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What Runs Through My Mind

Posted in ass play, ass to mouth, bdsm, Bondage, Finger Fucking, sadist, sexual sadist, Slave, Submission, Submissive, Throat Fucking with tags , , , , , on July 2, 2017 by thekinkyworldofvile

Here is a good question I was giving ….

 

mmm Sir … what a question. Keeping the words “no prescription” in mind and knowing each is an individual … but also keeping in mind human nature …
May i ask a question … when a Master, Sir, Daddy … play with their treasures … when they have pushed us so very hard … knowing we will do anything ours Lords desire …
HOW does that feel … for it cannot be “a free for all ” set of emotions.
What drives you to push us …
when you touch our skin and feel the results of our torments (that we so do enjoy and some that we do not enjoy at all) … what goes through your minds. Bearing in mind … each is unique … but keeping in mind base human nature …
Sir … may i ask this question ..
Sex is about me and only me this was made clear from the start. I told Arianna she would be for my use and my use only. Although there are those few exceptions when I decide to just play with her. I love fingering her ass , one maybe two or even three fingers once her ass loosens up. Having her lay on her stomach and reaching my arm around her waist so I can reach her clit while fingering her with my other hand.. I guess you can call me a romantic..
I do have a sadistic sexual side , I have changed over the years at one time it was all about pain sluts. Inflicting pain was my game , I loved the look in a slaves eyes when pushing her over the limit.
As I grew older I wanted to be in more control , there are very few sadist who are Doms or even Masters although there are a few but very few.
I grew to crave the control and making sure my needs were met. There is nothing that is giving everything is earned. I also have the right to take back anything that is giving and Arinanna knows this.
Knowing that I can do what ever I want when I want without question is a fucking rush. Walking up while Arianna is watching Tv and just shoving my cock in her mouth , the thought is a feeling like no other.
The power of in my mind that I own someone , knowing I can do what ever I want is a sense of power.
So many people when entering a relationship settle for less than what their needs require. Most settle for that moment and time only later to find out the relationship was a mistake. Instead of saying hey its not working we need to split this is when the cheating comes in..
Having your property tied spread eagle on the bed, blindfolded and gagged just standing back and looking and thinking man she is fair game. I can take any hole I want without question. That is the ultimate rush , I get chill bumps all over just thinking I own someone who has no desires but to please…
Vile

Why Do You Cause Your Own Pain

Posted in 24/7, @vile62 on Twitter, Arianna, bdsm, cock sucking, Commit, commitment, consequences, control, Dominant, Dominants, Master And Slave, Meeting a Dominant for the first time, poly, Poly couple, Polyamory, slave, Structure, Submission, submissive with tags , , , , , , , on July 1, 2014 by thekinkyworldofvile

Before you buy a new car you research it. A car is probably the second biggest investment you will ever purchase. Before you buy a new phone you research it, before you buy a new computer you research it. You spend hours upon hours making sure you make the right decision because you only want the best.

Why would you not think better of yourself ? If your going to be used why not get something back in return? Why fill yourself with problems and drama ? Why would you be with someone who does not know the truth ? Why be with someone who lies because they don’t know the difference.

You step into a world you know nothing about. You believe training a submissive starts out by sucking some dudes cock you know nothing about.

Maybe one of you who are submissive can explain that type of training. Maybe you can share what it is you get out of it, besides you just liking to suck cock.

If you really want a D’s relationship why would you not seek out information about the lifestyle ? Why would you not research how others live the lifestyle?

Those of you who are in the lifestyle , I have said it before and I will say it again. Women were put here to serve, be it Domestically or sexually. I truly believe that statement .

If you are going to have a submissive or slave, and you Dominants expect the same thing, then it is our responsibility to give back as much as we take.

If you own a brick house and you live in it, but one day you wake and you decide you need bricks and you start taking bricks one by one and your putting nothing back, yea at some point your house is going to fall in. You cannot take and take and expect something to last if your not giving back.

No Rights Slave

While Arianna and I live a No Rights M’s relationship we also live a No Limits relationship. Your thinking wow no limits. The term no limits has a thousand different meanings and it does vary from Master to Master. I have never met a D’s couple who says their relationship is no limits by the way.

Our own perversions vary as well, mine are not as extreme as others I have met, but hey if it is consensual and they are happy so be it.

I am not into sharing Arianna, and I have been asked a million times if I would allow someone else to fuck her. It does give me a high feeling knowing she is sucking my cock and someone else is jacking off to her.  After being asked, even to swap slave for slave for the weekend, as I turn around and walk off, I am thinking yea mother fucker eat your heart out.

I am not into forcing Arianna to fuck others, and I have met Doms and Masters alike who do share and they demand it. I suppose it is the power thing, the ego, then him getting to brag about it.

Even stuff like K9 I have seen more than once but I have never thought about bringing it into a relationship. To each their own if it rocks your world and your happy and it is consensual then have at it.

So we use the term No Limits and we can put that on any level. To me the No Limits only covers a few things and I made it clear from the start. Sex when I want, Oral sex when I want, Anal when I want. I like using different toys and at times veggies, shrugs, I love watching things slide in and out of a pussy or ass.  I truly get to do anything I want without question. Even when Arianna was sick like with the flu or something, it upset her because I would not use her. There is not a day that goes by she does not ask if she can suck my cock.

No limits can mean anything, come on really we all have limits.The thing is if you truly care about your property knowing your submissive or slave will do what ever it takes to make you happy, why would you want to damage on a physical level or a deep mental level. Many will do what they are told because the believe it is expected .

We as Dominant and Masters do not or should not want to bring harm to our property. When we first met our partners, our submissive’s  or Slaves we made a promise. We said we would take care of them on all levels. We said we would be there no matter what, we also said we would put them before our own needs. Yea you dudes said that.

Some of the blogs here on WordPress are so depressing, seeing what these girls and women are going through, or what they have been through. They continue to walk the same path, making the same mistakes, hoping things will get better.

So we have a game plan we put together, kinda like football , but I am offense and defense I play both sides, and I play it well. I keep my word, and I live by the truth.

I do not mean to brag but I am a very simple man , I live a very simple life. I allow nothing that is going on with the outside world to bother us. I allow no trash into my home. I can talk because my backyard is clean, and has been for many years, so I have the right to talk.

Sex, the act when our animal comes out. We can be who and what ever we want to be. In order to be happy all of our needs , need to be met. So this has to be discussed prior to entering a new relationship, it is very important  to be who you are, and lay your needs out on the table.

You as the submissive or Baby Girl has the right to speak up if you do not believe things are going as they should be. If you were promised something and it did not happen you have the right to speak your mind. You have the right to express your concerns. Many times you know things are a lie but for what ever reason you just go with the flow.

Life itself is made up of two very simple things, 1st choices , 2nd consequences. Every choice you make there is a consequence, for every consequence there has to be a choice. Making the right right choice you can control the consequences, but making the wrong choice you really have no control over the consequences.

You also have to determine what is healthy for you and what is unhealthy for you, in your everyday life, again choices and consequences. Do you want to continue to live in a unhealthy relationship, or do you want to move into something more stable ? Choices and consequences. If you choose the first then you have no right to complain, if you choose the latter then you move on and put the past behind you.

Before I make any type of decision , I am not talking about buying eggs , but something that will effect the home, I think things out very clearly. Because the decision I make is not only going to effect me, it will effect Arianna as well, choices and consequences. If I make the wrong choice, I face the consequences for two and not just one.

While it is true we do not have control over everything in life, because it does throw curve balls from time to time, but when life does throw a curve ball and we are prepared and we make the rights choices, we may be able to control most of the bad and in some cases turn it around to our advantage.

Finding the right Dominant is a choice you have just as finding the right submissive or slave. if your willing to settle for less then you made the choice so you have to deal with the consequences, and you either fix it or you just deal with it, but if you choose to stay willingly you have no right to complain. That is just like if you do not vote, you have no right to complain about how someone sucks ass.

You do not have to cause your own pain, because you are in control, you are in full control of your choices, and for the most you can be in control of your consequences, things get fucked up when you try to buck the system, and you have full control over most any situation.

I use to feel bad for the homeless, but the truth is most choose to live that way. I remember one day I was pulling into a Krystals and I saw a man standing on the corner with a sign saying I need help my family is hungry. So I went inside ordered my food and I bought a dozen burgers I walked out and gave him the bag and said there you go man, its not much. He opened the bag and the first words out of his mouth was what no cheese? I just looked at him in disbelief, reached over and took the bag from him.

I was in a 7/11 one day I was buying a pack of smokes and I heard the male clerk talking about how his ex had moved and he had no way of seeing his daughter. I was driving a 1991 Isuzu Rodeo a complete rust bucket, and the clutch was slipping, a few weeks back I had bought a new clutch but had not had a chance to put it in. Anyway the story touched me. I walked outside, reached in the glove box took the title out , walked back in bought my smokes and I put the title and the keys on the counter. I said man its not much but it runs. I thought he was going to fall apart. Unlike the burgers I made the right choice, the consequences were I now had to walk home.

We control most everything in our life, we are able to control the outcome 99% of the time. It is when you try and sand against the grain when things go wrong. You may not like it or think its right, but you have to remember your bubble.

Arianna and I looking for a third to add to our family. You know I could just bring someone in and tell Arianna here deal with it, but that would be a bad choice, and I would not want to know what the consequences would be. So we have to work together, and find the perfect fit. The gloves must fit both hands. It may never happen. Right now I am in full control, I have the final say, and this is not really for me, and it does not have anything to do with two women being Bi, Ive been there done that. It has to do with making something more complete than it is already, notice I said more complete, it is not something that has to happen, because our home is already complete.

Choices and consequences
choice
Vile

Trust

Posted in 24/7, @vile62 on Twitter, Arianna, bdsm, sex, slave, Submission, submissive, sucking cock with tags , , , , , , , on June 21, 2014 by thekinkyworldofvile

There are to main areas in the lifestyle that make a relationship possible, the first being communication, and the second would be Trust. Without either of those two there is noway to move forward, and if you do it will never work.

A good example you meet a new prospective Dominant, and your having dinner , you have spent time chatting and talking on the phone, but when you finely meet face to face and you start thinking something is just not right, or you may catch him in a little white lie or a huge lie, you know right then you cannot trust him.

However many times and I am sure some of you have done this, you went ahead and moved forward with the meeting and perhaps more.

The internet has just blown up in the last five years, and like the bottom of the sea much of it is still unexplored. You can find anything you want legal and illegal all you have to do is start typing.

You cannot spend time chatting or on the phone and be able to make a wise decision about trusting someone. On the internet we can be who and what we want to be.

Trust only comes from face to face communication, open communication and both parties have to be completely honest. Both parties  have to be willing to lay all their cards on the table, and be truthful.

This is what kills me and then I will drop it. Yea the Married man who is Dominant when he is not home. The first thing a Dominant tells you, is to always be honest and always tell me the truth. You have heard this before. Well fuck me running with a chain saw, If he starts out the relationship with a fucking lie, what in the world makes you think he is going to be truthful with you.

If you start out with a lie and I know you have to be thinking really did he just say this?

Okay I borrow my friends car once a week once every two weeks once a month. I take it spend all day with it, bring it back no gas hand him the keys and say thank you. He continues to let me do this, then one day his car breaks down, I don’t care because I have nothing invested, only my time, it has cost me nothing.

You cost your married Dom nothing. You can be broke, you can be paying all the bills but your not going to say anything because he is just stringing you along until you break down.

Trust is built through time you have to become the best of friends, you have to know each other inside and out, you have to know what the other is thinking or at least care what they are thinking.

Trust is knowing every word that comes out of your partners mouth is the truth. Trust is knowing your partner has your back, Trust is knowing if you call at 3am your Dom will pick up the phone.

Trust you meet a new Dominant and you decide after dinner to get a room, or he did because he wants to start your training, Your training consist of being tied to a bed blindfolded and fucked in every hole. He gets his nut he is done unties you kisses your forehead and says bye. You may or may not hear from him. Now the trusting part you do not know this man from adam and you allow him to tie you up blindfold you and gag you. That is like asking for a death sentence when you have done nothing wrong, because once your in that position you are fair game little girl, and you have to lay there and take it, you are the one who will have to live with that. If you wake the next morning.

I wish someone could explain to me how going to a motel room and allowing yourself to be used is part of any training. Doing so does not make you a HOE, it does not make you a SLUT, it makes you LOOK STUPID, and that is exactly what he is thinking. Ive got this stupid cunt, and I am going to fuck her brands out. I know I have called many stupid cunts.

Your married Daddy or Dominant tells you I am here for you, but you can only call or text me at this time, so the rest of the time your on your own. One thing you fail to understand, you are not experiencing something that is meant to be so great, you are not experiencing the true meaning of a D’s or M’s relationship, and once you get tired of all the lies, and you decide you have had enough he will not care he will just find someone else. You will not even be a memory, not even a passing thought.  If he  lies to his wife, what makes you think he is going to tell you the truth, your not really that stupid. If you think your the only one he is fucking then you are lying to yourself, if you think he is going to leave his wife, you are lying to yourself, and you cannot live your life on false hopes.

I believe many of you are much better than you give yourself credit for.

Man Ive met bitches and getting my cock sucked 20 minutes after meeting them, its not hard and many new to the lifestyle makes it so easy. How is that part of training?

Ive got 20 years as a Dominant under my belt, well prove it mother fucker, show me. Tell me how you have 20 years and your only 30. Prove it. You have rights before you enter a relationship

There is no way you could possibly trust someone enough on the first meeting to let them fuck you like a piece of meat, because it could be the last time you get fucked.

Trust is the core of any relationship and once it is broken it may be reparable or it may not be. Even if you are forgiving your really not because it is always in the back of your thoughts.

Trust, do what you say your going to do and say what you mean. If you tell me something I will take your word until you prove me wrong. If I do not trust you I will tell you upfront.

Arianna and I spend hours upon hours talking, we talk about anything and everything. I want to know whats going through her mind, what she is thinking.  We have built trust in our relationship, we have built something we value.

Without trust your always second guessing, you have these doubts in the back of your mind, and then there are times when you know he is not telling the truth you still go along with him

A human lies when they have something to gain, the bad thing is they have to tell another lie to cover up the first, then another, then they forget, that is how they get caught.

The submissive or slave should be the main focus. The bubble thing again you both step into your bubble and nothing can come between you. Your focused one one thing and one thing only your partner.Because in the end, your partner will be the only one who has your back.

Trust takes time, building a relationship takes time. While it can be true you can click on the first meeting, you can like each other on the first meeting, but the trust is still not there

You can feel compassion you can feel love, you can feel these things by the way your being held, and the KISS the KISS tells all. Your heart can feel the trust, but do not get confused because your brain may be telling you hey this jerk is not telling the truth, sometimes your heart can mislead you, your heart and emotions will try to over ride your brain, you just have to be strong enough to stand frim.

You always go with your first instinct always because if you question yourself and you go against it you will get fucked up.

Trust, I love choking while having sex, you place your hand right above the adams apple and squeeze, as I am watching Ariannas face turn a deep red, then her legs start trembling I let go. She gets off on that, I can feel her getting wetter every time I do it, but she has enough trust in me not to fight back, she has enough trust to know I will not harm her.

You build trust like your building a home, you both sit down and you design your perfect home, room by room, door by door, then furniture in every room. You build trust in the same fashion one room at a time, from there you can even remodel some of the rooms to make them bigger and better. You can do the same with trust, and as long as you have the open communication, you know you will always have that one you can depend on, because you trust them.

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There you go right there you can begin your journey , you hold the key to your life, you control the choice and consequences.

Vile