I was just mesmerized with I stumbled across this Photo. I am sure you will feel the same way.
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Bdsm in the last ten yrs has changed so much , and has lost so much respect.
I remember back in the day, when I was first learning , I visited another Dominant almost daily, talking, listening to him, and observing when out in public. It was almost like being in school, then older Dominants were eager to teach, and share what I thought was valuable information.
I was 18 when I learned the difference between being in control and being controlling, I also learned real fast when some bitch was trying to run game on me, for those of you who don’t know me I use the word bitch loosely , not a bad word to me, in most cases its a pet name.
A couple of months ago I went to a munch in Daytona Beach , I sat down at the table, and this young guy walks up to me and says I am master Asshole, well okay that was not his name, but it is to me. He asked how old I was okay I am 49, he then began to explain I was to old to attend there munch, Now this guy is 21 yrs old. What the fuck does he know about BDSM much less being a master. 21 are you serious ? I am to old , a dude like that should be clinging to me and learning , that BDSM is just not about spreading someone and dumping your cum in them.
What is worse it has taking me over two months to get pissed off , well not pissed off aggravated, yea just throw me out to the pasture. The nursing home , I left my walker at home.
Little does he know if I could of talked to his sub or slave for 20 min she would of been on the back of my Harley.
I was on Fetlife why I don’t have a clue I have a profile there, but I saw a young sub was having trouble finding a place to start her new munch, now she is 19 , okay its possible I suppose. So I email her and say hey this restaurant will welcome you and let you use there backroom no charge, she called and confirmed, set the munch up, and was Vile’s names mentioned , not a fucking chance she took all the credit, well good for her.
The lack of respect in the lifestyle is what is giving it a bad name now, the abuse is running wild.
I mentor a submissive who lives on the west coast here in Florida , she called me about a Dominant she wanted to meet , she began to explain, that if he liked her , she was going to take his seed right there in the parking lot of Denny’s and get pregnant. Wow yea a 22 yr old. Look I am not knocking someone for there age it is very possible for a young guy to have his shit together very possible.
The Collar has no meaning , they are all Velcro , you meet your sub Friday night and you collar her, yup that is they way it works , and she has to bend over right then so you can fuck her, and the next week she is history, gone out the fucking door, and it was her fault because she would not respect him , after he demanded it . I DEMAND THAT YOU RESPECT ME ON YOUR KNEES YOU FUCKING WHORE, that is what I am doing wrong.
We as people have become disposable , love is all but gone , love is with the baby boomers , I am not that old yet. Why make a relationship work when you can just pack up and leave , that is the easy way, or kick your submissive out the door, you can find another , they are disposable today.
I don’t really believe that , the truth is most relate BDSM to sex , don’t get me wrong I love sex, but today I have to have that connection. not like mushy or anything not Vile , just the connection.
Respect is earned , it is not giving , then it is up to the Dominant to keep the control, on a daily basis., in return the dominant returns the respect.
He is there for his , be it if she is sick, then he takes care of her, that is what he is suppose to do. Support her in the goals she has, spend time talking, communicating .
There is no reason a dominant should ever yell , or raise his voice , that is not control. If he is real or even a Domme there is no reason to yell , or degrade. That is not control.
Okay I am finished venting for today..
This is a very hot pic by the way.
I have a Hobby I love photography , but more so I love Black and White. I have an old Nikon EL-2 with a factory lens…
I love black and white erotic photography , although I have not found many takers. I still prefer 35mm to digital. Old tress are my favorite . Just think if a 200 year old Oak could talk, the stories you would hear..
Okay this is not about my typical BDSM . Just sharing my likes..