weeks.

Most of all everything I post is the truth, my life experiences, and my thoughts. The whole truth, I live by the truth.

Sometimes I just have to change it up, I received an email complaining about the music videos I posted yup. Wow. I post a lot of content on here, days I post 4 or 5 times, it is very seldom I miss a day. It is not an easy task, and there may come a day when I may run out of things to post.

I have been asked to post pictures of my submissive I am seeing, I am not going to do that. I did post some pics of breast that I did. but her face was not showing. The fact is what I did to her was not really my thing, she wanted to try the evil stick out. As much as I dislike my ex I would never post any pics of her. I do take a lot of pics but they are for my eyes only.

To complain because I post a few music videos are you serious? Music is a big part of my life. So if I post something and it is not to your liking , just don’t look at it, or if it bothers you that much delete me.

I try to visit everyone’s blog I really do, but the fact is I get some 300 emails a day of just post, I am sorry I cannot get to everyone every day.

Again I want to thank everyone who visits my blog. I know you readers are not going to agree with everything I say, I am different I am me. I am not going to change, and I am sure when I die, I am going to have a lot of explaining to do.

Thank you all.

Image Me 5 yrs ago