Life

Posted in Arianna, bdsm, BDSM 24/7 Relationships, https://vilesarianna.wordpress.com/2015/02/10/life/, Slave, Submission, Submissive with tags , , , , on October 28, 2018 by thekinkyworldofvile

It seems I have been MIA compared to my earlier days when it comes to my blog but as you know life happens.

On the home front life is still good and I continue to find ways to make things better. Work ,  relationship and life and juggling all three and keeping things in check can be a little work but in the end the work and effort will and has paid off.

As a master we have a responsibility to not only insure our home is safe and secure but it remains secure if something were to happen to me.

We are in the process of buying a house but it could not be just any house. The house had to have requirements before I would even give it a look. The number one thing was safety , it is my responsibility to insure our home is safe. Affordability is at the top again if something happened to me the home would continue to be comfortable and if something should happen Arianna could just pay it off. The house had to have gas since I also love to cook and I prefer cooking with gas that was a top priority and I refused to give in..

I remember my dad buying a chicken farm when I was a kid and even being so young I was thinking how easy is this. Now our farm had eight houses and each house held 80,000 chickens and the house sat on 10 acres . A older frame house with wood floors a wood stove for heat , no AC but it had a gas stove. We walked in a bank and two hours later we walked out a proud owner.

Times sure have changed now going into month one with just paper work , background checks , financial records going back over a decade , and explaining every penny we have spent over the past couple of years.

So my responsibility as a Owner is to make sure Arianna is taking care of first and for most as I stated above.

I was speaking with someone not long ago and we were talking about the very subject. The subject was brought up about how I should find someone who would be willing to step in and take care of Arianna.  Although I do have what I call a few close friends I do not know anyone who could step in and give the care that would be needed or truly understand her..

Here is something else , we were approached by someone about doing a TV reality show , no I am not bull shitting you , I am 1000% serious. Arianna and I tossed the idea around a little but we do not have the drama in our life to support such a show. Besides the kink and her following the house rules it is really pretty boring but they see something different..

Just a update  but I will be posting more in the near future.  I have a lot of stuff I would like to cover and somethings have been on my mind…

Vile

 

 

I Am A Dominant Call Me Sir

Posted in A slaves passwords, bdsm, BDSM Relationships, communication, Dominant, Dominant and Submissive, Slave, Submission, submissive with tags , , , , , on October 28, 2018 by thekinkyworldofvile

You are new to the lifestyle and very excited to learn everything you can but most of all finding the One. I hope that you would talk to many but chances are you will end up speaking with only 2 or 3 before taking that leap.. After only chatting for a short time you are giving a direction to call the one you met Sir.

I firmly believe in the lifestyle we need titles , we need titles to identify ourselves when it comes to meeting others. It explains our position in the lifestyle , maybe a Daddy , a Dominant a Master and so on. In the end it is our property who addresses our identity.

Speaking with someone a couple of months ago who is somewhat new to the lifestyle , he had asked me if I could introduce him to a submissive. Being new Dominant in our community can be somewhat tough because there is a vetting process we all go through. I was told by this new Dominant that he was displeased with the vetting process and thought it was not fair. I sent information one being bestslavetraining.com a huge source of information and the other of course my blog here although most is just my opinion but my opinion is based on more than 20 years experience. You do not have to agree with everything but I am sure there are parts you can take and put to use.

So I introduce the Dom to a submissive a very good friend and at first everything seemed to be going well but it soon fell apart. One was the work schedules but my thoughts are if you want something to work it can work if you are willing to make the effort. Once the frenzy fizzled out he lost interest. I asked if he had read the material and he stated he looked over it but was more worried about his own well being , so in short no he did not. I sent it again and received the same answer so I see this as not wanting to put any effort into learning. I also made the point that it was very important to get out in the local community , you cannot just sit at home and hope someone will just walk up to your front door and drop to their knees.

The truth is you are in full control for the most until you decide to submit. The Dominant may make request but it is you who has the final say. You have the right to question , you have the right to avoid any situation that may make you feel uncomfortable.

What do you want me to call you ? You will address me as Sir! By now you may have formed some type of rapport but not near enough for you to have gained enough respect to call someone Sir , unless you were brought up in such a way and just being polite. One who makes such demands again have severe ego and security issues.

Here is the problem , most not all who are new to the lifestyle want to learn but they want to learn on their terms. When a relationship fails the blame goes to the submissive and not the one who is truly at fault.

Things have changes , people have changed but most of all the lifestyle has changed. The new Dominants entering the lifestyle wants the cake and ice cream but do not want to put in the effort.

Recently mentoring someone for a very short time , I found this to be true. What I found disturbing is wanting me to introduce him to someone.  Introducing a Dominant with no experience , nor the wish or need to learn placed me in a very bad place. So I decided to give it a try and I knew someone who I thought might have some compatibility , this ended to be a huge mistake.

You cannot start off on the right foot when one starts off making demands. You cannot start a relationship when a 100 rules stuffed down your throat.  One may be able to start off with a few small rules such as bed time or texting ,  but to hand you a book of rules without even knowing you is insane.

Remember rules are strictly for the betterment of the slave. If it starts out with you having to send naked pics or videos then you should just move the fuck on..

Stay calm and think logical and your way of life will come..

Much Love

Vile

 

When Does Abuse Cross The Line

Posted in abuse, Bad Reltionships, bdsm, BDSM Abuse, Consensual, http://bestslavetraining.com/, Humiliation, Slave, Submission, Submissive on September 5, 2018 by thekinkyworldofvile

The title does not even have to pertain to the lifestyle , you can be completely vanilla. Many times abuse , or the one being abused does not even recognize the signs even when it becomes physical. The mind fucking part of the abuse , the verbal abuse the controlling aspect of the relationship. Controlling the times you are out of the house be it doing errands or grocery shopping. Being slapped or knocked down because you were 3 minutes late getting home , being accused of fucking around , when in fact the abuser is the one fucking around.

Telling you that you never do anything right , never having anything good to say about you and if it does get physical and when he apologizes he expects you to lay on your back and spread your legs…  If a man fucks around on you once he will do it again , just like if a man ever hits you he will do it again and each time apologize and beg you to forgive. At that point and time he may be serious , or could be fucking with your head…

Demanding passwords to all of your accounts , checking and banking information. This is a very bad idea and no one has a reason to want such information. This all falls under insecurity , this falls under the controlling thing , it inflates his ego.

Demanding submission is a one way street , the abuser sees it as you submitting but you are really submitting out of fear. The fear of being scared but also the fear of being alone. The greatest human fear is the fear of loss.

Words have a far greater impact on the mind , works have a great impact on your self esteem.  Names like you stupid bitch , you dumb cunt the list goes on and on.

At the end of the day you are to lay on your back with legs spread and you are expected to take what is giving to you and you pretend you like it just to please..

The controlling insecure Dom lays all the blame on the submissive when the relationship crashes . She was not real or she was not submissive enough or she was not trainable. The truth is you got wise and saw the light , you realized you had to escape but it is to late many times the damage is already done. You now carry scares deep inside and will probably never trust again.

This type of relationship often takes place with those who are new to the lifestyle and have had no experience. These Dog prey on those who no absolutely nothing and you rely on the information giving to you is right. This is when the isolation takes place and cuts you off from the outside world. Cuts you off from family and friends because of his insecurities probably stemming from as far back as his childhood and upbringing.

Many times not all the time Alcohol plays a huge role in behavior , the more they drink the angrier they become , possibly a drug habit but you really dread it when a bottle is opened.

Forcing you to give all of your passwords to your email and social sites , even sometimes posting he is the one who monitors your page such as fetlife , again this comes from being insecure. Giving your banking information can at times run into big problems. I have seen a submissive wake to only find their bank account had been drained after a failed relationship.

Then mind is powerful it can work with us or in some cases work against us. Being forced to sleep with other , you agree because you just want to please. Being passed around like a piece of meat without a care. This comes from their ego , their insecurities , their need to show they are in charge. You could be one who enjoys such play and if it fits you have fun but for those who do not wish to take part could be very damaging.

At any giving time you have the right to say no , you have the right to just walk away. You have but only one life , what do you want to do with it?

 

Vile

 

The Year 2082 The Auction

Posted in bdsm, non-consensual, owning a slave, Slave, Slave Auction, Submission, Submissive, The Year 2082, women slaves with tags , , , on July 20, 2018 by thekinkyworldofvile

President Vile and his delegation traveled to the county of Religious Free State and the purpose was to attend an auction the free state had put together for the Brotherhood and parts of Canada. The women who were being auctioned off were those who did not wish to conform to the country’s beliefs and were disruptive.

The country had been divided into three different countries and the Brotherhood had control of much of what was the central part of the United States with the line starting at Montana and South Dakota down to Texas. While there was no serious threat The Brotherhood had a rather strong military while the Free state had a police force, they had no military. The Democratic Freedom Choice did have a military but the country would not be able to stand against the Brotherhood. The Brotherhood assured the Freedom state they had nothing to worry about should a conflict break out.

President Vile and his Delegation Traveled from Colorado to Atlanta. While there was no Air force one any longer, Vile flew in a modest Bombardier Learjet 60XR. The flight took about 3.5 hours. The transport plane that followed behind was an older plane, the Douglas C-124 would carry the slaves and any other cargo that may be brought back.

The auction did not mean every slave that was up for bid would be purchased. Each potential would go through different tests including a physical by the doctor who had traveled with the president. Vile would travel several times a year to different auctions including auctions that were held in the country of the Democratic Freedom Choice and although the two did not see eye to eye , even with just three countries trade was very important since there was very little trade with different countries around the world.

President Vile entered the dinning room and was welcomed by the President of the Religious Free State President David Hernandez ,  as the two sat down and spoke on trade for the better part of an hour Vile was more interested in the new stock he would be viewing. The slaves that did not meet the criteria and were not sold many times Vile would take but they would not be purchased , these slaves after training often worked in factory’s  and low skilled jobs until they had proven they could be a asset to a master.

Trade was very important since the Brotherhood controlled much of the oil. This was the section during the split Vile and his forces fought so hard to gain control over. While the Democratic Freedom Choice was not to happy both had lost many men but in the end Vile proved to be the strongest. President Vile’s main goal was trade and military and creating a trouble free society . While there was no congress or senate there was a governing body who served 2 years. There were no Presidential elections Vile would remain President as long as he lived , then and only then would a election be held. The Governing body was paid a salary of 65,000 a year and President Vile Drew a salary of about 97.000 a year. President Vile believed in equality , meaning everyone would be treated equal. Everyone owned a home , everyone had medical. President Vile controlled the pricing making everything affordable for his people.

The documents of the tests and physicals were delivered to Vile. While he and David sat talking about trade and vile was just skimming through the profiles which had pictures attached and there was one who caught vile’s eyes.

The auction was not held just for the Brotherhood by this time Canada had been broken down  into 5 different countries and parts of Canada would attend as well.

The average price for a slave was around 3500 but the cost did not stop there , after the purchase while the living conditions were not the best once finished with training and placement the total cost would end up over 100,000 dollars.

President Hernandez walked President Vile back to the staging area where 37 slaves were lined up , hands on top of head fingers interlocked , and blindfolded , as Vile walked past each and every slave looking through the files he stopped. Looking at the picture , then the slave he found the one he was most interested and had the thoughts of keeping her for himself.

The slave had a small frame , blonde hair and the palest skin he had ever seen, Vile stepped closer and whispered in her ear, Sarah and you could tell it startled her and again Sarah and the chill bumps were visible on her pale skin and vile stepped back and asked President Hernandez if there might be a deal that could be made prior to the auction.  Now , now President Vile as much as I would like to we are following procedures that were put in place by you yourself so lets have a little fun at the auction.

Vile stepped back up to Sarah and firmly grabbed both breast slightly twisting , then moving one hand down to her crotch forcing her legs apart and pushing a finger deep into her pussy then pulling out and smelling taking it in deep and then the evil grin vile was so known for. Turning Sarah around vile instructed Sarah to bend over as she resisted vile placed one hand on her head and the other around her stomach and forcing her to bend over. Once bent over Vile instructed Sarah to spread her ass open. There was no movement , Vile whispered in her ear , spread your ass or I will beat you until you can no longer stand. Sarah reached around grabbing each cheek and pulling wide apart , then Sarah felt a finger slide deep in her ass. Vile pulled his finger out and whispered excellent and walked away.

President Vile and President Hernandez walked in the auditorium and the auction had already began , and while there were several President Vile was interested in the slave named Sarah was the only one he planned on walking away with this day but he knew there would be others.

The slaves were brought out on the stage one at at time with hands on top of their head with fingers interlocked. As the slave reached the center of the stage there were instructions giving stand , turn to the left , then right , turn around and bend over with legs spread and then facing the crowd. The auctions were only attended for those who were there to make a purchase.

Each slave knew a couple of day in advance what was going to happen and had already gone through some conditioning. Being rejected by 3 countries including the Canada’s left very few options.

Today would be a long day with about 300 slaves on the table , president Vile had his secretary doing the bidding today and about a hour and a half into the auction out walked the slave vile had shown a great interest in. Sarah was not beautiful , she was attractive but there was just something about her that peaked Vile’s interest. The Bidding started out at 45.000 dollars , then 55.000 thousand and then 70.000 dollars. 70.000 dollars was the highest a bid had ever gone and the bidding continued now at 95.000 dollars and Vile was looking around the room to see who was bidding , 110.000 dollars.

President Vile stood and raised his hand and shouted 250.000 dollars and the room was silenced by his high bid , going once , twice , sold to President Vile.

President Vile and President Hernandez stood and walked back stage , Vile walked up to Sarah , vile reached in his pocket and pulled out a leash hooked it to her belt. Vile instructed the guard to take the cuffs of wrist and ankles , shook hands with President Hernandez and told him he would see him soon and started walking off.

President Vile started to board the plane with his newly purchased slave and a guard reminded president Vile that the slaves were to fly on the the Douglas. President Vile instructed the guard to fly on the Douglas to insure there was enough room for Sarah.

Once on the plane President Vile cuffed and chained Sarah to a seat sitting right across from him and the plane took off.

The story I am writing is a story I have had in my head for a very long time. I still stand firm that all relationships in the lifestyle or not should be 100% consensual.

This part I wanted to go into the Brotherhood and another country with who President Vile is somewhat close to but still does not trust. As I continue you will see there are very few people that vile does trust and is quick to eliminate anyone who defies him.

The third part will be the training and while some I have taking part in some will be more extreme and will be using words many will disagree with but again its just a story..

Vile

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Year 2082

Posted in bdsm, Master And Slave, Slave, Submission, Submissive, women slaves on July 7, 2018 by thekinkyworldofvile

While this story is much about non-consent  , that is not my belief , I have had this story in my head for sometime  and I wanted to share.

Being a sadist at one time I have had many thoughts and the thought was it would be interesting to share..

The story is based on a civil war and the United States being broken into three different countries and different factions with in the country with Governments rules by one , yes you guessed it President Vile..

 

 

The Year 2082

Posted in bdsm, Master And Slave, sadist, Slave, Slave being used, Slave school, Submission, Uncategorized with tags , , , , on July 4, 2018 by thekinkyworldofvile

President Vile

 

Just after the great war in the united states we find the country divided into 3 different sections. Section 1 the Democratic freedom choice. Where people are treated equal , then we have the Religious free state , where all of the Christians come together in hopes of building a better life. The last is the Brotherhood Alliance Coalition , this is where there are strict laws when it comes to female behavior. Women from the two other states who are rebellious are sent to the Brotherhood to live and be reprogrammed. The Brotherhood is the last place a woman no matter the age wants to be sent , the sentence is a lifetime without the possibility of parole.

Women are sent to training camps and each serve a purpose , for those who are single will have a locking red collar placed around the neck showing they are single and available for marriage. The camps the slaves are sent to determines the needs at the time for the Brotherhood. Camps are labeled , Service , teaching , secretarial , book keeping and general care. These camps last one year with zero failure rate , failure is not a option and there are consequences for those who do not perform. The first 6 months of training is to learn a trade this includes cooking. The second 6 months the slave will be trained for proper sexual activity on how to please a master , this will also include some pain in case your Master is a sadist.

The married slaves are broken down into three different groups but these groups are determined by the Brotherhoods laws. The groups are as follows , the silver locking collar are for those who have working class Masters , the gold collars are for the slaves who have been given to the white collar workers and finely the platinum collars are for the slaves who are married to the Brotherhood government officials. While waiting to be placed in a home after training the slave has no say with whom she will be placed with. On her graduation day she will be cuffed and placed in a caged wagon and put on display for the city of the Brotherhood to witness. This only happens twice a year so there are Masters who have been waiting patiently for that knock on the door. There are cheers in the streets as the slaves pass the huge crowds of people , after all this is something to br proud of yes?

The Master is sent 2 different BIO’s along with pictures in different poses , nude of course and the Master this go around can only pick one. In the Brotherhood as long as a Master can afford the upkeep , a Master may marry more than one slave. The Bio includes a break down of test scores , sexual talents to include your best services maybe Oral , Anal , maybe a masochist and the most important scores are service in general, cooking cleaning and hosting when friends are over.

No Married slave is allowed to have sexual relations with another Master or a single Master waiting for a slave. If the law is broken the slave is then returned for training for another year and her Current Master’s marriage will be voided and he will be giving a new slave.

If at any point the slave shows any signs of not wanting to serve or gets mouthy , the slave is returned to training and reconditioning for a period of one year,

Once the slave arrives at her new owners residence her only purpose in life now is to serve and please her new owner and she will only bear children if the owner wishes to. The slaves only rights are the rights giving to her by her new owner.

Once girls reach the age of 18 they will be placed in training camps with no choice of camps , the choice is made by the Brotherhood. The first 3 months of training the slave will be placed in a small 4×4 cell with only a mattress , one cover and no pillow. There is a small toilet for use but everything is monitored by staff. Once the slave arrives at the camp she is striped of all clothing and giving a full medical exam to insure the slave is in good heath , if not then slave is then sent to one of the two states because she has been deemed unfit to serve in the Brotherhood Alliance.

While out and shopping no clothing is allowed , when the slave arrived for training all clothes were taken from her , stripping her of her identity. The slave was giving a new name also taking her identity away along with a number tattooed on her neck in plain view.

The slaves only purpose is to serve her Master be it domestic or sexual its all service.

Hmmmm could be interesting ?

 

 

Secret lives and the not so secret advertising

Posted in Uncategorized on June 19, 2018 by thekinkyworldofvile

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