My new group I have created on Fetlife, the title does say it all and will greatly differ from my former group MAsT Kissimmee. While MAsT does stand for Masters and slaves together the groups main focus was not that of true master and slave relationships. How one should get started in a M’s relationship, how to find that one true partner to fit the masters needs or how to maintain a M’s relationship.
Going into the second year of MAsT Kissimmee I along with members taught classes and learned from each other but as time passed that changed to more of a guest speaker forum. I wanted to hold mentor ship programs for young dominants coming into the lifestyle. I brought it up a couple of times and it just did not come to be. This is just my own opinion about the group learning. I do enjoy having guest speakers but it should be rare.
Authority Imbalanced Relationships will focus on just that Master and slave relationships. Once I left mast I was approached by several and asked to start up a group that had one focus. Starting a M’s relationship from not only the masters view but the slaves side of things.
Once finding that one, just because one is a master and one is a slave does not mean they are a good match. There must be tons and tons of communication, you must become friends and I mean best friends before taking the next step.
Then both having to make a decision on how much control the master wants and how much the slave wants to give up.
Today slaves are being collard within a month, two months, three months. Surely the breaking the ice and getting to really know each other would take longer.
I attended a collaring ceremony last year and even though I was invited I was really not welcomed, but I am not going to get into that. Every collaring ceremony is different and is the bond of two coming together. What I may see as a proper ceremony may not be to someone one else. However I did invite someone who use be be my best friend and opened my house to hold a collaring. The ceremony went off well and with great respect and you could feel the bonding.
Most of the time ceremony’s are private and just between the two and I understand the reasoning behind it.
I suppose my idea of ownership is much different from the new and those coming into the lifestyle. My idea when it comes to ownership is complete control and no less. Before entering the relationship it is very important for both to have a full understanding of what will take place and what is expected.
You can find my new group on Fetlife, my fet name is
I_Vile_Own_Her
thekinkyworldofvile 