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What I Need, In A Slave, A Partner And BDSM

Posted in @vile62 on Twitter, anal sex, Arianna, bdsm, Collar, Collared Slave, Dominant, Dominants, Master, Master And Slave, rimming, slave, Submission, submissive, sucking cock, sucking dick with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , on August 16, 2014 by thekinkyworldofvile

Most of you will probably not believe me, but I am really low maintenance. It has just been recently being with Arianna that I had even owned or thought about buying a pair of dress shoes.

My New Balance would last for a good 5 or 6 years, I had Jeans that were 10 and 12 years old, although my Shirts, dress and casual looked nice I am sure Donny Osmond wanted them back.

Jeans are not jeans until they are full of comfortable holes, the fading and the strings barely holding a section together.

I never complain about food as a young man in elementary school a good dinner did not happen often. Clothes were a luxury not a need. I remember while in the 6th grade one year I wore the same pair of pants to school everyday.

You would think it would not be noticeable but in my 6th grade class there were only 15 of us, and that was the whole 6th and they were my 8th grade graduation class as well.

During that year we lived in an old house with no power, we only had a fireplace to keep the house warm during the winter.

Both of my parents were alcoholics and addicted to prescription drugs, and both were in and out of rehabs on a regular basis. 

At the age of 15 I went to work at a local chicken processing plant working 2nd shit, I believe then I was paid 2.13 an hr. So my pay for 40 hours was about 85 dollar a week less taxes. After I turned 16 I went to work at a cotton mill making 6.00 an hr my pay jumped to 240 a week less taxes.  Those were union wages I might add. At the age of 16 that was good money. I think my pay when I joined the army was like 368.00 a month.

During this time I started working, this is when I started revamping who I was. I started purchasing nice clothes, shoes, and going out to eat most of the time, I always had money on me.

This is also when Vile began to only worry about Vile, this is when I started building what I call my bubble. Even then I let very few in.

It was somewhat earlier I had run across these little truck stop novels, I would lay in bed at night and read them. They were all about rough sex, incest, then it was really taboo to me, but as I read and I read, I could feel something inside being released. 

My confidence level had shot through the roof, I became popular in school and with the girls until the incident with Beverly, that was a post I did about our school whore. It was after that girls feared me, and I was left with what we called the sluts.

At the age of 17 My parents signed papers for me to Join the Us Army, I had to get the fuck out, because I was not going to spend my life working in a cotton mill which is closed today, or a nasty ass chicken plant.

I had to find me and I knew I wanted better. I had never been in any real trouble, and I have never been in jail.

I learned at a young age to appreciate the little things in life no matter how small they were or the meaning they had.

If you give me a used shirt and it fits I will wear it. It is the simple things in life I truly appreciate.

I can spend 2.49 on a tropical plant for my Awesome aquarium and I am like a kid in Toys R us.

Although we do have a couple of flat screen Tv’s that is not a need, I was just as happy with the old bulky TV .

Cars I really do not care what I drive as long as Arianna has something nice to drive, and of course with air. The man should always make sure his partner has something nice to drive. We are fortunate to have two new cars, but both of our car payments are less than what most pay for one car. Neither has power seats, the Fiat has power windows, but the jeep patriot has neither Arianna prefers the jeep over the Fiat. Before she was driving the Fiat back and forth to work, but I was concerned for her safety so I switched with her.

Keeping your life simple enables you to avoid many problems and drama, not to mention living beyond your means.  All of these things should be considered when forming what I call the bubble.

 You know while selling cars I had couples come in who made 300K a year and could not afford to put 1500 dollars down, they were that strapped. That my friend is no way to live.

Taking away from your family. Today family is everything, in today’s times one needs to work but you have to enjoy life as well. Over the years we have drifted apart, and we as family’s are no longer as close, mostly due to greed.

It took me sometime to come to a conclusion about what I really needed in a relationship, not what I wanted but needed.

If you settle for less than what you need , the relationship will fail it will not work no matter what you do. So you set your mind and you play by your own rules, those who choose to enter a relationship with you must play by your rules as well.

I needed a Slave and Not a Submissive, I had been in several short term relationships with those who were only submissive, and the relationships only lasted about 3 to 4 months.

I wanted a partner, a best friend, but also someone who needed to give up full control. Someone who knew who and what they were.

Someone who needed rules, someone who needed protocols , someone who needed direction. Someone who was not only loyal but needed to be loyal.

I refused to settle for less, and I dated and I dated , and I dated, and fuck I dated my ass off. Then one day I said fuck it I am done, I am moving out of country. At that point and time it was not about a steady relationship, it was about me. I already had work lined up in the Philippines, then I was introduced to Arianna. We all know the story from there.

You know I speak about how Arianna is a no limit Slave, let me clarify that for a minute. Living as a no limit slave has different meanings within each relationship.

To me no limits pertains to our sexual side, be it ATM Ass To Mouth, anal sex when I want no questions asked, face fucking, I get anything I want when I want, right down to being rimmed.

Now if you can imagine some of the other Taboo stuff, well I could have that as well. As Dominants and owners of property we have to look out for the well being of ours, mentally and physically.

In my mind I can have anything I want, when I want, and how I want without question.

You stand by what you need, and you stay with it. Never second guess yourself, because when you do you will fail. Do not be afraid to speak your mind. You are no ones property until you have earned their collar. Until then you can tell someone to go get fucked.

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I can talk shit because that collar has never been off. If some of you Dominants would stop being stupid you could have the same thing…. A partner who wants to serve.

vile

Living With A No Rights Slave

Posted in abuse, Arianna, bdsm, Dominant, Dominants, Face Fucking, slave, Submission, submissive, Training Arianna, training your slave with tags , , , , , , , on June 17, 2014 by thekinkyworldofvile
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

In BDSM, Master/slave or M/s is a relationship in which one individual (the submissive) gives to another (the dominant) ultimate authority over them. It is a form of dominance and submission. The participants may be of any gender or sexual orientation. The relationship is structured in terms of slavery, because of the association of the term with ownership of the slave and the rights of a master to their body, as property or chattel. The dominant is often called Master if male, or Mistress if female.

The owner/slave relationship is entered into on a consensual basis, without the legal force of historical or modern non-consensual slavery, which is forbidden by the laws of most countries.

Laying in the bed yesterday watching TV Arianna asked me if I wanted to feel her pussy, she had just shaving it. She way laying on her stomach with one leg cocked over and I reached down and I felt how smooth it was. Sliding my fingers up and down until I could feel the wetness, and the lips began to part. I placed my forearm across the back of her neck pressing down, as I slid one finger in slowly pumping in and out, then another, then finely 3 had three fingers in knuckle deep pressing down harder on her neck and pumping three fingers in and out of her as hard as I could.

It dawned on me at that time, I could do anything I wanted, Anything and Arianna would go along with it and she would want to.  I pulled my dripping fingers out and I grabbed a handful of hair pulling her to the edge of the bed. Her wet lips lay open and I took my cock and rubbed it up and down feeling how wet she was and I pushed in , as I started pumping you could hear how wet she was, my cock and pubic hair was soaked, and I reached down and grabbed her collar pulling her up. I said I own you bitch, then taking her hand and putting it on her clit she began to rub. I pumper for another ten minutes. Once I stopped, I grabbed a hand full of hair pulling her to the floor. Hands behind your back NOW. she knew then to open her mouth. I shoved my cock in, one hand on her head and one on her chin and I started pumping. I could feel the back of her throat as my cock bottomed out. This went on for abut five minutes. Stopping I grabbed her collar pulling her to the bed I instructed her to get in the middle as I crawled on top and I pushed in, I told her to squeeze , Less than a minute I pulled out and Arianna finished jacking me off I love the feel of her hands around my cock.

I just wanted to share that really for no reason. The other day I had talked about, what if something happened to me? What if down the road I passed on.  Okay well I made sure Arianna will be taking care of if something happens to me.

I had spoken about how back in the day a Master would choose someone to step in when something happened well today it is much different, because the majority of men today in the lifestyle are not as committed and many do not want the type of responsibility I have, which is really not what it seems. Once you get into the flow of things it is just daily Maintenance..

Even though I agreed to meet Arianna’s needs it was her to had to adapt to my world. I explained to her that she had to forget anything and everything she was taught about the lifestyle, which was not a lot…

I perfect vision of a Slave was total solitude, on a chain and leash. Kneeling at the table at dinner time, sitting on the floor while I watch TV, and sex when and where I wanted it no questions asked. The truth is I have most of that.  I walk Arianna follows no questions asked. I know what she can handle and what she cannot.

I myself really do not have anyone I would call a true friend, I have a female submissive who Ive known for years who lives near the west coast of Florida, and Two Doms, one of which has been a mentor for years. I still need that interaction with other Dominants, that is my time where I can be me, I can speak freely and openly, but no one I would trust to take the reins when it comes to Arianna, I am way to possessive of my property.

People say it is healthy to argue, you have to argue to have a healthy relationship, I disagree with that I believe if you have the right communication you can talk as adults. When you argue you say things that are hurtful, names and at times it gets physical. So I believe it can be avoided.

 

From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Symbols and rituals

Various forms of symbolism are sometimes used to affirm the owner/slave relationship. These include the wearing the owner’s collar, being registered in a slave register, adopting (sometimes legally changing to) a name chosen by the owner, or engaging in a public declaration or ritualized ceremony of some type.

Some people draw up a slave contract that defines the relationship in explicit detail. These contracts may also deal with domestic arrangements (such as cleanliness, home duties) and interpersonal relationship matters (such as issues of deference, language, etc.), besides the sexual arrangements. Typically, they would provide that the master has the only say in all matters relating to the body and manners of the slave, including clothing, underwear, social relations outside of the arrangement, etc. However, these contracts are understood as not having any legal weight and are not intended to be used in a court of law, but are an understanding and agreement between the individuals.

In some traditional rituals, after signing a slave contract, many people celebrate the commitment to the relationship with a collaring ceremony, which can be simple or elaborate and friends are usually invited. The slave then wears a collar, which symbolizes their status. The collar may be a piece of neckwear, or may be a bracelet or other piece of jewellery that symbolizes slave status. These collars are generally not removed unless or until the relationship is dissolved, although some slaves are permitted to wear a more subdued (or less obtrusive) one outside of the home — for example during work or in social situations with people who may feel uncomfortable by them.

I did not think we needed a contract. I do know a Master who has one that is about 25 pages long. I am not sure why one would need a contract between a Master and Slave if you do not live together.

Arianna and I had a verbal contract, it may seem kinda cocky but I knew once I started training her and I saw how adaptive she was , I knew it would be hard for her to pack up and leave. I would imagine it would be that way for any Slave.

 

Slave training

Slave training is a BDSM activity usually involving a consensual power exchange between two people taking on the roles of a master or mistress and a slave. Typically this involves changing the slave’s behavior in a manner that is pleasing to the master or mistress, perhaps instructing the slave to follow a set of rules that the master or mistress has set out.

Slave training is a learning process both for the slave (or submissive) and for the master or mistress, or dominant. Training will usually be set out and defined clearly before it begins. The master or mistress will teach the slave how to speak, act and think in a way that is pleasing to them. The slave, in return, gets pleasure from being able to make their master or mistress happy. Or, the slave gets a reward like food, a bed, etc.[citation needed]

In some instances, in more extreme relationships, it may also involve some forms of aversion training.[citation needed] This could include use of spanking, cropping or clamping to encourage compliance, and to permit the slave to find an excuse for complying in their own minds.[citation needed] If the “slave” being trained is also a masochist, they may enjoy painful punishment, therefore punishment may need to be psychological or emotional, to create the unpleasant result that the punishment requires

So I began training, things were flowing smooth, and at times I would even catch myself thinking this cannot be happening, there is noway Arianna is adapting so fast, and is adjusting so well.  At this time she still did not fully trust me and she made it known. While she followed I still had much to do to earn her trust fully.

While training I added a few rules monthly as I added rules I added protocols, and things just fell into place. There was absolutely so resistance at all. I had never met someone with the willingness to adapt so easy and truly have the need to submit..

While many can interpret a no limit slave differently, it is what you want out of the relationship. How much do you really care for your proprty, your slave and in some cases your wife……

Maybe this made a little bit of sense.

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