This really has nothing to do with BDSM or the lifestyle but it seems to be a growing trend . I will also post a link to the article.
Today young people are getting married and living in separate housing, at times separate states and even different countries. It could be a job neither wants to leave as well.
Reading the article from what I gathered, the female wants to keep and maintain her independence. Also so she can keep her current lifestyle. This is not to say the male is not seeking the same but the article does not really go into much detail about the male.
If the female wants to marry and live in separate housing, is the husband responsible for any of the wife’s bills ? If the wife wants a new car is the husband on the hook for the purchase? Is there a limit on independence? I want my independence but I want you to pay for it?
I am just going to assume the checking and savings would also be separate.
How does a couple plan for the future? How would the couple purchase a home? How would the couple plan for retirement?
Rental property is really expensive in today’s market and in most cases it takes two incomes.
The world has changed from the 1950’s where a couple could survive off of one income. Those days are long gone.
So moving into the lifestyle, how would a master/slave relationship survive living in separate homes? Yes there are circumstances where it is more advantageous, maybe one has children, or possibly in school in another state and a few more maybe.
Ok! I agree to be your slave but only Monday and Tuesday. The other 5 days I want my independence?
Maybe over the years, the husband has not put the wife as a first priority? Maybe it takes responsibility off of each other?
https://www.brides.com/living-apart-together-5189895
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