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Sub space Does Not Have To Equal Pain

Posted in abuse, Adrenaline, anticipation, Arianna, bdsm, BDSM Session, blindfold, Bound, Consensual, control, Dominants, Ego, emotional, Emotions, endorphin's, erotic, Fear, Hot Wax, Ice, inhibitions, masochist, Master, music, Pain, sadist, Safe, Sensory Deprivation, session, slave, sub-space, Submission, submissive on October 2, 2013 by thekinkyworldofvile

Sherri was a true Masochist in almost seven year that bitch did not cry one time, with the exception of us parting. I had never seen anything like it. A belt, a single tail whip, or with a flogger with each strike her eyes would just glaze over. I remember our first session, I did not have a clue to what was going to happen or what I was going to do. She knew I was fairly new to the lifestyle so I let her instruct me. When I left her house some five hours later, I was scared to death, that bitch was black and blue from the neck down. I had even broken skin open in some places and she would just run her fingers across the cuts, and just moan. At times she could not even speak, her eyes just staring off into space with each contact the whip would make.

In the beginning it was fun well with the exception of the first session. I would have a bad week and I could take all of my frustration out on her, and she enjoyed it. A couple of years passed and my side of the enjoyment was coming to an end, along with the pain and the much needed humiliation it was now a task, a task that had to be out done from the last. It was taking it’s toll on me.

I was not in love I had not been nor would I of ever been, in the seven years being together I never fucked her one time, she sucked a lot of dick, but I never banged her. To this day I am not sure why, I just did not have that connection or the want. Maybe I did not want to develop any feelings. The only thing I truly liked and enjoyed the word NO never came out of her mouth. The words I can’t never came out of her mouth. Today that is not so important to me, I suppose back then I had somewhat of an ego.

Subspace you must be able to get into the mind of the submissive, the same if you want a relationship with a submissive or slave the Dominant must be able to get into their mind. To be able to figure them out, know what they are thinking, you must know your partner inside out.

Subspace is not obtainable every time you play it may not happen every twenty times you play. Some say they are able to achieve subspace every session but I find that hard to believe, I am not saying it is not possible, I would think it would be hard. Subspace also depends on the submission you are playing with, if you fully have control, if the submissive has giving herself to you mind and body.

You can actually achieve subspace without even touching the submissive, the idea is during play to confuse the mind, a type of sensory deprivation , I have blogged about this before with just blindfolding, music ,incense and being bound.  I have been wanting to try this on Arianna but our work schedules are pretty full. As a matter of fact although we do play it is not near as often as I would like.

You tie your submissive up, blindfold her, you have two or three CD player , playing different music at a low volume, you lite two or three different incense, then comes the hot wax, and the ice cubes. The mind cannot possibly process everything that is going on. You have the submission, she is tied spread. She is blindfolded. At this point the submissive feels vulnerable, now adding everything else, not speaking just mostly watching, this is where it all begins.

It may not work the first session but it will. I am also not sure how it would work in a vanilla relationship I have never tried it. When one hits subspace you are confusing the mind, most of the time with pain, but pain does not have to play a part in order for them to hit subspace.  Some enjoy pain some get off on pain even the thought of it, then some do not. If they are not into pain or they cannot take it, you will do more damage than good. I have heard Doms say I can train you to take pain, that is a load of crap.

I have a huge surprise for Arianna this weekend.

Try it you might like it.



Sensory Deprivation The Ultimate Mind Fuck

Posted in bdsm, Bondage, control, Dildo, extreme, Mind Fuck, oral, pussy, Sensory Deprivation, slave, submissive on May 18, 2012 by thekinkyworldofvile

Sensory deprivation or perceptual isolation[1] is the deliberate reduction or removal of stimuli from one or more of the senses. Simple devices such as blindfolds or hoods and earmuffs can cut off sight and hearing respectively, while more complex devices can also cut off the sense of smell, touch, taste, thermoception (heat-sense), and ‘gravity’. Sensory deprivation has been used in various alternative medicines and in psychological experiments (e.g., see isolation tank).

Short-term sessions of sensory deprivation are described as relaxing and conducive to meditation; however, extended or forced sensory deprivation can result in extreme anxiety, hallucinations,[2] bizarre thoughts, and depression

Now in the BDSM world Sensory Deprivation is used for a couple of different things . One thing I need to stress is safety , if you as a Dominant has never done Sensory , I would recommend you find someone who is proficient in Deprivation and teach you , this is not something that is taking lightly.

Sensory Deprivation can be used as erotic play which I do very well, it can be used as a mind fuck , or to break a slave.

What you are doing is taking a sense away or all, smell, touch or feel. Very important to keep a close eye on the submissive.

I posted this once before. I like to use it as a form of putting one into sub-space , to bring out that erotic but lost feeling , no control.

I start out by having the submissive stand in the middle of the room , and I blindfold , I like to use plastic body tape on the blindfold to hold in place. Already the submissive has lost one sense , sight.

I start preparing the scene , moving around the room , making noise , while not speaking even if spoken to. Next comes the ball gag , I make my own because the ones you buy tend to break very easy. I buy the rubber bouncy balls like at wal mart , drill a hole through the middle and run a piece of leather through. I have spent all of 3 dollars. You can bow tie it and it will not slip.

I have nylon straps attached to the bed , with Velcro Cuffs , not to worry once in place I again use the plastic wrap to hold in place you are not getting loose.

I pace the submissive on the bed spread eagle , nude of course. Cuff hands then I attach spreader bars to the ankles along with the cuffs , again plastic wrap. Still not speaking, making noise . I turn on the first CD player light Jazz , I have several different candles I start to light all different scents , then another CD player , I like metalica good BDSM  music for sessions. Then another CD  player maybe some off the wall country all turned down but so they can hear.

Then comes the Ice , and hot wax all at the same time dripping on different parts of the body. while dripping wax I insert a dildo vibrating leaving it in.

  All this time there brain is trying to comprehend everything that is happening , sound touch and smell. There is noway your brain can process all this information.

Of course you can use different play or kinks what ever your into , but I can guarantee if you are trying to achieve sub-space she will reach it, it will be the most erotic thing she has ever experienced.

  Safety comes first , keep a close eye on them to insure it is not to much. I know all you submissives are thinking , ahhh that would be nothing, I can assure you after an hr or even a half hr , it will be a mind blowing experience.

I myself I have an oral fixation , I love to eat pussy. So while everything is going on , I love to crawl between her legs and go to town., then she is primed for a good fuck.