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Our fetishes

Posted in 24/7, Acceptance, Adult Baby, Alt.com, Arianna, Ass, Baby Girl, bdsm, Collarme.com, communication, control, controlling, Daddy, Daddy Dom, Daddy Doms, Discipline, Dominants, FaceBook, Fake Dominants, Fake submissive, Fetish, fetlife, Foot Fetish, Foot Worship, Honesty, Kink, kinky, Master, Mini Skirts, Old Guard, Old Leather Guard, Pony Girl, pony play, puppy play, pussy, rimming, self confidence, Self-Discipline, sex, slave, Spanking, Submission, submissive on November 5, 2013 by thekinkyworldofvile

We all have our own fetishes, even if we do not admit it. We all get off on certain things, and at times our minds are more kinkier than we want to act out.

In our lifestyle we should never look down on someone because of their kinks or fetishes, we may not understand them, but it goes the other way as well someone else may not understand us.

When first meeting someone, there are somethings that are not best to share to soon. You should be careful with what information you give. One it could blow the whole thing, or two it could be used as ammunition later down the road when things go bad.

I have a bad ass fetish , I love to look, touch grab. Most of all I love anal sex, to me anal sex is the most submissive act there is, the most private part on the female body.

I have a short skirt fetish, I have almost broke my neck turning to fast to catch another glimpse. I am also a leg man I love a nice pair of legs, although they do look better on my shoulders.

The BDSM community has grown so much over the past 10 years or so, finely there was a place where people could be excepted and not be judged, or is that statement true ?

If you travel back in time to the late 60’s 70’s the Leather Guard Master And Slave, there were no Submissive. Then in the late 80’s and 90’s there was an explosion, the internet was a game changer people came to life, we could finely be who we needed to be.

Now you have puppy play , pony play , Daddy Dom and Baby Girl . Rubber fetishes , the list just goes on and on. We can be free and not be judged or is that statement really true ?

We are judged by the same people who live our lifestyle , we are judged by the ones who do not want to be judged. Why is this ? Because everyone has to be right.

That Master does not know what he is doing, or that Master is a FAKE , that Master cannot control his Slave, Or the best one is that Master cannot be real because he will not share.  Yea Ive heard that one before.

So when you first meet someone a Master meeting a new Submissive or Slave, a Submissive or Slave meeting a new Master you have to lay everything out on the table, but wait. Yes there is a BUT. These things should not be shared on the first meeting eh maybe even the second meeting. You should want to become friends first and for most.  Even when chatting and getting to know each other the topic of BDSM or limits or sex should not come up. If this does ladies you are just a piece of ass, and nothing more. I want to know you as a person, I want to become your best friend. Once you have got past that stage, then you lay your cards out, because if you do not, 3 months 6 months down the road these so called fetishes comes to light and guess what your partner is not game.

We as Dominant are suppose to be a different breed of men. We are secure by nature, we are not controlling by nature, we are self sufficient by nature, we are calm by nature. We indeed are a different breed. So if this is the case why do we not except others for who they are.  Every Dominant is different we all train different we all expect different things out of our relationship, we all have different goals, we all have different needs. .

Okay now there are a few good books out there for the BDSM lifestyle Master and Slave, but these books are one mans opinion, or a Slaves opinion. I am not to say what they believe is wrong or right, what they do works just fine for them. What I do works for me and Arianna.

I will tell you ladies something if you want to meet a real Slave meet mine Arianna, She can give you the definition of what living a Slaves life is all about. The one thing is we had an agreement prior to entering a relationship. She showed me her card I showed mine, there was no Bullshit. I will tell you this I do not negotiate, it is my way and my way only.  This does not mean I do not ask her for her opinion because I do. If there are any major decisions to be made we talk. Arianna is not a Doormat , nor is she stupid.

Be honest and upfront if someone does not like what you have to say, or they say no way would I think about doing that do not give in stand your ground. Be who you are and who you need to be.

Today we have a large number of BDSM site’s Collarme.com. More of a spam site, ALT.com use to because now you can only find Nigerian  slaves , you have FaceBook which can be awesome, and who could forget FetLife, every fucking kink in the world and you are not Bombed with spam.

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My Obsession with Puppy Play

Posted in bdsm, Pony Girl, pony play, puppy play on September 10, 2012 by thekinkyworldofvile

A few years ago I saw the movie The Pet, although to me and most of the BDSM community is was a real let down when it came to explaining puppy and animal play. It took sometime to figure the movie out, that those being trained, fed well, and forced to get into shape. Only to find out they were being sold for their organs.

Andrea Edmondson who played the pet was an awesome choice. She played the part right to the T. What caught my eye was the devotion she had for her owner. Who in the beginning was training her to sell, but fell in love with her..

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Image This is from a Japanese film , but I love this idea.

I am not sure about owning a pet 24/7 I do believe it could be some very interesting play, maybe for a weekend. As far as 24/7 it would really Intel a lot of responsibility , the same as complete servitude, which I would think would be difficult. At one time I was looking for a slave to serve in complete servitude, but after much thinking, I decided against.

Being able to come home, and bath your pet, feed while I eat, take out side to play fetch, the thought is truly intriguing. A new best friend it you will.

Some do take things to the extreme when it comes to play, I know a local pony trainer, who has events and competitions, and his does really live it almost 24/7.

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I have met some kittens but found it was really not my thing, she was truly into the scene jumping on furniture, getting into things and snooping around.

Image A couple of years ago I knew a slave, she was going to school here local, and one Friday night when I was available she would come over, shower I would feed her then put her in a cage. The relationship was non sexual, as a matter of fact very little communication. At night I would put her in a cage, and that is where she slept, only to be woke up at 3 am so she could use the bathroom. This went on for about six months, she graduated and moved on.

This was her way of getting away from the everyday normal life, she had no worries or anything to think about. During this time she was able to completely let go and be who she truly wanted to be without being judged or made fun of.

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The relationship for the most is non sexual, but I do suppose if two were close enough it could be sexual at times. The puppies I have spoken with preferred not to have sex during this time of play. I would also think if you mounted your puppy it would bring on the feeling of humility, which to me at times is not a bad thing.

I also believe for the dominant this type of play could be relaxing at times, and enjoyable. I have never played fetch although it is something I do want to try, but 24/7 again I am not so sure I would want to take it to that limit.

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Are you a Human Pet

Posted in bdsm, Human Pet, puppy play, your own pet on July 17, 2012 by thekinkyworldofvile

I watched the movie The Pet last year, it was really a big let down, not just for me, but pretty much the entire BDSM community. What I thought was going to be a story line of a Dominant owning a human pet, turned out to be a farm for organs. So so sad, to say the least.

The truth is in the last 10 years or so this fetish has really grown in large numbers, ranging from a kitty, to a puppy, a pony, and yes a pig. I believe this interaction between the two is based on humiliation to some extent, thus bringing greater submission.. There are couples as well who live this 24/7, with the pet becoming completely dependent of there owner.

Being fed after there owner eats, being bath, brushed, including teeth. Now if your thinking you might want to own a pet lets look at some other aspects of it. You are also responsible for all medical bills as well, it is your responsibility to reach out to the community to seek others in the lifestyle for your pet may inter act with others.

I can also tell you, most of the time this is a non sexual relationship, notta, none, zero sex at all..

At any rate I came across some information that goes deeper in depth, of what it is to really own a pet…

How is the animal chosen?

There are typically three ways.

  • One way is the submissive acting upon his/her instincts to which animal they most identify with. If the submissive is loyal and playful perhaps they lean towards puppy. If they enjoy being led around and high protocol training perhaps it would be pony.
  • One other common way for the animal to be chosen is for the Dominant to choose for the submissive. If S/He prefers a puppy to a kitty, the submissive will be molded into a puppy. As another example if the Dom is a farmer who enjoys breastfeeding from His submissive, perhaps He would like her to be a cow.
  • The submissive can also switch animals from time to time if their pet play is temporary, if they simply enjoy experimentation or if they do not identify with one particular animal.

Why pet play?

  • One large reason many D/s couples go into pet play is for the humiliation and dependence aspect. Restricting a submissive’s movement and vocalizations forces them to be that much more dependent on their Dom. Also, not being allowed on furniture or having to use a litter box instead of a toilet can be very humiliating for some.
  • Another is because it is simply fun. It is a great psychological and emotional release to be able to come home and let loose the restrictions of humanity and what humans are “supposed to be like.” It is just plain fun to bat around a cat toy or play tricks and get treat rewards. It could also be described as a “de-stressing” process from the rigors of daily life, especially if the participants work outside the home.
  • It can help with submission, as taking away some parts of the submissive’s humanity can help take away their sense of equality. It can help the submissive orient their mind to their Dom being their focus in life.
  • Pet play could also be used as punishment. If the submissive misbehaves badly it could be punishment to be put out in the pig stalls with the pigs for a period of time, or whatever animal is available, and made to act like that animal as the punishment.

How does one engage in pet play?

  • Restrict movement via bondage.
  • Restrict verbal communication, perhaps to only certain words or animal sounds such as “woof!” or “mew!” or more child-like words such as “up!” or “potty!”.
  • Training exercises such as tricks for puppies, walking on leads and leashes or for ponies pulling a cart/plow.
  • Eating and drinking out of bowls without the use of hands and/or silverware.
  • Learning to use a litter box instead of a toilet, or even going outside.
  • Playing with toys, such as batting toys for kitties or tug-of-war toys for puppies.
  • Begging in the manner of the animal you identify with, such as a puppy whining.
  • Caging.
  • Not being allowed on furniture without permission.

Also, safety is incredibly important!

So please keep these things in mind, and also any others that fit your lifestyle:

  • When it comes to eating actual animal food, while it is okay for perhaps a short scene, it is not safe to do so on a regular basis. Humans have different nutritional needs than animals do, and it is incredibly important to get your nutritional needs met. There are many ways to simulate animal food and treats such as mashing up meatloaf with ketchup, using stews or even baking treats in the shapes of bones and such. However, for any long term play, Eukanuba, Purina and any other brand of animal food you use, are for canines and felines, not humans.
  • If you choose to use training and/or shock collars, please, PLEASE read the instructions! On a personal level I am not into electric play, but it is out there. So please, be careful and safe.
  • If you put your pup slave into a kennel, please keep in mind that they are very cramped. You do not want your pup slave to be damaged from being in that position for long periods of time.
  • If the submissive has had their ability to move and speak restricted it is incredibly important that some form of communication is available to them so that they may communicate if something has happened and/or gone wrong, both physically and emotionally.
  • Also, in my opinion having a human pet can add some responsibility to the Dom because when some of the submissive’s humanity is taken away and especially if their communication is restricted, the Dominant must that much more aware of the submissive’s frame of mind.

So that’s a very basic overview of pet play. It can get a lot more specific if one looks at each relationship and the animal(s) involved. A note though; pet play sometimes can be sexual, and sometimes can be completely non-sexual. It, as with everything else, simply depends on the couple involved. Please keep in mind that I am in no way speaking of bestiality. This is two or more human beings acting and role playing within the confines of their negotiated relationship.

Most importantly: Have fun and ask questions if you need or want to!!

In my opinion, pet play can deepen submission, but only if it’s right for you.

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Human pets

Posted in bdsm, Collars, erotic, puppy play on May 11, 2012 by thekinkyworldofvile

Human Pets are Real

Posted by vile62 on April 13, 2012 in BDSM, Roleplay

I watched the movie The Pet last year, it was really a big let down, not just for me, but pretty much the entire BDSM community. What I thought was going to be a story line of a Dominant owning a human pet, turned out to be a farm for organs. So so sad, to say the least.

The truth is in the last 10 years or so this fetish has really grown in large numbers, ranging from a kitty, to a puppy, a pony, and yes a pig. I believe this interaction between the two is based on humiliation to some extent, thus bringing greater submission.. There are couples as well who live this 24/7, with the pet becoming completely dependent of there owner.

Being fed after there owner eats, being bath, brushed, including teeth. Now if your thinking you might want to own a pet lets look at some other aspects of it. You are also responsible for all medical bills as well, it is your responsibility to reach out to the community to seek others in the lifestyle for your pet may inter act with others.

I can also tell you, most of the time this is a non sexual relationship, notta, none, zero sex at all..

At any rate I came across some information that goes deeper in depth, of what it is to really own a pet…

How is the animal chosen?

There are typically three ways.

  • One way is the submissive acting upon his/her instincts to which animal they most identify with. If the submissive is loyal and playful perhaps they lean towards puppy. If they enjoy being led around and high protocol training perhaps it would be pony.
  • One other common way for the animal to be chosen is for the Dominant to choose for the submissive. If S/He prefers a puppy to a kitty, the submissive will be molded into a puppy. As another example if the Dom is a farmer who enjoys breastfeeding from His submissive, perhaps He would like her to be a cow.
  • The submissive can also switch animals from time to time if their pet play is temporary, if they simply enjoy experimentation or if they do not identify with one particular animal.

Why pet play?

  • One large reason many D/s couples go into pet play is for the humiliation and dependence aspect. Restricting a submissive’s movement and vocalizations forces them to be that much more dependent on their Dom. Also, not being allowed on furniture or having to use a litter box instead of a toilet can be very humiliating for some.
  • Another is because it is simply fun. It is a great psychological and emotional release to be able to come home and let loose the restrictions of humanity and what humans are “supposed to be like.” It is just plain fun to bat around a cat toy or play tricks and get treat rewards. It could also be described as a “de-stressing” process from the rigors of daily life, especially if the participants work outside the home.
  • It can help with submission, as taking away some parts of the submissive’s humanity can help take away their sense of equality. It can help the submissive orient their mind to their Dom being their focus in life.
  • Pet play could also be used as punishment. If the submissive misbehaves badly it could be punishment to be put out in the pig stalls with the pigs for a period of time, or whatever animal is available, and made to act like that animal as the punishment.

How does one engage in pet play?

  • Restrict movement via bondage.
  • Restrict verbal communication, perhaps to only certain words or animal sounds such as “woof!” or “mew!” or more child-like words such as “up!” or “potty!”.
  • Training exercises such as tricks for puppies, walking on leads and leashes or for ponies pulling a cart/plow.
  • Eating and drinking out of bowls without the use of hands and/or silverware.
  • Learning to use a litter box instead of a toilet, or even going outside.
  • Playing with toys, such as batting toys for kitties or tug-of-war toys for puppies.
  • Begging in the manner of the animal you identify with, such as a puppy whining.
  • Caging.
  • Not being allowed on furniture without permission.

Also, safety is incredibly important!

So please keep these things in mind, and also any others that fit your lifestyle:

  • When it comes to eating actual animal food, while it is okay for perhaps a short scene, it is not safe to do so on a regular basis. Humans have different nutritional needs than animals do, and it is incredibly important to get your nutritional needs met. There are many ways to simulate animal food and treats such as mashing up meatloaf with ketchup, using stews or even baking treats in the shapes of bones and such. However, for any long term play, Eukanuba, Purina and any other brand of animal food you use, are for canines and felines, not humans.
  • If you choose to use training and/or shock collars, please, PLEASE read the instructions! On a personal level I am not into electric play, but it is out there. So please, be careful and safe.
  • If you put your pup slave into a kennel, please keep in mind that they are very cramped. You do not want your pup slave to be damaged from being in that position for long periods of time.
  • If the submissive has had their ability to move and speak restricted it is incredibly important that some form of communication is available to them so that they may communicate if something has happened and/or gone wrong, both physically and emotionally.
  • Also, in my opinion having a human pet can add some responsibility to the Dom because when some of the submissive’s humanity is taken away and especially if their communication is restricted, the Dominant must that much more aware of the submissive’s frame of mind.

So that’s a very basic overview of pet play. It can get a lot more specific if one looks at each relationship and the animal(s) involved. A note though; pet play sometimes can be sexual, and sometimes can be completely non-sexual. It, as with everything else, simply depends on the couple involved. Please keep in mind that I am in no way speaking of bestiality. This is two or more human beings acting and role playing within the confines of their negotiated relationship.

Most importantly: Have fun and ask questions if you need or want to!!

In my opinion, pet play can deepen submission, but only if it’s right for you.Image

Vile

BDSM And Animal Play

Posted in bdsm, puppy play on May 6, 2012 by thekinkyworldofvile

This is a growing fetish in the lifestyle , just in the last 10 years or more and more people are coming out. Puppy play , kitten , and pony  and horse play. I do know a pony trainer here local , but have not spent enough time with him to give much  input about the lifestyle. My thoughts are when in the role , it is a great release. That frame of mind into submission , the feeling of being at peace , being who they truly want to be with out being judged. More so able to express there true submission . I hope this explains a little more into detail.

Pet play BDSM and Animal BDSM.

Animal BDSM (Pet play BDSM) is an erotic sexual role-play (when it may also be called pet play, pony play, kitten play, or pup-play) where participants take on the role of a real or imaginary animal in character, including appropriate mannerisms and behavior.

The principal theme of animal role-play is usually the voluntary or involuntary reduction (or transformation) of a human being to animal status, and focus on the altered mind-space created. In animal BDSM a person may be humiliated by being treated as an animal.

These notes are for Pet play and Animal BDSM lovers and others who aren’t used to BDSM events, such as a “Dog and Pony Show”.

  • Etiquette is slightly different between the social areas and the play spaces. Avoid talking so that BDSM scenes can hear you.
  • Dungeon Monitors (DMs) perform a lifeguard function, assisting safety. They are usually marked by an orange bandanna while on duty. Take any questions or issues to them. Obey them.
  • Nudity and provocative clothing is perfectly acceptable. It is not an invitation to touch, gawk, or make comments. What do you say to a naked person? The same as you’d say to them if they were dressed.

Animal BDSM play areas:

The play areas are special ritual spaces. Avoid distracting or intruding on any scene:

  • Keep beyond reaching distance of any scene, including the people, furniture, toys, and other belongings.
  • Don’t join in a scene without a very explicit invitation, even if you think you see people joining in freely.
  • After a scene, allow at least twenty minutes before requesting to talk with any participants. It takes at least that long for afterglow.
  • Be tolerant of all genders, orientations, roles, and play styles. We’re a diverse group.
  • People have greatly differing reasons for play, and styles of relationship. Don’t assume that anyone is poly, a swinger, or kinky.
  • Animal play (pony play, dog play, etc.) is mainly about becoming the animal, in spirit. It is also about the power exchange with the trainer(s) and other animals.
  • Experienced bottoms get deep into animal head-space, which is non-verbal. Don’t try to engage them in human conversation. Limit your words to things like “nice doggy” and “pony want an apple slice?”
  • Humans interacting with animal play are called owner, trainer, handler, wrangler, etc. as appropriate.
  • Animal play generally moves around. Some animals may be on leash, reins, or voice control. Others wander about “at pasture” – that’s normal. Part of animal play is interacting with other animals and the environment.
  • Small animals (dogs, puppies, and kittens) like a place to romp, such as a mattress, wresting mats, or thick carpet. Often it is vigorous brat .
  • Animals give consent by moving/staying close. They withdraw consent by moving away, growling, barking, stamping, biting or kicking. Words are not required.
  • Avoid inadvertently pestering an animal, either by proximity, or by insisting on human conversation. That can ruin the scene.

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