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A Dominants Protocol

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We are suppose to be held to higher standards. We are looked at differently in our small community. We are suppose to carry ourselves differently.More so we treat our women different.

I am not sure about other Dominants you probably have experienced the same thing when out at an event, a munch or a dungeon. When greeted by another Slave or Submissive. Hello Sir, and a gentle bow, and a warm smile.

While it is not in our protocol for Arianna to address another Dominant as Sir, those who are single or allowed to do so.

If we are shown this type of respect, it is only fair we return the same curiosity. It is only fair we treat the Slaves and submissive’s with nothing but total respect.

Now we have the social networks such as Fetlife. To many of those who are a Slave or Submissive this is meant to be a safe haven. A place to meet friends, read different post in different groups, maybe even post yourself.

Arianna at times receives friend request , and this is all good but when you have nothing but total disrespect from someone who is suppose to be a Dominant in this case was a 30 year old male switch. He sent a MSG requesting she kick him in his nuts that is how he got off. MATT9999.

Okay lets set aside Arianna is my Slave, lets set aside Arianna is my property. Arianna is my wife, my spouse, with whom I live with, and her profile clearly states she is not only owned, collard, but married.

So I sent Matty a note I was very respectful I did not get angry. I just wanted to know why he would do such a thing? Why would you send a request to someones wife, not slave, not property, but someones wife.

Well instead of answering me, instead of telling me to fuck off or go to hell, MATT9999 simply blocked me Which is all good, it just shows me that MATT9999 is more of a pussy than a man. I guess is MATT9999 from Deland Florida knew I was blowing him up on my blog he might be a little upset.

Now others in the past have sent rude comments, and I have addressed then and ever time I have gotten an apology. Stating they did not know she was married. Okay apology accepted.

So how would someone like MATT9999 act if for some earth shaken moment he had a partner, how would MATT9999 feel about someone talking to his Domme like that. I would think he would get pretty upset.

So I have run across this a couple of times and it truly has a deep meaning. It explains what a Dominant is suppose to be.

A Master Creed who wrote it is unknown. That does not matter who wrote it, what matters is it lays down the ground work for all Dominants. It states who we are and who we are suppose to be.

A Masters Creed – Author Unknown

As it is often important and often even necessary for one human being to have certainty and a clear understanding of the intentions, desires, motivations, and needs of another, I offer this testimony in trust and sincerity.

I am a dominant man. I am just that. I am not dominant because of any superiority on my part. Not because I feel more intelligent or wiser.

I am not dominant because of the strength or the mass of my body.

I am not, nor would I want to be dominant with all women.

Yet, to you I am Master.

I am your Master only after earning your trust and I embrace your submissiveness. I have looked into your heart and mind, and clearly see your desires and passions. You have thrown away your desires and passions. You have thrown away your fears and inhibitions. You tell me of the needs of your heart and body. You have given me total access to your soul, and I accept the responsibility and honor. You are a woman. You are not weak or inferior because of it. You are a treasure to be cherished. We are not equal. I have the strength of body and mind and the instinctive need to protect, possess, defend, and provide for you. You are a woman and instinctively stronger of will and heart. Your belief in me gives me courage and direction. Your strength disperses my doubt.

Your needs and desires encourage and give purpose to my efforts. We are not equal. We are halves of a whole. We complement each other and make each other complete. My desire to dominate you is instinctive. It is not to degrade you nor is it degrading to you because you are secure in being totally feminine. We each recognize and accept our worth, and our need for someone to trust and fulfill our needs.

You are sure, strong, and proud in your womanhood. You do not submit as acceptance of inferiority, but from strength and passion. You expect a man to stand strong and be a man. You desire and flourish in the strength and control of a man. In return you present control of your body, unqualified trust and honesty, and the faithfulness of your heart. You submit because I have earned your trust. Because I have opened my heart and soul to you. Because I have listened to your word with my ears and heart and have learned to anticipate your needs and emotions. And because I have proven worthy in your eyes, you have given me the only true treasure of life; you have given me dominance over you. What you give is not abnormal, but pure, natural, and the rarest gift a woman can give a man. You have given me complete and unshakable assurance of your commitment to me. Your submissiveness is a magnificent gift and sacred responsibility. I accept this from you with humility and joy. I understand the rarity and purity of this gift.

I recognize it is your body, mind, and soul. I dominate you only because you have allowed me to, and when I see your body kneel before me in my mind and heart, you are raised above all other women and all the treasures of the earth.

Within the bounds of our relationship…it is my duty to protect you, and that you will know, that under my care; NO harm will come to you as a result of actions taken by Me..or you. That is my responsibility, to protect you..from yourself if necessary. What you give freely cannot in reality be bought.

Those are really some very heavy words. Those words make you stop and think.

It makes me think not only who and what I am, but what can I do to improve myself. What can I do to be a better Dominant, owner, master.

What can I do to improve my slaves life, her surroundings? What can I do to show my slave I care more about her thoughts and feelings?  What can I do to show more support?  What can I do to improve her insecurities? What can I do to show my devoted love ? What can I do to show my slave, my wife she is my world my universe ?  What can I do to show my slave she is my last thought before I sleep and my first breath when I wake? What can I do ?

That my friends is what a Masters Creed should make you feel. It should make you want to feel. It should make you have the need to feel. It should make you be.

To have one kneel before you, in total submission, there is no greater gift in the world. To have one kneel because they have that need to show their submission there is no greater gift. To have one say use me as you see fit. Again there is no greater gift one could ever receive.

My Avatar here on my profile. WHAT IF ?  That all rolls back to the Masters Creed all of the above I have spoken about. It is all about the What’s.

What can we do for our slave? What can we do for our Submissive ?

Let me tell you something the next time you go to yell at yours, slap yours or punish because of something she may have forgotten stop and think of that one word. What. One word or even WHAT IF.

Wow that is some deep shit there. Much love to all.

Go on pass the word make others think the What’s and the Whats If’s