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If Your Slave Has Children

Posted in bdsm, Slave, Submission, Uncategorized on July 20, 2019 by thekinkyworldofvile

You enter a relationship with a slave who has children , guess what ? You get all the baggage. You entered the relationship that means you have stepped in as the father or mother if a Domme .

There are something things you have to walk lightly on though. When it comes to punishment. A male lion could not punish a mothers cubs.

This is something that has to be negotiated prior to entering a relationship. If the kids get out of hand and you believe the children should be punished you cannot demand the slave to punish. If the slave does not wish to comply with the instructions you ordered this does not make the slave less. The slave is protecting the children she had prior to you coming into the relationship.

If you are a Dom or Master with anger issues then you need to rethink your place in the lifestyle.

Just random thought..

 

Vile

 

Six years ago….

Posted in Uncategorized on June 15, 2019 by thekinkyworldofvile

This is from my slave. We just celebrated our 6th wedding anniversary this week.

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Six years ago today my life forever changed, I was collared and Married to Master Vile standing near a lighthouse on a Florida beach.

We celebrated this past week by spending a couple days away. Master went all out and spared no expense to make me feel special.

This was my view as I walked into our hotel room. It was great. It was perfect and a synonym to how I view our power dynamic. You see some people have this certain view that I got the short end of the straw. But in reality I’m blessed beyond measure. Although I have a lot of responsibilities at home with up keeping the home and maintaining full time employment and being a slave to my Master, He gives back more then He takes. It’s in those quiet intimate moments that people don’t see where I get a reassuring nod or a…

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Imagine A Perfect World

Posted in 24/7, Arianna, bdsm, Being A Dominant is 24/7 365, commitment, communication, Dominant, In Service Slave, Master And Slave, Slave, Submission, Submissive, training your slave, Uncategorized with tags , , , , on December 29, 2018 by thekinkyworldofvile

Imagine a world without any problems , or imagine a world with the perfect partner , the perfect submissive , the perfect slave , is it possible ? Imagine having zero drama , imagine no arguing , imagine receiving perfect service with no complaints , again is it possible ? Absolutely it is and more but with all of these rewards comes a little work.

The submissive or slave you have chosen to serve you was born to serve just as you the Dominant , Master or Owner were born to lead . Little did we know it would lead us down the road of kink.

Just because you meet a slave does not mean the slave is meant to be with you. Both have to have somethings in common outside of the land of kink and service , if not kink will be the only thing you have in common and the relationship will be short lived.

Knowing the slave , knowing the slave inside and out is very important before taking that step.  You have to be able to form a relationship based on friendship first , then slowly introducing kink.

If you start with kink then you have nothing else to build on , making conversation hard , making communication hard and it makes it hard for the slave to communicate when the time comes.

Nothing comes easy , everything we have we all had to work for. In a relationship if we do not work for it , at some point and time it will fall apart. Any type of relationship requires regular maintenance , if we do not in the end it will fail.

Learning to communicate is not an easy task , we all know how to talk and hear but to be able to communicate and listen requires practice but most of all it is something you have to be passionate about.

The problem with most D’s or M’s relationships just starting , is the lack of compatibility. If either have a need or needs and you give one or more up during the negotiations , in the end you will not be happy. Just because you are submissive does not mean you have found the right Dom and you can reverse that as well. As humans it is a need to have a companion and at times we tend to settle for less knowing its not going to work.

Try to picture a perfect world , your own world , a world you have complete control over , then you add the perfect relationship and both are attainable.

Meeting leaving sex out of the conversation is a must , and while it is hard to do it will prevent you from reaching your goal.  Knowing who you are trying to form a relationship with is most important. The problem is most men see someone who is submissive as weak and that is far from the truth. Men are natural hunters , the hunt then the kill and its over you move to the next.

I cannot stress enough on how much training will make a difference. One of the first words out of a Doms mouth is I am going to train you , then nothing happens. Training is mental not just for the submissive but the dominant as well. The training you used on the last will not work with any future relationships. The personality’s are different , the needs are different and the structure needed.

Making your slave your number one priority , the slave comes first and yes before family and friends. The life you have always wanted is right in front of you but now there are things that will come to an end. The life you have always wanted is kneeling right before you , hands face up laying in lap. It is you who has made the decision to take ownership.

Molding the slave to fit your needs and wants can happen but as with any relationship you have to put work into it , but living a Master and slave relationship will be much different. While in a vanilla relationship you did not train your partner.

You are going to mold your slave , walking , talking , how the slave stands and sits , even when it comes to sex. You will control how the slave dresses if clothed , hair color and nails.

I have always been a firm believer to train a slave you have to be able to reach out and touch , be able to look into the slaves eyes , the eyes tell all , the eyes tell the truth. I have not seen to many LDR relationships really work. Although today you have email , text , face time , you are still not in 100% control. Again I did not say all , just from my experience.

During the negotiations you present your needs and wants . Since you have I would assume giving the two a great deal of thought then you should stick to your guns. Once you give up one need you have become fair game and you will lose other needs or wants.

When out at local events there are those who take notice. When out I have 3 protocols that are followed. 1 do not speak to anyone even if spoken to , 2 speak when spoken to and 3 you are free to speak and have fun. People take notice how the slave stands , sits , how one is dressed , hair makeup. My slave is a direct reflection of me and my training , and when out my slave dresses like she is walking the red carpet.

I do not have to explain myself when I maybe change a rule or add a protocol but my slave may ask for clarification.

You the Dominant can have the life you want but as with anything nothing is free.

Vile

 

 

 

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The Year 2082

Posted in bdsm, Master And Slave, sadist, Slave, Slave being used, Slave school, Submission, Uncategorized with tags , , , , on July 4, 2018 by thekinkyworldofvile

President Vile

 

Just after the great war in the united states we find the country divided into 3 different sections. Section 1 the Democratic freedom choice. Where people are treated equal , then we have the Religious free state , where all of the Christians come together in hopes of building a better life. The last is the Brotherhood Alliance Coalition , this is where there are strict laws when it comes to female behavior. Women from the two other states who are rebellious are sent to the Brotherhood to live and be reprogrammed. The Brotherhood is the last place a woman no matter the age wants to be sent , the sentence is a lifetime without the possibility of parole.

Women are sent to training camps and each serve a purpose , for those who are single will have a locking red collar placed around the neck showing they are single and available for marriage. The camps the slaves are sent to determines the needs at the time for the Brotherhood. Camps are labeled , Service , teaching , secretarial , book keeping and general care. These camps last one year with zero failure rate , failure is not a option and there are consequences for those who do not perform. The first 6 months of training is to learn a trade this includes cooking. The second 6 months the slave will be trained for proper sexual activity on how to please a master , this will also include some pain in case your Master is a sadist.

The married slaves are broken down into three different groups but these groups are determined by the Brotherhoods laws. The groups are as follows , the silver locking collar are for those who have working class Masters , the gold collars are for the slaves who have been given to the white collar workers and finely the platinum collars are for the slaves who are married to the Brotherhood government officials. While waiting to be placed in a home after training the slave has no say with whom she will be placed with. On her graduation day she will be cuffed and placed in a caged wagon and put on display for the city of the Brotherhood to witness. This only happens twice a year so there are Masters who have been waiting patiently for that knock on the door. There are cheers in the streets as the slaves pass the huge crowds of people , after all this is something to br proud of yes?

The Master is sent 2 different BIO’s along with pictures in different poses , nude of course and the Master this go around can only pick one. In the Brotherhood as long as a Master can afford the upkeep , a Master may marry more than one slave. The Bio includes a break down of test scores , sexual talents to include your best services maybe Oral , Anal , maybe a masochist and the most important scores are service in general, cooking cleaning and hosting when friends are over.

No Married slave is allowed to have sexual relations with another Master or a single Master waiting for a slave. If the law is broken the slave is then returned for training for another year and her Current Master’s marriage will be voided and he will be giving a new slave.

If at any point the slave shows any signs of not wanting to serve or gets mouthy , the slave is returned to training and reconditioning for a period of one year,

Once the slave arrives at her new owners residence her only purpose in life now is to serve and please her new owner and she will only bear children if the owner wishes to. The slaves only rights are the rights giving to her by her new owner.

Once girls reach the age of 18 they will be placed in training camps with no choice of camps , the choice is made by the Brotherhood. The first 3 months of training the slave will be placed in a small 4×4 cell with only a mattress , one cover and no pillow. There is a small toilet for use but everything is monitored by staff. Once the slave arrives at the camp she is striped of all clothing and giving a full medical exam to insure the slave is in good heath , if not then slave is then sent to one of the two states because she has been deemed unfit to serve in the Brotherhood Alliance.

While out and shopping no clothing is allowed , when the slave arrived for training all clothes were taken from her , stripping her of her identity. The slave was giving a new name also taking her identity away along with a number tattooed on her neck in plain view.

The slaves only purpose is to serve her Master be it domestic or sexual its all service.

Hmmmm could be interesting ?

 

 

Secret lives and the not so secret advertising

Posted in Uncategorized on June 19, 2018 by thekinkyworldofvile

From my slave , check her out

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I usually come up with the title of the blog prior to me writing it. This leads to getting off topic but then at the last minute pulling everything together.

Looks can be deceiving. Never judge a book by its cover but I do. If I looked at me I would think, confident happy bitch. People at work are surprised to see me on my bad days. Or are astonished that I can fall apart like most others. Even better then others.

I don’t keep my power exchange a secret but I don’t hide it either. If people ask I usually tell them or give hints and clues. Let them conclude in their imagination. A tease? Maybe. Interesting? Definitely.

We’ve recently have been frequenting a swingers/nudist/sex resort. It’s awesome although I find myself in a place where I don’t necessarily want to be labeled that. Sure we are in a…

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Arianna’s take on anal sex

Posted in Uncategorized on January 7, 2018 by thekinkyworldofvile

My slave gives her opinion on Anal sex.

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Some things are just meant to have a commentary. I’m giving my take on my Masters blog on ‘ The Kinky World of Vile’ from his January 6th blog titled, Anal sex and submission.

So, during our negotiations my Master did ask me my thoughts on anal sex. It was a need for Him. I said that I didn’t mind it, especially if done slowly it can be downright enjoyable. I do believe that it is a very submissive act. For myself, it puts me in a loss of control head space. Meaning, that I do not control what’s going on.

My Master has needs and I am here to fulfill those. He mentioned in his blog about ATM. For those who are scratching their heads, it stands for Ass To Mouth. That’s not my favorite but I do not classify it as scat play. Some may but I don’t.

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I Am Going To Vent

Posted in bdsm, Ego, egotistical, Unanswered Emails, Uncategorized on January 7, 2018 by thekinkyworldofvile

I was recently contacted by someone who wants to start a MAsT Chapter. I was asked to provide the information I supplied when I requested my own MAsT. Those of you who do not know what MAsT stands for it is Masters And Slaves Together. MAsT provides education throughout the community.

http://www.mast.net/

MAsT exists as an education, support and resource group for individuals involved in, or interested in, the Master/slave lifestyle.

MAsT provides an opportunity and forum for like-minded individuals to come together for discussion of issues that concern Masters and slaves, to share ideas and gain and/or share knowledge of the Master/slave lifestyle.

I am approaching my 3rd year and I was recently appointed Assistant Regional Representative. This is truly an honor and I hope to provide the best service I can and continue to grow within the organization.

I explained in my email there was no information to provide everything was done online. My slave sat down with me and we both worked on the application.

I responded to the email and heard nothing , so I emailed again offering any assistance I could , I wanted to help and walk through the process. Still no reply and again I emailed and again and again with no response. So because I did not provide information that did not exist I was no longer good enough for him , because I would not provide him with my answers I was no longer good enough for a response.

Just like last year , from time to time I enjoy doing interviews with those who are Dominant and submissive. It gives us a look into someones life. So I approached this Dominant and the only way he would consent to a interview is if he was allowed to provide me with questions he had already had typed out along with the answers .So in a sense the interview was fake. I am not sure why I went along with the process but I did.

This is exactly what I have been talking about the egos of the great Dominants whos arrogance gets in the way. I received a email but I was beneath him to respond , he is so much better than I am. How long does it take to respond to a email? 45 seconds maybe a minute?

I do not understand why some people act like a child more so coming from a Dominant. We are suppose to be working together but again these big bad ego’s. This is not the first time this has happened , several months ago I was emailed and again I replied with no answer and I just shrugged it off.

Things are finally coming together and I will shortly be starting the creation of the House of ******. Along with that, I also plan to start a MAsT chapter in Milford, PA.

I would greatly appreciate it if I could get copies of the materials you submitted to MAsT. It would be helpful in seeing how someone else drafted their vision and goals, for submission.

Again there were no copies of anything.

 

I would like to start a Fetlife MAsT group and advertise our first meeting but don’t know if that would be a violation.. to advertise before a certain point. At what point did you start to advertise?

Looking forward to hearing from you.

Hello Sir
I apologize it has taking me so long to get back to you.

There were no saved copies of my submission being everything is done on line.

If you need help please reach out to me.

Vile

Sir did you get my last email?
I hope you had a awesome New year’s

Vile

Sent from my iPhone

You cannot start advertising until you have been advised your chapter has been awarded.
The whole process can take anywhere from 60 to 90 days.

During the process you can contact the regional and he will keep you informed.

Vile

The MAsT formation is not Guaranteed.
There are interviews , and references of at least two leaders in the community and two personal friends in the community.

Vile

Ok man

Sent from my iPhone

I sent several follow up emails and nothing , zero , now his first email was on the 27th. I did not think it would of been proper to disclose his email. I would of called but I cant call I have to text first and I have to be verified before we can setup a time for me to call.

Okay I am finished venting , I will not cast my vote .

Vile