You Leave your house getting ready to meet a Dominant you have met on line. There are a lot of questions that should of been asked prior to meeting but these are best when face to face. You must have direct eye contact. Never let a Dominant tell you that you are not allowed to have any eyes contact. Number one that is just his ego, and two you have not submitted to him as of yet. Never let a Dominant tell you what to wear on the first meeting.
At this point in the meeting it is very important to be yourself , because you are not yourself it will come out in the laundry. Explain if he brings anything up about BDSM that you would like to get to know him as a friend first.
These questions came from
1 How long have you been in the BDSM Lifestyle ? and what led you to the lifestyle ?
2 Do you plan to have more than one slave or submissive online or offline ?
3 What kind of relationship are you looking for ? Short Term or Long term ?
4 How much time are you willing to devote to training a new submissive ? How much of my time would you require in return ? Would we have daily contact ?
5 Do you indulge in these pleasures with men and women? If so what safety precautions do you take?
6 What type of training have you had to be a Dominant in a relationship ? Have you trained any Submissive who were new to the lifestyle ?
7 What are some of your basic philosophies when it comes to BDSM ?
8 Ahhh What are your rules ? What are your protocols ? What do you require of your slave and yourself ?
9 What kind of structured training do you prefer to use ? What kind of discipline or punishments do you use when rules are broken ?
10 Last and this is the most important. Do you have an references and may I contact them? I can tell you I have references a page long. every Dominant who has been in the lifestyle for any time will have as well.
I did change up somethings and I left a few out but you can touch base on the link I am going to provide. These were real questions asked by a submissive.
These are all valid questions, and questions that should be answered face to face, without any hesitation. If he does not wish to answer your questions simply get up and leave. If he is not real he will play the Dom card on you, and try to put you in your place. Stand firm and do not back down.
You being safe is what matters, you having the relationship you need is what matters. You being happy is what matters.
Now for the good stuff. Vile radio launch date will be between July 1st and the 15th please spread the word I want everyone listening, you will be able to chat and call in. I want to blow the servers up……..
Have kinky fun and be safe Much love to all.