The spread of The Patriarchy
There seems to be many definitions of the word Patriarchy.
A few months back I was invited to a KIK group that had to do with Training or so I thought. I’ve met some good people with good intentions but had absolutely nothing to do with training. During any downtime I would jump in to pass the time.
Then I was invited to a Patriarchy group, my thoughts were maybe it would be somewhat more organized. At first things were ok, then a female joined in and here came the change. The worthless whore entered the room, and what surprised me was she welcomed the words.
Now I am 61 years old, and have been in the lifestyle for more than 3 decades. I’ve seen a lot of shit and heard even more.
So I started questioning their actions and it was explained that along with patriarchy there is a mixture of misogyny.
So I began to explain my thoughts on patriarchy, about how the leader of the house provided structure, leadership, and security. The conversation grew deeper and while a few were interested the majority just shrugged me off to include the women.
So my question is, if the women are taking part in the misogyny role, is it considered abuse? Within the group the women are shared with other members and a few even meet up.
I do know they could care less about the lifestyle, well the BDSM part.
I’ve never met men who I considered to be disrespectful but women who welcomed their words and the physical part as well.
A female in the group directed me to a book.
Born With A Cunt
My thoughts on nature, society, law, crime and punishment, politics and in particular women.
My thoughts on nature, society, law, crime and punishment, politics and in particular women. Many of my ideas will be controversial and some people will find them crazy or disgusting. They’re based on personal experience, reading, study and discussion with lots of people
Smashwords has a free download.
The book is about 228 pages and very graphic.
There are 3 reviews and they are not good.
While I do not condone such behavior or actions, I am sure there are people who think the same about the BDSM lifestyle.
The book is not well written but she does acknowledge she is not a professional writer.
The people I interacted with were all living a consensual relationship.
We are all different and we all live a different belief system and for most it works. I really thought maybe it had something to do with low self esteem or maybe mental issues but that did not seem to be the case.
I’ll be back
thekinkyworldofvile 
April 29, 2024 at 5:23 pm
Whew, that was a rough read.
I started the book, fought my feelings (curiosity, disgust, again curiosity Imsorrysheishappywithwhat?!, don’t judge imagine what people would think of you), continued reading, quoted a few things to Sir, who wondered mildly “where the hell I got that shit from” lol.
I skimmed the rest and thought, well, it’s no worse than a certain unnamed author who came up with 50 Shades of Misinformative Bullshit (retirement fund much?). Or the Red Pill/ Manosphere/kino/NLP (neurolinguistic programming), etc. Sheer hatred with some of those types, buyer beware of that stuff *shudder*
If that group You were talking about is happy, then good for them. To each their own, but wow, there’s some let’s call them radical ideas out there. We all live differently, and in my opinion, two (or more) consenting adults are free to do what they want, as long as they don’t hurt others (I must make a Jim Jones crack, sorry, but Ascension or no, he most definitely killed people). If you’re happy in your life and in your house, then that’s great.
The ideas definitely got me thinking, however please no more free advertising for that one. A shower was needed after reading it.
Thank Yyou two for being who Yyou are.
s_MV.