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The Tens Unit

Posted in bdsm, Bondage, clit, cum, electric play, fingering, squirt on May 26, 2012 by thekinkyworldofvile

The Tens unit can be an awesome toy , for pleasure or for those of us who happen to be sadist , it can be used as a form of torture. Even though I am a sadist I prefer the pleasure part of the unit.

As far as pleasure , you can take one pad and place it on the backside where the butt bone meets the spine, you take the second pad and place it right above the clit. Turn it on a low setting and you can make the keagle muscles work there magic , that is correct.

Once you slide your cock in and begin to pump her you can feel her pussy grasping your cock, it will be tighter than you or her ever thought was possible…

Also if she is standing up spread wide  with the pads in the same position , and you stick two fingers inside her curved upward once you hit that G spot, Here comes the almighty squirt…

Safety do not put pads near the heart, always play safe.

A note you can pick up on ebay for less than a hundred bucks…



Women can Squirt

Posted in bdsm, erotic, pussy, squirt on May 11, 2012 by thekinkyworldofvile

Female Ejaculation- It’s Real

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Female Ejaculation-
Did you know that ALL women are capable of it?
It’s True!

By Lisa S. Lawless, R.M., C.E.O.
Psychotherapist, Ph.D. Candidate
Founder Of

You may have heard of female ejaculation, or you may not even know what it is, as many people do not. Female ejaculation is not only very real, it is something that ALL women can achieve,and is a very basic female sexual response that has remained a mystery until recently.

All women can learn to ejaculate as much as two cups of fluid and spray it across the length of a room! Oh sure, there are a lot of myths out there regarding this exquisite female sexual response. Some claim the whole premise of female ejaculation is untrue, others claim only “special” women are capable and still others try and tell you ridiculous techniques based on myths such as suggesting that women should tighten their Kegel(vaginal wall) muscles to make it happen.

These types of statements are simply untrue. While women have differences in their genitalia (just as men do) all women are capable of squirting these lovely orgasmic juices with the right techniques. It is no different than all men being capable of ejaculating no matter the size or shape of their penis. The only reason that most people do not know about or understand how to achieve female ejaculation is from the sheer lack of understanding women’s sexuality.

When I first heard about female ejaculation I was in my latetwenties. Being a sexually knowledgeable and adventurous woman as well as a psychotherapist specializing in sexual issues, I was shocked that I had never heard about it, let alone done it.

I personally discovered female ejaculation after having a very open and enlightening discussion with a girlfriend, whom told me that she did the “wildest thing” when she had an orgasm (and sometimes just when she was sexually aroused). I of course was very intrigued about this, and ended up asking her a lot of questions about how it happened for her. I then went to the Internet to find out more, and was met with a great deal of inaccurate, conflicting information about female ejaculation.What was a chick to do? I wanted to know more about it, and most importantly at the time, I wanted to know if I could do it too.I began a mission of researching through medical journals,interviews with physicians, sex therapists and my clients who came to me for psychotherapy.

After all my research, and developing a few theories of my own,I decided that I simply had to try to see if I could do it. I am happy to say that I did it during my first attempt through masturbating. It was so simple! There were a few things that I learned and did in preparation that made it possible and there are a lot of things I learned along the way which turned into a150 page book and 90 minute video! For the sake of keeping this article and not a book, let me give you a quick overview of how female ejaculation occurs so that you get a general idea of how all of this works. First let’s get the myths out of the way and review what is true and untrue about it.

The Myths & Truth About Female Ejaculation-


1) Female ejaculation does not exist.

2) Only rare women can achieve female ejaculation.

3) Kegel exercise is the key to achieving female ejaculation.

4) Only women with prominent G-Spots can achieve female ejaculation.

5) Female ejaculation can only be achieved through G-Spot orgasms.

6) Gynecologists are educated about this issue and provide women with correct information.

7) Women can only excrete a drop or two of female ejaculate, and if it is more (especially in the amounts that some women claim 1-2 cups) then it would be urine.

8) Female ejaculation is or becomes urinary incontinence.

9) Women who have given birth are the only women capable of female ejaculation.

10) There is only one way to achieve female ejaculation.


1) Female ejaculation comes from the Skenes/Paraurethral glands (also known as the G-Spot).

2) Women do not realize that they can ejaculate because they are missing the cues of when they can do it.

3) There are specific techniques that can be taught to a woman to teach her how to do it and how to hold it if she does not wish to ejaculate.

4) Women can ejaculate without having a G-Spot orgasm and for that matter without having an orgasm at all!

5) Women can increase the amount of fluid they ejaculate by following specific steps.

6) Women can ejaculate multiple times within a short period.

7) Female ejaculation is not urine, is much like the consistency of water, is clear in color, and usually smells like nothing or has a slight sweet scent.

8) OBGYNs and other physicians often misunderstand or even misdiagnose female ejaculation.

You may be wondering “If all women are capable, then why is it that many women have never done it?” This is a very good question, and is easily explained. Let’s begin with reviewing some basic information about the female anatomy to better understand how this works.

Where Does Female Ejaculation Come From?

Female ejaculation is a fluid that is pushed out of the urethra(pee-hole- just like urine) however, unlike urine it comes from the Paraurethral/Skenes glands (located under and making up theG-Spot) during sexual arousal.

How Is Female Ejaculate Different Than Regular Cum?

There are two types of female cum that can be excreted during sexual arousal. They are clinically termed as urethral and vaginal ejaculation fluids. The one most commonly seen in our culture is vaginal ejaculate, which lubricates the vaginal walls and oozes out during sexual arousal. You probably have noticed it is milky and ranges in its thickness and odor based on a woman’s diet, overall health and the phase she is experiencing within her menstrual cycle.

Urethral ejaculate is what we are referring to when describing female ejaculation and is less common. It is the watery ejaculate that sprays or gushes out and is the one that is generally less known about. Again, this is not because only a few, special women are capable, but rather due to lack of understanding of women’s sexual health issues in this culture.

What Is In The Fluid?

Let me get the biggest myth out of the way- IT IS NOT URINE.Upon testing the liquid, scientists have found that it contains levels of glucose (sugar), and an enzyme (prostatic acidphosphatase), which is characteristic of a major component in semen. It is similar to the prostate fluid within male ejaculation but without the sperm. There are also two other substances contained in the fluid, commonly found in urine (ureaand creatinine), which are found in trace amounts. It is a unique substance, and unlike the heavier and thicker fluid that you would typically see when a woman is “wet” or has had an orgasm.

How Much Ejaculate Comes Out?

Most women can gush as much as 1.5 – 2 cups of the fluid whenejaculating. However this can be affected by how hydrated a woman is, how much she pushes while ejaculating, and other factors.

Why Don’t Most Women Know About It Or Do It?

Female ejaculation is not difficult; its techniques are just not known about by many. Because women typically don’t know about the elusive reasons they are not doing it, they are usually sabotaging their chances for gushing female ejaculate when they are having an orgasm.

One of the main reasons that women do not know they can do it is because women will often feel like they need to urinate when they are ready to expel the ejaculate and because they think that urine will come out, which it will not, they hold back. You see the G-Spot (Skenes Glands) fill up with the female ejaculate fluid and this puts pressure on the urethra (pee-tube) thus,making it feel like she has to urinate when in actuality she could ejaculate if she simply pushed instead of holding back.

There are sure-fire methods, techniques and ways to achieve it as well as overcome inhibitors, yet the issue of holding back for fear of urinating is a big factor for many women. The ejaculation techniques that I have begun training thousands of women and their partners have been quite effective and not only allow for amazing ejaculations but will also intensify any type(women are capable of eight) of orgasm to mind blowing levels.Are There Health Problems For Women Who Do It?

No, in fact that is one of the reasons I am so passionate about teaching women and their partners about female ejaculation because unlike what many think, there is nothing abnormal or unhealthy about it. Did you know that thousands of women each year are told that a normal female sexual response such as female ejaculation is a medical problem (incontinence, which it is not) or something that they should be ashamed of as they are thought to be maliciously urinating on their partner(s)?

Because women can gush as much as two cups of ejaculate, many people think that it must be urine. Often women who do not know what is happening (and there are many) are embarrassed, confused and find it to be of great concern. It does not help that most health practitioners are not informed about it as many women are being told they require surgery and/or psychotherapy for this normal female sexual response!

If there is one thing that I can stress, it is that female ejaculation is not only visually erotic, but it feels incredible to do it. The kind of sexual release that a woman feels from this powerful gush is like no other.


The Art Of Spanking

Posted in bdsm, cum, erotic, pussy, Spanking, squirt, sub-space on May 7, 2012 by thekinkyworldofvile

My Favorite thing to do when it comes to play. I never use spanking as a form of punishment . Two reasons One I love it I mean LOVE , two if you use it for play and punishment it can also confuse. This is not what we are trying to obtain in our goals set for our pets , but again everyone has there own method ..

I am highly fascinated with the female ass , what is better every ass is shaped different , a different feeling , whew .

Spanking is just not spanking be it with bare hand which I prefer , with a flogger , belt cane what ever, there is a right and wrong way during play. During play we as Dominant or Dommes are trying to bring ours to that space , that feeling of total freedom. Sub-Space. The Erotic Zone of pleasure.

She is shaking with pleasure , her pussy is soaking wet, she can hardly move her endorphins are running wild , she cannot think or hardly speak. Yes we have done our job well. This is what we as Doms or dommes want to obtain from play.

I myself prefer petite to medium builds , hey my preference , we all have them. it is not to say that I could not like someone else it has happened , and very well could again. I do not base people by there looks or there money status. The almighty  personality reins over everything, well to a point..

It is true spanking is an art, to truly learn you have to love spanking for pleasure. Kinda like eating pussy any man can eat pussy , but when you have a male or female who truly loves it, it is really hard to get rid of her after that , like a puppy following you around, and yes eating pussy is a fetish as well.

The setting has to be right , some jazz turned down low , candles lit no lights , talking to make comfortable , this is what you want to do is make them feel at ease , knowing that only good is on the way.

I prefer my bed it is just the right height , so I can bend her over her arms and palms are face down flat legs just slightly spread , yea just stand behind for sometime and admire.

I walk up and I slip the blindfold on secure it so not to fall off. I then pick up the baby oil and pour just a little in my hands and slowly rub each cheek , while talking to her , you want to know her thoughts , how she feels . Slowly rubbing each cheek you can see her ass glow in the candle light, a truly beautiful sight.

I like to stand to the side wrapping my are around her waist cupping her pussy not tight just to cover. applying a small amount of pressure to the Clit area.

I place my hand on one cheek just so my hand fits perfectly on her ass cheek , I take my hand off and smack, not hard the baby oil adds a little sting anyway, repeat , over and over a little harder each time.

You can feel her tension up if it becomes to hard, changing cheeks and repeating now as your hand is making impact you will feel her legs begin to tremble, her head goes down, your arm around her waist is for support.

Telling her shes a good girl, positive reinforcement , you then stop and cup each cheek one at a time and slowly rub , then again bringing your hand up and back down , by now her pussy is wet soaked you insert one or two fingers and apply a small amount of pressure on the G spot. and holding it. Keep the pressure on the G spot while spanking , talking to her.

Yes she has came, from pure pleasure.  Gotta love the Ass..